Dove's Project #SHOWUS Wants To Shatter Beauty Stereotypes One Photo At A Time
At some point in your life, you've probably encountered media or advertising imagery where you felt left out, unheard, or unseen. It's common to flip through popular platforms and never see someone that you connect with - or even someone that seems real. When are key players in beauty going to take notice and really do something about it?
In their new campaign, Project #ShowUs, Dove, in partnership with Girlgaze, a platform for female and nonbinary creatives, and stock image conglomerate Getty Images, is on a mission to change that reality and help women define beauty on their own terms. Project #ShowUs is the world's largest photo library created by self-identifying female and non-binary individuals to shatter beauty stereotypes. With over 5,000 (and counting) images, the collection offers a more inclusive vision of beauty to media and advertisers to use in content that reaches women globally.
With over 70% of women feeling like they aren't represented in media and advertising, this work couldn't be more necessary. Could you imagine a world where advertising genuinely touched who it was trying to reach?
On April 4, 2019, Dove gathered a room of New York City media professionals to introduce Project #ShowUs and facilitate an intimate conversation: Taking Stock: A Discussion on Media, Representation, and Women's Self-Esteem. The panel included founder and CEO of Girlgaze, Amanda de Cadenet; senior creative director at Getty Images, Dr. Rebecca Swift; Marie Claire digital beauty editor, Maya Allen; a Project #ShowUs participant, Anna Sophia; and Dove's self-esteem educator, Dre Brown. Together, they discussed the power of inclusivity of experience and how Project #ShowUs will revolutionize the media industry and how women relate to themselves and one another.
For Maya Allen, the campaign is both nostalgic and revolutonationary. After recounting her early days as a Black woman in journalism and how she often struggled to find representation of beauty that looked at her, she strongly said, "I'm thinking about every woman I am doing this for." Having the ability to show more depictions of beauty in her stories will be life-changing for the women who never saw themselves in platforms such as Marie Claire before.
More importantly, the onus of providing representation shouldn't always be on the marginalized audience, according to Amanda de Cadenet. Those in positions of privilege, like herself as a self-identified White woman, shouldn't shy away from speaking up and helping to provide seats at the table for other underrepresented groups. Dr. Swift added something that made the room quiet for a moment:
"Do you want to use your power to maintain the status quo or your power to change the status quo?"
Here are some quick facts about Project #ShowUs that you should know:
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1. The campaign is 100% powered by 116 women from 39 countries, both in front of and behind the camera. With photography usually being male-dominated and often shot from the male gaze, these images are truly female-identifying centered.
Anna Sophia, a Project #ShowUs participant, told xoNecole, "This has been such an amazing experience. I've had a voice throughout the entire process. I've been able to define myself and just be fully vulnerable and share that vulnerability with people who feel similarly. I felt like it just wasnt only an opporunity to feel powerful but an amazing opporutnity to represent my community of Queer, Black people."
Our hope for this project is that it not only sheds light on women whose voices we never get to see and hear, but that it also truly serves as a tool of empowerment. The biggest act of upliftment often first comes from representative inspiration. Seeing someone that looks like you doing something or being someone you've always dreamed of being is true power. That's showing us so we can show them in its best form.
As Dre Brown proudly urged the room in summary, "When we're allowed to be our authentic selves, that's where the magic happens."
Watch the Project #ShowUs launch video here:
To learn more about the Project #ShowUs campaign, visit: https://www.dove.com/showus.
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Rana Campbell is a Princeton University graduate, storyteller, content marketing strategist, and the founder and host of Dreams In Drive - a weekly podcast that teaches you how to take your dreams from PARK to DRIVE. She loves teaching others how to use their life stories to inspire action within oneself and others. Connect with her on Instagram @rainshineluv or @dreamsindrive.
Exclusive: Melanie Fiona On Making High-Vibrational Music & Saying Yes To Partnership
Melanie Fiona is back! After taking a little more than a decade-long hiatus, she has officially made her return to music and blessed us with two singles, “Say Yes” and “I Choose You.” While both singles are very different from each other, they both reflect who she is today and the type of music she wants to make. In our conversation, the mom of two expressed what she learned during her time away.
“It's interesting, even when I said it is like coming back, I don't ever feel like I really left because I was always still performing. I've still been public. It's not like I went into being this recluse person or version of myself, but the thing that I really learned in this process is that I think things take time,” Melanie says in a xoNecole exclusive.
