
Simone Biles Says She Used To Worry About Her Hair But Isn't 'Embarrassed About It Anymore'

As a Black woman, learning to love and embrace our hair is a rite of passage, and Simone Biles is exemplifying this journey.
In a July interview with Elle, the world-class gymnast discussed the backlash she’s faced over her hairstyles, particularly noting past worries about her hair being seen as “unprofessional” in the gym.
Growing up, Biles shares that her demanding schedule as an elite gymnast didn't allow much time to learn how to do her own hair; often going to salons for convenience. “Nobody taught me [how to do my hair],” she told the publication. “I always went to the professionals.”
Thanks to the help of social media and YouTube, Biles learned the basis of haircare and styling; emphasizing the value of these platforms in elevating better self-care and beauty routines. “We’ve been able to take care of our hair better and take care of our beauty routines better, because it’s self-taught,” she says. “It’s really special that we have access to those platforms.”
As a 4-time Olympic gold medalist, gymnastics remains her top priority, still, Biles shares that a recent interest in haircare has become a fun way to express herself. “I never thought about my hair like the way other people see it,” she says.
While in Paris, Biles says that her hairstyles will be based on maintenance needs, product availability, and of course, practicality. “I don’t want my extensions falling out or this that [and] the other,” she says, since, “We don’t get to bring a makeup artist or a hairstylist.”
If you thought leaps and flips were the only talents that Biles and her Team USA teammates shared, add hair styling to the mix. Jordan Chiles, also competing in the Paris Olympic Games, is said to double as her teammates’s “unofficial” hairstylist. “She’s the [hair] braider on the team,” Biles says. “We can all go to her for braids.”
This teamwork extends to beauty preparations, with all five gymnasts sharing the responsibility of bringing different beauty items to the Games. Biles notes the importance of not overusing hair products during competitions to avoid flaking and dirt. “When we put it together, we got everything we need,” Biles says. “You don’t want to put too much product in your hair to the point where it starts flaking and gets dirty,” she explains. Proving that teamwork does, in fact, make the dream work.
When you’re winning gold medals, having new gravity-defying routines named after you, and singlehandedly redefining the sport of gymnastics simply based on your athleticism, who has time for criticism about hair? While it was once an insecurity for Biles, she says, now, she’s just not worried about it.
“I used to worry about [my hair being considered] not professional,” she says. “But I’m not embarrassed about it anymore.”
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Aley Arion is a writer and digital storyteller from the South, currently living in sunny Los Angeles. Her site, yagirlaley.com, serves as a digital diary to document personal essays, cultural commentary, and her insights into the Black Millennial experience. Follow her at @yagirlaley on all platforms!
Devale Ellis On Being A Provider, Marriage Growth & Redefining Fatherhood
In this candid episode of the xoMAN podcast, host Kiara Walker talked with Devale Ellis, actor, social media personality, and star of Zatima, about modern masculinity, learning to be a better husband, emotional presence in marriage, fatherhood for Black men, and leading by example.
“I Wasn’t Present Emotionally”: Devale Ellis on Marriage Growth
Devale Ellis On Learning He Was a ‘Bad Husband’
Ellis grew up believing that a man should prioritize providing for his family. “I know this may come off as misogynistic, but I feel like it’s my responsibility as a man to pay for everything,” he said, emphasizing the wise guidance passed down by his father. However, five years into his marriage to long-time partner Khadeen Ellis, he realized provision wasn’t just financial.
“I was a bad husband because I wasn’t present emotionally… I wasn’t concerned about what she needed outside of the resources.”
Once he shifted his mindset, his marriage improved. “In me trying to be of service to her, I learned that me being of service created a woman who is now willing to be of service to me.”
On Redefining Masculinity and Fatherhood
For Ellis, “being a man is about being consistent.” As a father of four, he sees parenthood as a chance to reshape the future.
“Children give you another chance at life. I have four different opportunities right now to do my life all over again.”
He also works to uplift young Black men, reinforcing their worth in a world that often undermines them. His values extend to his career—Ellis refuses to play roles that involve domestic violence or sexual assault.
On Marriage, Family Planning, and Writing His Story
After his wife’s postpartum preeclampsia, Ellis chose a vasectomy over her taking hormonal birth control, further proving his commitment to their partnership. He and Khadeen share their journey in We Over Me, and his next book, Raising Kings: How Fatherhood Saved Me From Myself, is on the way.
Through honesty and growth, Devale Ellis challenges traditional ideas of masculinity, making his story one that resonates deeply with millennial women.
For the xoMAN podcast, host Kiara Walker peels back the layers of masculinity with candid conversations that challenge stereotypes and celebrate vulnerability. Real men. Real stories. Real talk.
Want more real talk from xoMAN? Catch the full audio episodes every Tuesday on Spotify and Apple Podcasts, and don’t miss the full video drops every Wednesday on YouTube. Hit follow, subscribe, and stay tapped in.
Featured image by YouTube/xoNecole
Devale Ellis On Being A Provider, Marriage Growth & Redefining Fatherhood
In this candid episode of the xoMAN podcast, host Kiara Walker talked with Devale Ellis, actor, social media personality, and star of Zatima, about modern masculinity, learning to be a better husband, emotional presence in marriage, fatherhood for Black men, and leading by example.
“I Wasn’t Present Emotionally”: Devale Ellis on Marriage Growth
Devale Ellis On Learning He Was a ‘Bad Husband’
Ellis grew up believing that a man should prioritize providing for his family. “I know this may come off as misogynistic, but I feel like it’s my responsibility as a man to pay for everything,” he said, emphasizing the wise guidance passed down by his father. However, five years into his marriage to long-time partner Khadeen Ellis, he realized provision wasn’t just financial.
“I was a bad husband because I wasn’t present emotionally… I wasn’t concerned about what she needed outside of the resources.”
Once he shifted his mindset, his marriage improved. “In me trying to be of service to her, I learned that me being of service created a woman who is now willing to be of service to me.”
On Redefining Masculinity and Fatherhood
For Ellis, “being a man is about being consistent.” As a father of four, he sees parenthood as a chance to reshape the future.
“Children give you another chance at life. I have four different opportunities right now to do my life all over again.”
He also works to uplift young Black men, reinforcing their worth in a world that often undermines them. His values extend to his career—Ellis refuses to play roles that involve domestic violence or sexual assault.
On Marriage, Family Planning, and Writing His Story
After his wife’s postpartum preeclampsia, Ellis chose a vasectomy over her taking hormonal birth control, further proving his commitment to their partnership. He and Khadeen share their journey in We Over Me, and his next book, Raising Kings: How Fatherhood Saved Me From Myself, is on the way.
Through honesty and growth, Devale Ellis challenges traditional ideas of masculinity, making his story one that resonates deeply with millennial women.
For the xoMAN podcast, host Kiara Walker peels back the layers of masculinity with candid conversations that challenge stereotypes and celebrate vulnerability. Real men. Real stories. Real talk.
Want more real talk from xoMAN? Catch the full audio episodes every Tuesday on Spotify and Apple Podcasts, and don’t miss the full video drops every Wednesday on YouTube. Hit follow, subscribe, and stay tapped in.
Featured image by YouTube/xoNecole