Spill Vs. Threads: Here's What To Know About The Apps That Could Have The Potential To Rival Twitter
After Elon Musk took over Twitter, he has taken it through many changes, from capping how many tweets verified and unverified Twitter users can see per day to its most recent rebrand, “X.” Many of the baffling changes have left users looking for other options, and thus Spill and Threads entered the chat.
These two separate social media sites quickly gained popularity over the last month as many people began signing up with hopes of having a fresh start and a more satisfying experience. But what are Spill and Threads? We take a deep dive into the two social media platforms that rival the once-beloved Twitter.
What Is Spill?
Spill is Black-owned, and it was created by two former Twitter employees, Alphonzo “Phonz” Terrell and DeVaris Brown. The invite-only platform launched in June, and at the top of July, it became the No. 1 app in the Apple App Store. The site, which is still in beta, describes itself as a “visual conversation at the speed of culture,” which is different than text-driven Twitter.
Instead of text, Spill uses photos, videos, and GIFs with a text overlay. It’s also limited to 90 characters. Because Spill was created with the culture in mind, it has served as a safe space for Black people online. Even the name Spill comes from the popular Black and LGBTQ+ phrase, “spill the tea.” One of the ways the co-founders are doing it for the culture is by giving credit where credit is due. More often than not, we have seen many Black content creators not get credit or compensated for their viral posts. Spill is looking to change that.
In an interview with AfroTech, Terrell dished on inclusion and the importance of providing compensation for viral posts. “Compensation starts with getting credit,” Terrell said. “Who originated this and that’s always been a really big challenge online. So, that’s why we looked at technologies like blockchain. We can create an immutable record, regardless if you’re on the platform or not, of who created what.”
He continued, “On the compensation part, it’s definitely not an easy thing to solve from jump, but what we’re sort of trying to do is take a learned approach because one of the things that we didn’t expect was people using so many visuals on the platform, like the meme formats and everything. So it’s a different type of model that we’re actually exploring and sort of building in… Our vision is to make it such that there’s a way to earn from an ongoing basis.”
What Is Threads?
When Threads launched, it quickly became the talk of the town after having 100 million users sign up. The Meta app has a lot of similarities to Twitter such as text-based posts, reposting and quoting other Threads’ posts and it has a 500-character limit. And, because it was made by Instagram, it allows you to share Threads’ posts to your Instagram Stories.
Meta CEO Mark Zuckerberg shared a Threads post following the launch. “The vision for Threads is to create an option and friendly public space for conversation,” he wrote. “We hope to take what Instagram does best and create a new experience around text, ideas, and discussing what’s on your mind.”
Threads is easy to sign up for, however, you do need an Instagram account first. Also, if you decide to delete your Threads account, you will also have to delete your Instagram account. But users have the option to deactivate their Threads account without deactivating Instagram. Because it's still new, there are a few things that haven’t been rolled out yet such as direct messaging, hashtags, and more.
Be that as it may, Meta announced an update that users have been asking for, a “Following” tab. The Following tab allows users to see chronological posts from their followers and users can also sort through their “Activity” feed by likes, reposts, and quotes.
Only time will tell if either app has what it takes to overtake Twitter as a dominant text social media platform. While both Threads and Spill have welcomed immediate success, mostly due to Twitter’s demise, they still have to prove if whether they have staying power. A recent report revealed that despite Threads’ 100 million users, the platform’s engagement has already significantly declined.
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London Alexaundria is the contributing editor for xoNecole. She is an alum of Clark Atlanta University, where she majored in Mass Media Arts and has worked in journalism for over ten years. You can follow her on Instagram and TikTok @theselfcarewriter
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When discussing the topic of raising children, discipline is often the first thing that comes to mind. Children need discipline. Full stop. But what is discipline? And how do we draw the line between discipline and revenge?
The origin of the word "discipline" can be traced back to the Latin word "disciplina," which means "instruction" or "teaching." Over time, however, discipline has come to be synonymous with punishment, with parents relying on shame, fear, and/or physical pain to curb undesirable behavior.
