
Although this is becoming less of an issue as a sistah ages (praise the Lord!), I know I can’t be the only one who feels like there is pretty much only one week out of every month when I’m home-free as far as menstrual cycles go. The rest of the time, if my body isn’t getting ready for my period to come on, it’s recovering from being on it. SMDH. Between bloating, restlessness, period pimples, random food cravings, and unpredictable moods, the last thing that anyone wants to experience is a damn yeast infection. Yuck upon yuck. Eww upon eww. Ick upon ick.
And really, just what is up with that, anyway? Why does it seem that if there is ever a time when we can predict that a yeast infection will arrive, it’s when Aunt Flo wants to spend a bit of quality time with us?
If that’s something you can relate to and it’s also something that you’ve low-key always wondered about, I’ve got the answer — along with some things that you can do to prevent yeast infections and menstrual cycles from colliding (at least as much) in the future.
Okay, So What’s Up with Yeast Infections Around Menstrual Cycles?
GiphySo, since reportedly 3 out of 4 women will have at least one yeast infection in their lifetime, I’m thinking that most of y’all have “had the pleasure” — NOT — by now at some point. This means that you probably know what causes yeast infections to transpire in the first place: an overgrowth of bad bacteria in your vagina to the point where the good kind isn’t able to prevent it from becoming an infection.
Although things like pregnancy, weight gain, diabetes, certain medications, poor diets, sleep deprivation, and even stress can play a role in making you more susceptible to getting a yeast infection, one thing that can be the culprit behind all of these is a set of imbalanced hormones. And when do your hormones find themselves moving all over the place the most? In the days leading up to your period.
There was even a study that stated that for more than half of the women who had a significant imbalance between good and bad bacteria, it was right when they were about to start their cycle. So, when you take all of this into account, it makes a lot of sense when periods and yeast infections seem to like to hang out with each other a lot.
How to Treat a Yeast Infection During Your Period
GiphySo, what should you do if you happen to get a yeast infection during your menstrual cycle? To tell you the truth, for the most part, you should do what you’ve always done in the past when it comes to healing from one. If an over-the-counter product (like Monistat) has always worked for you, you can still use it (although you should go with pads instead of tampons until the treatment is completed). If you’ve always taken an oral med like Diflucan, you still can. The main thing that I wanted to bring up here is since both your estrogen and progesterone levels tend to be at their lowest when you are on your cycle and since some studies say that progesterone can help to keep certain strains of candida under control, you might want to consume more cruciferous vegetables, kale, and nuts.
Why? Well, although there aren’t really any foods that contain progesterone, there are some that help to stimulate the production of it — and the ones that I just mentioned qualify. It’s also a good idea to keep in mind that it’s not uncommon for the changes that a period brings to actually make you think that your yeast infection went away during your cycle (it’s happened to me before); that usually isn’t the case, so keep treating it, as usual, whether you’re on your cycle or not.
6 Ways to Prevent a Yeast Infection Before Your Cycle Comes in the Future
GiphyYou know the saying: an ounce of prevention is worth a pound of cure. So, now that you know what causes a yeast infection around your cycle, here are six things that can help to prevent one around that time of the month.
1. Use organic products.
If you’re someone who uses tampons (especially), it’s important to go with an organic brand. The reason why is that they don’t contain the dyes, fragrances, and other chemicals that many popular commercial brands do. This is relevant because anything that is going to be inside your vagina for hours on end needs to have as few chemicals on it as possible. Otherwise, it could throw your pH balance off, and — voila! You’ve got a perfect breeding ground for a yeast infection. For leads on some of the best organic tampons that are currently on the market, check out Health’s “The 8 Best Organic Tampons, According to Experts.” For a referral for organic pads, check out Cosmo’s “11 Organic Pads Your Bathroom Cabinet Needs.”
2. Load up on probiotics.
All of us have live bacteria and yeast in our system; probiotics are the good kind of bacteria that our body needs —including our vaginas. The short answer why (you can read a more detailed one here) is when your vagina is full of probiotics, it helps to fight off the bad bacteria that can throw off your pH balance and lead to some type of infection, including a yeast infection. This is why it’s smart to take a probiotic supplement on a consistent basis and you consume foods that are high in probiotics like fermented ones, including yogurt, raw cheese, and sourdough bread.
