
There's nothing like the feeling you get when your hair is done. It can instantly boost your confidence and put you in a great mood. I've never been a stranger to hair trends and I often experiment with the latest braided styles and colors.
But there are moments when I just don't feel like doing my hair. I'm natural and a lot of times I will braid or twist my hair up and cover it with a scarf or turban. However, when I crave a different look without the hassle of styling, I reach for a wig.
I've always had a love-hate relationship with wigs. Sometimes, I struggle to get them to lay flat and don't get me started with the bonding glue process. So when it comes to wearing wigs, I like to keep it nice and breezy around this b--- (word to Katt Williams), especially in the summertime.
That's why I jumped at the chance to try these three versatile wigs from Luvme Hair. Each one offers a unique look and is surprisingly low maintenance, which aligns perfectly with my philosophy that wearing wigs should make life easier. Let’s dive into the three styles below.
Headband Wig

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This was the first wig I tried on, and I instantly fell in love with it. So much so that it took me weeks to even consider trying the other two. I’m partial to colored hair, especially blonds, browns, and reds, so I was skeptical about the jet black hair. However, I think the color, combined with the curl pattern, worked surprisingly well for me.
One of the things I really liked about this wig was that I didn’t have to braid my hair down first. I could simply throw it over a low ponytail, which is the epitome of a low-maintenance style. The headband has combs inside and velcro on the ends, ensuring a secure fit.
Half Wig

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I had never worn a half wig before, so I faced some challenges. I cornrowed the bottom half of my hair where the wig would sit, but I believe this made it more difficult to use the combs. It might just be me though. I straightened the top part of my hair to blend it with the wig, which looked cute for about five minutes.
Firstly, I have a brown/blonde color mix on the ends of my hair, and the half wig is black. So, I had to hide some of the color (I didn’t have time to dye the wig). Secondly, straightening my hair myself is always a hassle because it never lasts long. Add to that the summer humidity, and you get a hot mess. Despite all this, I managed to get some cute pictures before things got out of control, and that’s all that matters, right?
Would I consider this a low-maintenance hair style? Yes and no. I think it’s unrealistic for me during the summer, especially since I enjoy summer activities. However, when the weather cools down, I’ll definitely rock it, dyed, of course.
Bob