Teaching takes time, so nipping it in the bud in whatever fashion parents deem necessary (within reason) has become the norm. But is this what’s best for children? And when does it become less about curbing undesirable behavior and more about getting our licks back for offenses we feel our children should know better to do?
In my work as a parenting coach, I’ve often heard parents say, “I asked him nicely three times before spanking him. He didn’t stop doing it until I did, so clearly talking doesn’t work.”
And the parent isn’t wrong. Talking often doesn’t work the first, the third, or the even the 10th time. And the reason is directly tied to brain development.
Children cannot and do not process information the way an adult can. Auditory processing is not fully developed until a child is 14 or 15 years old. And even then, if a child has auditory processing delays or Auditory Processing Disorder (APD), they may always struggle with processing auditory commands. According to Susie S. Loraine, MA, CCC-SLP, the term auditory processing refers to how the brain perceives and interprets sound information. Several skills determine auditory processing ability—or listening success. They develop in a general four-step hierarchy, but all work together and are essential for daily listening.
Without this understanding, discipline can easily become revenge because parents will then view their child’s misdeeds as a personal slight. Instead of teaching them to do better, parents now want to show them the consequences of not doing better. This is why it's imperative for parents to discern between discipline and revenge to maintain healthy relationships with their children.
5 WAYS TO DISTINGUISH BETWEEN PARENTAL GUIDANCE AND RETALIATION:
Understanding The Intent
Discipline is rooted in love and concern for the child's well-being. It focuses on teaching lessons and helping children understand the consequences of their actions. Conversely, revenge-driven actions stem from a desire to inflict pain or punishment as payback for perceived slights or disobedience. Parents should reflect on their motives before taking disciplinary actions. Ask yourself whether your intention is to help your child learn or to make them suffer for upsetting you.
Example: If a child accidentally breaks a valuable item, a disciplinary response would involve discussing the importance of being careful and working with the child to come up with a way to replace or fix what they’ve broken. On the other hand, a vengeful reaction might involve yelling, harsh punishment, or bringing up past mistakes to intensify guilt.
Maintaining Emotional Regulation
Effective discipline requires parents to remain calm and composed, even in challenging situations. It's natural to feel upset or frustrated when children misbehave, but responding with anger or resentment can escalate the situation and blur the line between discipline and revenge. Before addressing the issue, take a moment to breathe and collect your thoughts.
Example: If a child cannot follow instructions, a disciplined response would involve calmly explaining why their cooperation is necessary in working with the child to accomplish the goal. Conversely, a retaliatory response might involve shouting, name-calling, or resorting to physical punishment out of anger.
Promoting Growth and Learning
Discipline should always aim to promote growth and learning. It involves guiding children toward making better choices and understanding the impact of their actions on themselves and others. Effective discipline strategies include positive reinforcement, setting clear expectations, and providing opportunities for reflection and growth.
Example: If a child repeatedly forgets to complete their chores, a disciplinary approach would involve discussing the importance of responsibility and finding solutions together, such as creating a chore chart or setting reminders with Siri or Alexa. In contrast, a revenge-driven response might involve imposing overly harsh punishments or belittling the child, which can undermine their self-esteem and hinder their ability to learn from their mistakes.
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Building Trust and Communication
Trust and open communication are essential components of a healthy parent-child relationship. Discipline should strengthen this bond by fostering trust and encouraging children to confide in their parents without fear of judgment or retaliation. When children feel safe and supported, they're more likely to accept discipline as a form of guidance rather than punishment.
Example: If a child admits to breaking a rule or making a mistake, a disciplined response would involve listening to their perspective, discussing the consequences of their actions, and working together to find a solution. Conversely, a retaliatory response might involve accusations, blame, or shutting down communication, which can erode trust and damage the parent-child relationship.
Seeking Professional Guidance
Parenting is a learning journey, and, disciplining children is a delicate balance between guiding them toward responsible behavior and nurturing their growth. By understanding the intent behind our actions, maintaining emotional regulation, promoting growth and learning, building trust and communication, and seeking professional guidance when needed, as parents we can help our children built on love, respect, and understanding.
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