3. Get plenty of rest.
Since your hormone levels are all over the place in the days leading up to your cycle, you might find it difficult to sleep soundly throughout the night. Still, it’s important to be as intentional as you can about keeping your anxiety levels low and getting as much rest as possible. The (main) reason why is research reveals that you’re more likely to get a yeast infection if your body is stressed out or sleep-deprived. So, if you’re craving processed sugar or caffeine, try and curb that with natural sugar like fruit and go with decaf while you’re PMS’ing in order to keep your anxiety levels low so that you can remain calm and relaxed. And if you need to take a (power) nap to get more sleep in, do that. A lot of women end up with yeast infections because they’re not getting enough rest — and they don’t even realize it.
4. Protect your labia with a mix of coconut and olive oil.
An itchy labia (the outer part of your vagina) can be a telling sign that a yeast infection is either present or on its way. If you’re looking for a natural way to bring some external relief and healing (whether you’re on your cycle or not), apply a combination of coconut and olive oil to it. Coconut oil contains powerful antifungal properties while olive oil is actually an oil that candida can’t stand. (By the way, the purest form of olive oil is extra virgin if you want to get the best — and quickest — results.)
5. Shed a few pounds.
If you heard somewhere that being overweight can trigger a yeast infection, that would be true. The backstory is having extra pounds on your body can also play a role in your hormones not being as balanced as they need to be — and as you’ve already seen, hormones that are in influx can definitely cause a yeast infection. So, although it is important to not stay in your workout clothes for too long (due to all of the moisture in them that yeast enjoys thriving in), do make sure that you exercise. Aside from burning calories, it’s also been proven that exercise can keep your estrogen levels from getting out of wack — and as far as avoiding yeast infections is concerned, that is always a good thing.
6. Use condoms.
Especially if you’re about to have sex with a new partner, you need to use a condom. There are multiple reasons why; however, when it comes to this particular topic, although sperm/semen itself doesn’t exactly “cause” a yeast infection, what it can do is alter the pH level in your vagina to where it creates an environment for a yeast infection to occur. So, if you don’t want sexual activity to result in a yeast issue up the road — condoms, it is, sis. Condoms, it is.
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Is it guaranteed that doing all of this will prevent a yeast infection around your cycle? Bodies are a tricky thing, so I can’t make those types of failsafe assurances. What I will stand on is, now that you’re aware of what yeast infections and periods have in common, you can be intentional about taking preventive measures that will make getting an infection less of an issue — and hell, even one less yeast infection experience will make that all worthwhile, don’t you think? Hell, I do.
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Your October 2025 Monthly Horoscopes Are All About Magnetic Love & Divine Timing
October is about the power of attraction. This is the month to set your intentions, create space for a new beginning, and find your balance between the past, present, and future. There aren’t many astrological transits this month, signaling more possibilities in the air and an opportunity to create that which you desire.
We begin the month in Libra Season, and Libra Season is always the time of year when love is the highlight. With Juno also entering Sagittarius on October 1, right as we begin the month, it’s about committing yourself to a new adventure, to the gifts of love, and to perspectives that heal and bring you closer to another.
October 2025 Astrology: An Overview
Mercury enters Scorpio on October 6, and Mercury in Scorpio only knows depth. The conversations being had this month are inspiring, transformative, and a little more blunt than usual. This energy is good for the power of persuasion and for asking for what you want, especially within business and financial matters. On the same day, we have a Supermoon in Aries, and this is a powerful Full Moon for reflection, owning your power, and letting go of the insecurities that don’t resonate with what you want for yourself and your future.
Venus, the planet of love, moves into Libra on October 13 after being in Virgo for the past month, and after some time of healing and clarity in love, Libra is here to bring in the romance. Venus loves being in Libra, and this energy creates new beginnings within relationships and provides a little extra magic in this area of life. With Pluto going direct in Aquarius on the same day after being retrograde since May, life and love move forward mid-October, helping provide more stable and nurturing foundations in your personal life and community as well.
