Would You Take A Compatibility Test Before Going On A Date? This Couple Did.
It's that time of year, ladies. The fall has arrived, chill winds and temp drops are here (or on their way), and bae applications are officially open for submission and review. For some, boo is already here and ready to cozy up for the winter. For the rest of us, it's continuing to hit the pavement to see who can fit into our lives.
Caribbean YouTuber, Tanaania, previously did a haul video where she invited a friend of hers, Estefan along to rate her outfits. Their chemistry translated so well on camera, that viewers immediately noticed and suggested that they go on a date. Soon, he was invited back for a second time to let the universe decide if they were even worth each other's time. How so? By taking an on-air compatibility test!
Would You Take A Compatibility Test Before Going On A Date?
COMPATIBILITY TEST with Estafan | TANAANIAwww.youtube.com
If you're unfamiliar, a compatibility test, also referred to as a personality test, is basically a series of questions that people answer about themselves, others, and behaviors or beliefs adapted over time, just to get a more in-depth sense of who that person is. These tests are usually taken by couples currently in relationships, offering them a chance to get a better glimpse into what's in store for the future.
Both Tanaania and Estefan each were initially skeptical, but decided to move forward, anyway.
A few of the compatibility questions included:
- What should a healthy relationship provide for people in it?
- Are you a spender or a saver?
- Are you quick to forgive?
- Should couples split the financial responsibilities?
Tanaaina/YouTube
Eventually, as they continued, they learned more about each other including if they preferred Instagram or Twitter, how they would rate their sex drive, and if they could see themselves married in three years—which they each had very different opinions about. After a bit of a disagreement, Estefan said:
"You should see yourself getting married. Being married should be such a beautiful thing, I believe. That's how beautiful things happen."
He then asked if her parents were still married, to which she replied "yes". "See? That is beautiful. That's what I want. I want years. I see marriage, I see a lot of things, you know?"
Would they be compatible?
Well...maybe. Once the test was over, Tanaaina reveals her thoughts on the possibility of a date and says that they will likely go on one, mostly because they had some things in common. She followed up with, "And he looks good!"
Estefan:
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Whew.
Tanaania, you better snatch him up, sis! And we want updates!
Be sure to follow Tanaania [@tanaania] and Estefan [@_estefan] on Instagram to find out what happens next. Also, be sure to subscribe to Tanaania's YouTube Channel for more fashion, travel, fitness, and beauty vlogs.
Feature image via Tanaaina/YouTube
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Charmin Michelle is a southern native and creative spirit who works as a content marketer and events manager in Chicago. She enjoys traveling, #SummertimeChi, and the journey of mastering womanhood. Connect with her on Instagram @charminmichelle.
ItGirl 100 Honors Black Women Who Create Culture & Put On For Their Cities
As they say, create the change you want to see in this world, besties. That’s why xoNecole linked up with Hyundai for the inaugural ItGirl 100 List, a celebration of 100 Genzennial women who aren’t afraid to pull up their own seats to the table. Across regions and industries, these women embody the essence of discovering self-value through purpose, honey! They're fierce, they’re ultra-creative, and we know they make their cities proud.
VIEW THE FULL ITGIRL 100 LIST HERE.
Don’t forget to also check out the ItGirl Directory, featuring 50 Black-woman-owned marketing and branding agencies, photographers and videographers, publicists, and more.
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I. An ItGirl puts on for her city and masters her self-worth through purpose.
II. An ItGirl celebrates all the things that make her unique.
III. An ItGirl empowers others to become the best versions of themselves.
IV. An ItGirl leads by example, inspiring others through her actions and integrity.
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Rihanna Talks Shedding Expectations And Finding Balance As A Mother
Since becoming a mother in 2022, Rihanna has defined parenthood by her terms and hopes to pass that sense of autonomy on to her children.
For Vogue China’s April cover story, Rihanna shared her perspective on raising her two sons with A$AP Rocky, and how she hopes to preserve her children’s uniqueness, devoid of societal expectations.
"The most beautiful thing...is that [children] come into the world with their own individuality and sincerity, without any logic or conformity,” she told the publication. “Which usually makes you feel that you must fit into a certain group."
The “Work” artist, known for her trendsetting style and captivating persona, expressed her desire to support children in fully embracing their individuality and encouraging them to be whoever they want to be. "It's really beautiful to see and I want to continue to help them navigate that and make sure that they know they can be whoever they want to be,” she says.
She continues, “They should embrace it completely, because it's beautiful, and it's unique. I love them just that way."
From shattering music charts to shaking up the beauty industry, Rihanna has forged a path that has since created the “dream” life we see today. One that she says has made her parents proud of.
“I’m living my dream,” she continued. “My parents were very proud of that because they just wanted me to be happy and successful. So, I think the key thing is to find some kind of balance. Yes, balance is important. Do this and you get the best of both worlds. You can write your own life the way you want, and it will be beautiful. Sometimes, you just need to let go of everyone’s expectations and start living your own story.”
Rihanna, who shares sons, RZA, 23 months, and Riot, 8 months, with rapper A$AP Rocky, recently shared her vision for expanding her family in the future in Interview Magazine.
When stylist Mel Ottenberg asked about the number of additional children she hoped to have, Rihanna replied, "As many as God wants me to have.”
"I don't know what God wants, but I would go for more than two. I would try for my girl,” she adds. “But of course, if it's another boy, it's another boy."
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