At some point in your life, you've probably encountered media or advertising imagery where you felt left out, unheard, or unseen. It's common to flip through popular platforms and never see someone that you connect with - or even someone that seems real. When are key players in beauty going to take notice and really do something about it?
In their new campaign, Project #ShowUs, Dove, in partnership with Girlgaze, a platform for female and nonbinary creatives, and stock image conglomerate Getty Images, is on a mission to change that reality and help women define beauty on their own terms. Project #ShowUs is the world's largest photo library created by self-identifying female and non-binary individuals to shatter beauty stereotypes. With over 5,000 (and counting) images, the collection offers a more inclusive vision of beauty to media and advertisers to use in content that reaches women globally.
With over 70% of women feeling like they aren't represented in media and advertising, this work couldn't be more necessary. Could you imagine a world where advertising genuinely touched who it was trying to reach?
On April 4, 2019, Dove gathered a room of New York City media professionals to introduce Project #ShowUs and facilitate an intimate conversation: Taking Stock: A Discussion on Media, Representation, and Women's Self-Esteem. The panel included founder and CEO of Girlgaze, Amanda de Cadenet; senior creative director at Getty Images, Dr. Rebecca Swift; Marie Claire digital beauty editor, Maya Allen; a Project #ShowUs participant, Anna Sophia; and Dove's self-esteem educator, Dre Brown. Together, they discussed the power of inclusivity of experience and how Project #ShowUs will revolutionize the media industry and how women relate to themselves and one another.
For Maya Allen, the campaign is both nostalgic and revolutonationary. After recounting her early days as a Black woman in journalism and how she often struggled to find representation of beauty that looked at her, she strongly said, "I'm thinking about every woman I am doing this for." Having the ability to show more depictions of beauty in her stories will be life-changing for the women who never saw themselves in platforms such as Marie Claire before.
More importantly, the onus of providing representation shouldn't always be on the marginalized audience, according to Amanda de Cadenet. Those in positions of privilege, like herself as a self-identified White woman, shouldn't shy away from speaking up and helping to provide seats at the table for other underrepresented groups. Dr. Swift added something that made the room quiet for a moment:
"Do you want to use your power to maintain the status quo or your power to change the status quo?"
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Cynthia for #ShowUs
Anna Sophia, a Project #ShowUs participant, told xoNecole, "This has been such an amazing experience. I've had a voice throughout the entire process. I've been able to define myself and just be fully vulnerable and share that vulnerability with people who feel similarly. I felt like it just wasnt only an opporunity to feel powerful but an amazing opporutnity to represent my community of Queer, Black people."
Our hope for this project is that it not only sheds light on women whose voices we never get to see and hear, but that it also truly serves as a tool of empowerment. The biggest act of upliftment often first comes from representative inspiration. Seeing someone that looks like you doing something or being someone you've always dreamed of being is true power. That's showing us so we can show them in its best form.
As Dre Brown proudly urged the room in summary, "When we're allowed to be our authentic selves, that's where the magic happens."
Watch the Project #ShowUs launch video here:
To learn more about the Project #ShowUs campaign, visit: https://www.dove.com/showus.
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In a xoNecoleexclusive, the iconic actress opens up about embracing this season of her life, new projects, and overall being a “bad motherfucker.” Gabrielle reveals that she was 37 years old when she was diagnosed with perimenopause and is still going through it at 51 years old. Mayo Clinic says perimenopause “refers to the time during which your body makes the natural transition to menopause, marking the end of the reproductive years.”
“I haven't crossed over the next phase just yet, but I think part of it is when you hear any form of menopause, you automatically think of your mother or grandmother. It feels like an old-person thing, but for me, I was 37 and like not understanding what that really meant for me. And I don't think we focus so much on the word menopause without understanding that perimenopause is just the time before menopause,” she tells us.
Gabrielle Union
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"But you can experience a lot of the same things during that period that people talk about, that they experienced during menopause. So you could get a hot flash, you could get the weight gain, the hair loss, depression, anxiety, like all of it, mental health challenges, all of that can come, you know, at any stage of the menopausal journey and like for me, I've been in perimenopause like 13, 14 years. When you know, most doctors are like, ‘Oh, but it's usually about ten years, and I'm like, ‘Uhh, I’m still going (laughs).’”
Conversations about perimenopause, fibroids, and all the things that are associated with women’s bodies have often been considered taboo and thus not discussed publicly. However, times are changing, and thanks to the Gabrielle’s and the Tia Mowry’s, more women are having an authentic discourse about women’s health. These open discussions lead to the creation of more safe spaces and support for one another.
“I want to be in community with folks. I don't ever want to feel like I'm on an island about anything. So, if I can help create community where we are lacking, I want to be a part of that,” she says. “So, it's like there's no harm in talking about it. You know what I mean? Like, I was a bad motherfucker before perimenopause. I’m a bad motherfucker now, and I'll be a bad motherfucker after menopause. Know what I’m saying? None of that has to change. How I’m a bad motherfucker, I welcome that part of the change. I'm just getting better and stronger and more intelligent, more wise, more patient, more compassionate, more empathetic. All of that is very, very welcomed, and none of it should be scary.”
The Being Mary Jane star hasn’t been shy about her stance on therapy. If you don’t know, here’s a hint: she’s all for it, and she encourages others to try it as well. She likens therapy to dating by suggesting that you keep looking for the right therapist to match your needs. Two other essential keys to her growth are radical transparency and radical acceptance (though she admits she is still working on the latter).
"I was a bad motherfucker before perimenopause. I’m a bad motherfucker now, and I'll be a bad motherfucker after menopause. Know what I’m saying? None of that has to change. How I’m a bad motherfucker, I welcome that part of the change."
Gabrielle Union and Kaavia Union-Wade
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“I hope that a.) you recognize that you're not alone. Seek out help and know that it's okay to be honest about what the hell is happening in your life. That's the only way that you know you can get help, and that's also the only other way that people know that you are in need if there's something going on,” she says, “because we have all these big, very wild, high expectations of people, but if they don't know what they're actually dealing with, they're always going to be failing, and you will always be disappointed. So how about just tell the truth, be transparent, and let people know where you are. So they can be of service, they can be compassionate.”
Gabrielle’s transparency is what makes her so relatable, and has so many people root for her. Whether through her TV and film projects, her memoirs, or her social media, the actress has a knack for making you feel like she’s your homegirl. Scrolling through her Instagram, you see the special moments with her family, exciting new business ventures, and jaw-dropping fashion moments. Throughout her life and career, we’ve seen her evolve in a multitude of ways. From producing films to starting a haircare line to marriage and motherhood, her journey is a story of courage and triumph. And right now, in this season, she’s asking, “What’s next?”
“This is a season of discovery and change. In a billion ways,” says the NAACP Image Award winner. “The notion of like, ‘Oh, so and so changed. They got brand new.’ I want you to be brand new. I want me to be brand new. I want us to be always constantly growing, evolving. Having more clarity, moving with different purpose, like, and all of that is for me very, very welcomed."
"I want you to be brand new. I want me to be brand new. I want us to be always constantly growing, evolving. Having more clarity, moving with different purpose, like, and all of that is for me very, very welcomed."
She continues, “So I'm just trying to figure out what's next. You know what I mean? I'm jumping into what's next. I'm excited going into what's next and new. I'm just sort of embracing all of what life has to offer.”
Look out for Gabrielle in the upcoming indie film Riff Raff, which is a crime comedy starring her and Jennifer Coolidge, and she will also produce The Idea of You, which stars Anne Hathaway.
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