The New Moon of the month occurs in Libra on October 21, making it a beautiful time for manifesting romance, balance, and harmony in your world.
This New Moon aligns with the Sun in Libra, and it’s all about letting a new beginning transform your world and the love in your life for the better. Scorpio Season officially begins on October 22, and Neptune retrograde enters Pisces on the same day, bringing in some water sign energy into the mix. As we close out the month, it’s time to renew, honor the transformations occurring, and know that your dreams aren’t as far out of reach as they may seem at times.
Read for your sun and rising sign below to see what October 2025 has in store for you.
What October 2025 Has In Store For Your Zodiac Sign
ARIES
AriesKyra Jay for xoNecoleOctober is all about perspective, Aries. This is the month to trust the divine timing of your life, and not let the what-ifs overwhelm you. With the Sun in Libra, your sister sign, for most of the month, October is about building connections, finding your balance in love, and knowing that you are worthy of what your heart is seeking right now. We have a Supermoon in your sign on October 6, and emotions are a little heavier this month, but also healing. Give yourself grace, and let go of what isn’t working for you.
Venus is in your house of love from October 13 until November 6, and there is a lot to look forward to when it comes to romance and the relationship dynamics in your life as you move through the month. It’s about being confident in your power of attraction and letting love come to you right now. Before October comes to an end, we have a New Moon in your 7th house of love as well, and with all this energy in your relationship zone, life changes for you in love for the better in October.
TAURUS
TaurusKyra Jay for xoNecoleOctober is a spiritual month for you, Taurus. You are thinking a lot about your next steps ahead, and are getting organized, focused, and aligned. The Supermoon on October 6 is a time of reflection for you, and you are entering the month ready to let go of the past, heal, and create space for something new in your life. This month is all about trusting your intuition and letting your wisdom guide you in your personal growth and evolution.
You are more than where you have been, and this month is a reminder of that.
With Mars in Scorpio and in your 7th house of love all month, you are motivated by the partnerships in your life right now. Your love life and relationships are where the action is for you this month, and you are honoring your passion and direction here. Venus, your planetary ruler, moves into your house of health mid-month and into November, and you are leaving October seeking healthier habits, daily routines, and relationships. Overall, this month is helping you align with your vision.
GEMINI
GeminiKyra Jay for xoNecoleThis month is a fresh start for you, Gemini. Your heart is free, love is beaming, and you are feeling larger than life. This month is about taking a leap of faith in yourself, honoring your confidence in life, and being your biggest advocate. With the Sun in your 5th house of self-expression, romance, and happiness, and with Venus entering this same area of your chart mid-October, there is a lot to look forward to right now, and things are looking up for you.
On October 21, we have a New Moon in a fellow air sign, and this is a good time to set your intentions for creative projects, hobbies, romance, and your overall happiness in life. There are a lot of little moments of magic unfolding for you this month, and this New Moon is one of them. Before October comes to an end, Mercury, your ruling planet, enters Sagittarius, and this brings open communication into your relationships, and you are having lively conversations and insights.
CANCER
CancerKyra Jay for xoNecoleThis is a transformative month for you, Cancer. You are moving through closure, healing, and depth as you navigate the opportunities that are coming into your life, with the stability you are seeking. With the Sun in your 4th house of home and family in October, this is the month to spend more time in your safe spaces, connect with your loved ones, and get grounded. You are also more focused on your financial world right now, and this is a good time for building new foundations for yourself and looking at the bigger picture when it comes to your career and life goals.
Mars is in your house of romance and happiness for the entire month, and this is one of the highlights of your life right now. You are passionate about your joy and all the things that light you up inside, and you are protecting your peace and giving more of your energy to your pleasure. Before the month ends, we have a New Moon in Libra, highlighting your home life, and some Cancers may be moving at the end of the month or getting the opportunity to turn a page here. Overall, this is your month to reflect, go within, and make sense of what has been restricting you from feeling stable.