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Now, this is the wig I was nervous about. I never had a bob and I didn't think I would like it. But once I put bobiana on, my mind instantly changed. I finally understood why the gworls rave about the bob so much. It was giving boss. It was giving grown woman. It was giving the bob means business. Iykyk. It was the ultimate statement.
I will say when I first put it on, one side of my wig just would not lay flat. It took some trial and error, but I finally managed to get it to look good. With the bob, I highly recommend braiding your hair down first as small as you can so it can lay as flat as possible. I really liked the ash blonde color, which is perfect for summer. The length also makes it a great low-maintenance style for the season, so you don't have to worry about the hair making your neck sweaty.
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Before getting married and becoming a mother, Danielle Brooks was just fine focusing on her career.
“I did not want children,” Brooks shared on the first episode of Pregnant Pause, a new podcast for Black women at the intersection of motherhood and ambition. “I was one of those women who believed I was not gonna be married and I was not gonna have kids, and I was ok with that.”
But after meeting her now husband Dennis Gelin, The Color Purple actress had second thoughts about building a family. And one moment in particular rocked her world and changed her mind.
While playing the role of Sophia in The Color Purple on Broadway and playing Tasha “Taystee” Jefferson on the Netflix series Orange is the New Black, Brooks shared she struggled with severe acne and decided to get on Accutane. However, because it is a potent teratogen, meaning it can cause significant harm to a developing fetus, experts warn the retinoid medication should never be taken during pregnancy due to the high risk of severe birth defects. When Brooks found out she was pregnant while taking the medication she realized she did, in fact, want a child.
“I will never forget, when I saw that pregnancy test, I broke down,” she said. “And it wasn’t out of fear. I broke down because I realized I wanted to be a mom, and that option was no longer on the table in this moment. And it shocked the hell out of me.”
Brooks eventually had her daughter Freeya in November 2019, and got married in 2022. Today she juggles her career with being a wife and mother and got real on how hard it can be but how necessary it is to pull back at times.
“There are moments in motherhood, in marriage, in life that you need stillness,” she said. “And I’m learning that that is ok and beautiful.”
Watch her full interview on the Pregnant Pause Podcast here, or listen to the episode on Apple, Spotify, iHeart or where you listen to podcasts.
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What Does A Big Chop Have To Do With Your Career Success? Maybe Everything.
From declaring it a sexy scalp summer to being buzzed and booked, many Black women are revisiting an empowering rite of passage with short haircuts that have been trending all summer.
If you’ve scrolled through TikTok or IG Reels lately, you’ve probably seen it: clippers buzzing, curls falling, edges getting freed. The big chop is not just in a nostalgic, “Remember when we all went natural back in 2001” kind of way. It’s a modern-day reckoning.
While big chopping is nothing new—and can include both curly and straight choices—Black women today are snipping off more than damaged or weighty hair this time around. Many of us are cutting ties with the stress of career setbacks, unemployment, and underemployment.
For Black women especially, the chop is about reclaiming power when everything feels out of our control. It’s a ritual of release—like saging your crown. We’re saying goodbye to old versions of ourselves, outdated beauty standards, and the weight of being “on” all the time.
We’ve lived through a pandemic, confrontations around race and gender, “crashout burnout” culture, and the quiet grief of dreams delayed. The unemployment rate for Black women is disproportionately high, lingering at 6 percent (double that of White professionals—a record).
Take inspiring examples like that of Joy Reid, award-winning journalist and author who, earlier this year, was fired from MSNBC where she was host of The ReidOut after serving in the role for five years, tackling real conversations around race, equity, culture, and the U.S. systems minorities are constantly navigating.
Throughout the show’s time—as many of us do in the workplace—Joy Reid wore her hair in a plethora of styles, from tapered curly 'dos, to chin-length waves, to braided extensions. This was all while being the first Black woman to anchor a primetime cable news show, winning awards, and raking in top ratings at the onset.
The fallout of her MSNBC departure was public, and Joy unapologetically shared, via a recorded Zoom call, that she'd “been through every emotion, from anger, rage, disappointment, hurt.” Since then, according to a recent interview, she’s fully leaned into the short blond natural she’d debuted on MSNBC last year, and still proudly rocks it while hosting The Joy Reid Show podcast, which launched this June. “I finally did it, and I love it, and it’s so fun,” she said in the interview. “I think we’ve been so kind of tormented about our hair as Black women, and our hair has always been political. It used to be illegal for us to wear braids—or not illegal, but people could fire you for wearing braids.”
“I definitely had the anxiety of, how is this going to go over? You know, go over with my audience. And so we think about it all,” she continued, adding that she feels free.
There’s a specific kind of emotional alchemy that happens when Black women cut their hair, especially in a career transition.
Whether it’s walking away from a toxic workplace, stepping into entrepreneurship, or pivoting into a more purpose-aligned path, the big chop becomes a visible, visceral declaration: I am not who I was when I started this job. Hell, I’m not defined by a job—period.
Joy joins many other powerful Black women who have shown the world that short hair can be both evolutionary and revolutionary in one’s personal and professional life. Halle Berry, Toni Braxton, Rihanna, Yvonne Orji, Solange, Grace Jones, Keke Palmer—they all took bold, very public steps that redefine what self-care, healing and thriving can look like. Congresswoman Ayanna Pressley publicly shared her challenges with alopecia in 2020 and has since continued to proudly embrace her bald head as part of her in-office style.
These women didn’t need a haircut to shine—the talent was already there. But let’s be real: Grace, Halle, and Toni’s iconic short haircuts didn’t just turn heads, they turned their careers up a notch. The crown wasn’t the source, but it was a spotlight. A fresh cut can’t make you—but it sure can let the world know you’ve arrived.
I recently went back to short and natural after a stretch of wearing wigs and extensions and losing clients left and right due to diversity budget cuts. I’ve had to make a major pivot in my career, and it’s hard enough rewriting resumes, tweaking proposals, rebounding from constant rejection, and piecing my mental health back together after constantly second-guessing why I don’t just give up and do something cyber-based and strange for a lil’ change.
The last thing I need right now—in this economy and wacky job market—is high-maintenance hair. Happily, it’s just curls, water, gel, and go—a sharp, short TWA that keeps me grounded and makes me pop. No stress, all presence.
So, if you’re on the professional edge (literally and figuratively), wondering why you’re stuck in a wacky Twilight Zone episode in your career, think about letting that hair go.
It’s true: A big chop is no magic wand to cure all your job search or career advancement woes. And it by no means will reverse the troubling socioeconomic and political conditions we’re living in right now. The dilemmas many of us are facing are harsh, terrifying and exhausting. Yes.
But if you’re constantly hitting career walls and you’re at your wits end, maybe your scalp deserves a bit of sunlight. In 2025, the big chop isn’t a breakdown—it’s a supporting character in your career breakthrough. And it’s reminding us—Black women— that we can reintroduce ourselves at any length. No warning. No permission. Just vibes, clippers, and clarity.
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