Experience Is The New Black: Does My Degree Even Matter?
What a time to be alive.
From YouTube vloggers and podcasts to social media influencers, it's the age of the entrepreneur.
If something isn't happening for you, you can make it happen for yourself, and on your own terms. It's that simple. And while I love living in this time of inspiration and limitless possibilities, I feel like my Master's Degree is just collecting dust. I literally wouldn't even know where to start looking if I needed to find it right now.
This has really made me question whether I should have gone for it in the first place. It hurts to say that, considering Sallie Mae refuses to let me be great after I took out loans for an advanced education. But a graduate degree and even a Bachelor's Degree doesn't seem to hold the weight that it used to. Was it worth it? There are times where I am not so sure.
We all know experience is the new chick that everyone seems to be eyeing right now. So, does my Master's Degree even matter? If you have a Master's or are thinking about pursuing a Master's in the future, here are 4 things to keep in mind:
Back To The Basics
Drake's multiple shout outs for Black educated women wasn't the only reason I went to graduate school. To back track, I was so excited to get offered my first job weeks before I even graduated from college with a Bachelor of Arts in Advertising. But it didn't take long for me to realize I wasn't happy in my first full-time gig. Let's just say sales is definitely not my strength.
During this time, I started to reflect and think about what I really wanted to do with my life, and what dreams I had that I was too afraid to go after. It didn't take long for me to realize that I wanted to work behind-the-scenes in media. But I thought there was no way I could just jump into that right away. I looked up different graduate programs and came across a Journalism one at Columbia College Chicago. I applied after the deadline, so I was shocked when I got accepted.
I went to graduate school because I felt like I needed more knowledge on a topic that I didn't get in undergrad. Considering this, I really believe I made the right decision because of my career change. Please don't ask why I even got a degree in Advertising to begin with. I was all over the place back then.
I Got The Experience Anyway
The experience I actually received in grad school, is what prepared me for life after. The program I enrolled in was rigorous to say the least. It didn't help that it was based on a subject I had no interest in at the time – public affairs AKA Blah. But I figured if I could write about that, I could write about anything.
Thankfully, I was right. I learned how to write articles on tight deadlines, find a story to tell in nearly any situation, and most importantly, discovered my voice as a writer. In hindsight, I surely wasn't ready to work for anyone's publication without this experience. If I had to give anyone advice on whether to attend graduate school, I would definitely tell them if they want to go, find a program that's hands-on that way you gain experience while getting your learn on.
It Got Me To Where I Am
I started to get real experience outside of college when I attended a panel the school hosted that featured local magazine editors. I connected with a woman who ran her own magazine, and started writing for it for free. While it was my first unpaid contributing role as a writer, I was able to do celebrity interviews and get into the entertainment and lifestyle side of media, which was truly my passion. Thankfully, I could actually apply those skills I learned in class to writing for that publication. Plus, it helped me get a handful of writing samples that would be needed to write for other sites.
Over time, I got better and found that I absolutely loved it. I remember telling someone about it and they told me I should start looking for paid positions. I never even knew that was a possibility. I just knew I loved to write and that I wanted to do it as much as I could. I applied for a few positions and soon found that I could make just as money writing as I could at nearly any other job that I went after.
Make It Work For You
I'll never forget the day one of my former bosses gave me a major side eye when I told her I had my Master's and followed it up with how much I was making. It's safe to say the dollars weren't adding up. But I partially blamed myself because I didn't value my advanced degree. I even thought about taking it off my resume because I didn't want to turn off employers. Talk about desperate. Then I realized that I worked hard for that thing and anybody who wanted to hire me would know what I was bringing to the table with me.
Ultimately, my Master's Degree proved to be worth it. It was what I needed to experience on my journey to achieving my dreams. It not only helped me develop the skills I needed, but it was a time in life where I really found myself and my voice. There's no way I would be who I am now, or even have those life-changing moments to write about, if I didn't go to graduate school. Clearly, it's not for everyone. College period isn't for everyone.
And while graduate school might have been so last season, before experience hit the runway, I have to admit I'm glad I could get in where I fit in.
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Charmaine Patterson is a journalist, lifestyle blogger, and a lover of all things pop culture. While she has much experience in covering top entertainment news stories, she aims to share her everyday life experiences, old and new, with other women who can relate, laugh, and love along with her. Follow Char on Twitter @charjpatterson, Instagram @charpatterson, and keep up with her journey at CharJPatterson.com .
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Rihanna Talks Shedding Expectations And Finding Balance As A Mother
Since becoming a mother in 2022, Rihanna has defined parenthood by her terms and hopes to pass that sense of autonomy on to her children.
For Vogue China’s April cover story, Rihanna shared her perspective on raising her two sons with A$AP Rocky, and how she hopes to preserve her children’s uniqueness, devoid of societal expectations.
"The most beautiful thing...is that [children] come into the world with their own individuality and sincerity, without any logic or conformity,” she told the publication. “Which usually makes you feel that you must fit into a certain group."
The “Work” artist, known for her trendsetting style and captivating persona, expressed her desire to support children in fully embracing their individuality and encouraging them to be whoever they want to be. "It's really beautiful to see and I want to continue to help them navigate that and make sure that they know they can be whoever they want to be,” she says.
She continues, “They should embrace it completely, because it's beautiful, and it's unique. I love them just that way."
From shattering music charts to shaking up the beauty industry, Rihanna has forged a path that has since created the “dream” life we see today. One that she says has made her parents proud of.
“I’m living my dream,” she continued. “My parents were very proud of that because they just wanted me to be happy and successful. So, I think the key thing is to find some kind of balance. Yes, balance is important. Do this and you get the best of both worlds. You can write your own life the way you want, and it will be beautiful. Sometimes, you just need to let go of everyone’s expectations and start living your own story.”
Rihanna, who shares sons, RZA, 23 months, and Riot, 8 months, with rapper A$AP Rocky, recently shared her vision for expanding her family in the future in Interview Magazine.
When stylist Mel Ottenberg asked about the number of additional children she hoped to have, Rihanna replied, "As many as God wants me to have.”
"I don't know what God wants, but I would go for more than two. I would try for my girl,” she adds. “But of course, if it's another boy, it's another boy."
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