LEO
LeoKyra Jay for xoNecoleOctober is about taking things one day at a time and being patient with what is presenting itself to you, Leo. This month, you are getting your ducks in a row and gaining the clarity needed to create a new beginning in your life. The month begins with a Supermoon in a fellow fire sign on October 6, aligning in harmony with you and fueling your need for adventure. You are going over the wisdom you have gained as of late and how it has shifted the way you navigate your life and see the world around you.
On October 13, Pluto goes direct in your 7th house of love, after being retrograde here since May. This is bringing in more balance, empowerment, and passion into your love life, and this is a positive change of energy for you after a time of some power struggles within your relationships. Before the month comes to an end, we have a New Moon in Libra, and this New Moon is the best time to set intentions for clarity, communication, and connection. October is about taking your time with things and knowing that everything is working out in your favor at the end of the day.
VIRGO
VirgoKyra Jay for xoNecoleThis October is about finding your balance, Virgo. There is a lot of energy when it comes to your finances this month, but you may be overworking or overcommitting yourself in the process. Honor the opportunities and responsibilities in your life, but make sure you are equally taking care of your health and prioritizing your time and energy so that you don’t burn out. Venus, the planet of love, is in your sign until October 13; use this energy to your benefit and let things come to you.
You are a magnet for abundance, romance, and support if you allow yourself to receive it.
On October 13, Venus moves into your 2nd house of income, and your relationships are a supportive place for you to lean on right now. Your love life and partnerships are where your financial world is evolving this month, and this is a good time to ask for what you want; you never know what may happen. At the end of the month, Neptune goes retrograde in your sister sign, Pisces, and you are taking a step back and reassessing what love means for you right now. Overall, October is about remembering that you don’t have to do it all alone, Virgo.
LIBRA
LibraKyra Jay for xoNecoleLibra Season is here, and it’s your time to shine and thrive! This Libra Season changes everything for you, and October is when you really begin to feel this shift in your life. The Sun is in your sign until October 22, and it’s time to put yourself first. With a Supermoon in Aries as we begin the month as well, you are letting go of any unhealthy attachments or relationship dynamics that take you away from yourself, and are moving into deeper clarity.
On October 13, Venus, your planetary ruler, enters your sign, where it loves to be the most. With Venus in your sign for the rest of the month, love takes on a new tone, and you are feeling more love for yourself and where life is taking you right now. To end the month, we have a New Moon in Libra, and it’s time to set your intentions for where you want life to grow for you over the next year. This is a month of embarking on a new journey of self, and allowing what is inspiring you right now to build your confidence in yourself and your relationships.
SCORPIO
ScorpioKyra Jay for xoNecoleOctober is about honoring your freedom and your power to decide, Scorpio. A lot is going on for you this month, and you have the passion and energy to see things through. Mercury, the planet of communication, moves into your sign at the beginning of the month on October 6, and this is going to help you get your ideas across, making it a good month for business matters, networking, and getting inspired. With Mars also in your sign for the entire month, life moves forward for you in transformative ways in October, and you are a force to be reckoned with.
On October 13, Venus moves into your house of closure, healing, and endings, and you are ready to close one chapter of love and create space for a new one. You are in a contemplative space when it comes to matters of the heart, and you are ready to let go of any heaviness you have been feeling here. Scorpio Season officially begins on October 22, and you are ready to begin again. This Scorpio Season is about owning your confidence in life while letting go of insecurities or self-doubts that have been getting in the way of that.
SAGITTARIUS
SagittariusKyra Jay for xoNecoleEverything unfolds for you in a beautiful way this month, Sagittarius. You are flowing well with the energy of October, and life opens up to you. With the Sun in your 11th house of aspirations, dreams, manifestations, and community, you are feeling in balance with your desires and your reality, and are bridging the gap here. This is a month of friendship, believing in your dreams, and creating space for love. With Juno also entering your sign at the beginning of the month until the end of the year, you are attracting soulmates into your life.
On October 6, we have a Supermoon in a fellow fire sign, allowing you some closure in love and a chance at healing. Your heart is feeling renewed, and you are owning your power in creating happiness in your life. Before the month ends, Mercury moves into Sagittarius, where it will be until mid-November, and inspiration is heightened. Pay attention to the guidance you are receiving this month, the conversations you are having, and the light bulb moments that are going off for you right now.
CAPRICORN
CapricornKyra Jay for xoNecoleOctober is about going within and connecting with the guidance of your soul, Capricorn. You are taking more time for yourself this month, and rightly so, as you need time to fully process what has happened so far this year. Pluto goes direct in your 2nd house of income, and this moves things forward when it comes to your earning potential, abundance, and values.
The key this month is in valuing yourself, your perspective, and what you are building in your life right now.
On October 21, we have a New Moon happening in your career zone, and this is a good time to manifest your goals within your professional world. Put yourself out there, show up, and know that you are worthy of success and that your dreams aren’t too big for you. As we close out the month, Mercury moves into your house of closure, even further facilitating your desire for contemplation and alone time this month. Overall, October is about taking care of your mental health, owning your successes, and finding your peace.
AQUARIUS
AquariusKyra Jay for xoNecoleOctober is a new beginning for you in love and in life, Aquarius. Your heart is feeling inspired, and there is a lot to look forward to right now. The Supermoon at the beginning of the month will be occurring in your 3rd house of communication, giving you the answers you have been looking for and helping you close the door on a chapter in your life that left you feeling misunderstood or misdirected. You are ready for a change of pace this month, and you are receiving that as we begin October.
Mid-October, Pluto goes direct in your sign after being retrograde since May, and this is a huge breath of fresh air for you and your path ahead. You may have been a little harder on yourself while Pluto was retrograde this year, and now you feel ready to forgive, move on, and own your power. Before the month comes to an end, we have a New Moon in Libra, and you are embarking on a new adventure. The end of the month is a good time for traveling, exploring, and gaining a new perspective.
PISCES
PiscesKyra Jay for xoNecoleThis month is giving you the guidance, perspective, and passion to see yourself with clear, loving eyes, Pisces. There is a sense of feeling more overwhelmed with life lately, and October is allowing you to gain the insight needed to move on from this energy, or at least see more of the gifts of what has occurred. On October 6, we have a Supermoon in an area of your chart having to do with self-worth, values, and income, and it’s time to see the gifts of what you have been investing in and valuing in your life, including yourself.
Let go of the need to play it small or count yourself out of important conversations, and know that you deserve a seat at the table.
With Pluto going direct in your 12th house of healing as we end the month, you are finally getting the answers you have been looking for emotionally, and it’s changing your perspective on your commitments in life and making you feel empowered. Before the month ends, Neptune goes retrograde in Pisces, and you are going to be moving through a personal revolution as we close out the year. You are inspired by change right now, and this month is what kicks starts this metamorphosis within you.
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How Chase Infiniti Became Hollywood’s Next Leading Lady
At 25, Chase Infiniti is no doubt a Hollywood star on the rise. In fact, her co-star in the Paul Thomas Anderson film One Battle After Another, Leonardo DiCaprio, called her "the heart" of the film, no small compliment, given it's only her second role to date, following her breakout opposite Jake Gyllenhaal in the Apple TV+ limited series Presumed Innocent.
It's the career trajectory an artist at the start of their career can only dream of, and sis is living it. Chase is putting in the work, paying her dues, and campaigning for all the accolades she's more than deserving of — Oscar nom included. After all, her mantra to live by is, "You have nothing to prove and everything to show." And what better way to embody that than by showing?
In a Variety exclusive, it was confirmed that Chase would be seeking Lead Actress consideration at the Oscars for her part in the P.T.A.-directed dark action thriller. This news is on the heels of Chase's inclusion in Variety's "10 Actors to Watch for 2025" list that just dropped last week.
Acclaimed for her magnetic screen presence, quiet resolve, physical bravado, and versatility, Chase is steadily cementing herself as a bona fide star in Hollywood, one role at a time. Up next for Chase is a starring role in The Handmaid's Tale sequel, The Testaments. Until then, here's what to know about Ms. Chase Infiniti.
Meet Chase Infiniti: Hollywood’s Newest Breakout Star
1. Chase Inifiniti is her real name.
Her name alone evokes images of the spotlight and sounds like the actress was born for the stage. Funnily enough, it is in fact her real name, having been born Chase Infiniti Payne to parents who apparently have a knack for movie references. During a recent press run, Chase shared the origin of her name with the Today Show, telling host Al Roker that her name was inspired by "a character and then a phrase from the film."
She continued, "When my parents were coming up with my name, they had watched Batman Forever and they were obsessed with Nicole Kidman as Chase Meridian. And they're like, regardless of anything, like, our child has to be named Chase."
Chase went on to share that when her parents were thinking of middle names for her, they watched Toy Story and from the iconic phrase, "To infinity and beyond," Chase Infiniti Payne's very distinct name was born.
@todayshow Chase Infiniti reveals how her parents came up with her name, referencing Nicole Kidman and Toy Story! 🦇🚀 #TODAYShow
2. Chase is a proud theater kid.
Where is Chase Infiniti from? Indianapolis, baby! And before Hollywood came calling, Chase was all about theater. When it came to honing her craft, you could not catch sis outside. She shared with Teyana for Interview that growing up, she'd spend most of her time performing in local theater productions, especially during the summer months.
"I am not joking when I say all that I did growing up in Indianapolis was theater. I literally was just doing as much theater as I could," she told the mag. "During the school year, if I was not at school, I was rehearsing for a musical or a play." She has shared in the past her love for Grease and Hairspray as standouts.
@warnerbrosirl Locked in 🤝 See Teyana Taylor, Regina Hall & Chase Infiniti in ONE BATTLE AFTER ANOTHER, in cinemas Friday! #OneBattleAfterAnother #FilmTok #TeyanaTaylor #ReginaHall #ChaseInfiniti
3. She is intentional about exploring her characters.
In an interview that Chase did with her One Battle After Another co-star Teyana Taylor for Interview, she revealed one of the best pieces of advice she got while working with P.T.A. (Paul Thomas Anderson) on their film. She recalled the advice to Teyana: “Just try it, and if it doesn’t work, it doesn’t work. But explore every aspect of your character as much as you can.”
She concluded about its impact on her approach to character work, "I don’t think I’ve been granted permission in that way, or granted myself permission in that way. That definitely shifted the way I think about creating or at least living through a character."
4. Zendaya inspired her and later sent Chase flowers.
Over the years, Zendaya's work ethic and cult status as a fashion it girl has put her on the radar of many. Chase revealed to ELLE that Zendaya was an inspiration for her after getting bit by the acting bug. For her, Zendaya offered representation and expansion, showing her what was possible.
She told ELLE, "I remember being like, 'This girl looks like me.' She is mixed. She is singing, acting, dancing, doing the thing that I want to do just in a different format that I didn’t even think about."
Fifteen years later, Zendaya gave Chase her flowers, literally, a moment she gushed about on The Tonight Show Starring Jimmy Fallon. "Like, literally even looking at it now and thinking about it, I love her so much and it makes me tear up thinking about it because I was so happy and so grateful," she recalled. Talk about a full circle moment.
@fallontonight Chase Infiniti got flowers from her idol Zendaya for One Battle After Another 🤍 #FallonTonight #TonightShow #ChaseInfiniti #Zendaya #JimmyFallon
5. Chase Infiniti booked her breakout role after a martial arts audition.
Chase's mastery of the One Battle After Another's fight choreography didn't come overnight. The groundwork was set after submitting her self-tape audition and then getting a callback that involved her taking a martial arts class in front of the film's director himself. In terms of her physicality, Chase had kickboxing training but was only a white belt in martial arts. But Paul Thomas Anderson was so impressed, she was offered the role on the spot.
"I never could have imagined that I would be training in mixed martial arts for four months straight and be able to hold my own and maintain stamina throughout the film," she revealed to ELLE. "But I loved the opportunity to train and to physically exert myself onscreen."
In that same interview, she added, that the career-making turning point gifted her with something valuable: her confidence. "The thing I try to do the most is remind myself that I’m capable of doing everything. I’ve been given these opportunities. I’m so grateful for them—I can handle it, and the people around me know I can handle it. I ground myself and remind myself that I’m here for a reason. I’m not here by accident. I did the work and will continue to do so."
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