“I think often we're so caught up in it, being on the timing of demand or popularity, or, like, striking while the iron is hot and the thing that I've learned is that everything is on God's time. That's it. Every time I thought I would have been ready, or, like, things were taking too long, I had to reship some things, personally, professionally, in my life. I also gave myself permission to make a living, not just make a living, but make a life for myself.”
Making a life for herself included getting married to Grammy-nominated songwriter Jared Cotter, starting a family, and embracing new landscapes, such as podcasting as a co-host of The Mama’s Den podcast. She also began doing more spiritual work and self-care practices like meditation, sound healing, Reiki, acupuncture, and boundary setting, which allowed her to get in touch with her inner voice.
“I wasn't putting out music, and I wasn't experiencing a number one record, but I was being a number one mom,” she says.
“I was experiencing things that were allowing me to heal and get in touch with myself so that I could make new music from a space of joy and freedom, and excitement again because I definitely feel like I did lose some excitement because of just politics and industry and what it can do to your mental health and even your physical health. So giving myself the space to really just say, ‘Hey, it's okay. Everything's right on time.’”
The joy and excitement are felt in one of two new singles, “I Choose You,” which is more of a lovers rock vibe, a tribute to Melanie’s Caribbean roots. While the Grammy award-winner is known for ballads like “It Kills Me” and “Fool For You,” she is becoming more intentional about the music she makes, calling it high-vibrational music. She says her music is a “reflection of my life,” as it captures every facet, from hanging out with friends to riding around in her car.
“Say Yes” has the classic R&B vibe Melanie is known for. However, both songs are inspired by her relationship. Melanie and Jared got married in December 2020, and the Toronto-bred artist dished on their relationship. Fun fact: he is featured in the “Say Yes” music video.
“When we first started dating, I had come into that relationship post a lot of self-work. I had gotten out of a long-term relationship, I had a year and a half to date and be by myself and do a lot of work on myself alone. And when we met, I remember feeling like this has to be my person because I feel it,” she says.
“And so when we went into that relationship, and we started dating, I was very clear. I was like, I know what I want. I'm very clear on what I need, and I'm not going to withhold my truth about myself in this process because of pride or fear of rejection. I know you love me, but I'm coming with my heart in my hand to let you know that if we're gonna get there, we have to put fear aside and say yes. So that was kind of like my open letter to him, which is why the video is us having a conversation.”
Melanie also shares that saying yes to her partner has empowered her in many ways, including motherhood and showing up for herself. Her new EP, also titled Say Yes, will be available at the top of 2025.
Check out the full interview below.
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Entertaining Like Ayesha Curry: Expert Advice For Holidays Done Right
Be prepared to wow the crowd.
It’s officially the holiday season, which means parties and gatherings galore. Between Friendsgiving, Christmas, and New Year's Eve celebrations, many of us are preparing to host loved ones in our homes one or two times between now and the end of the year. No matter the occasion or season, hosting for family and friends is a labor of love. But we can also agree that entertaining can be overwhelming, especially for first-time hosts.
As a seasoned host and entertainer, Ayesha Curry knows something about creating a memorable event for loved ones. Whether preparing for an intimate dinner with your immediate family or hosting a larger crowd, your guests will think you are a pro this holiday season with her tips on everything from welcoming guests to setting a beautiful table.
Q: What is your top tip for hosting?
Ayesha Curry:Part of being a great host is spending time with your guests, which means you can’t be stuck in the kitchen. Prep is key! I usually serve wine with the meal, but a cocktail or mocktail is a great way to greet guests. I prep the garnish the night before and batch the drink just before guests arrive. When the party begins, I pull everything out of the fridge and am ready to serve.
Writer Note: If you would like to offer non-alcoholic beverages for your sober or sober-curious guests, I love Saint Viviana Cab. It maintains full-body cabernet and flavor; no one will ever guess it’s alcohol-free. You can easily create a signature mocktail using Bittermilk’s Smoked Honey Whiskey Sour mix.
Q: Do you suggest any prep for serving or cooking?
AC:I lay out all my serving dishes and utensils the night before with little post-it notes saying what goes where. That way, I’m not digging around for anything. For more elaborate menus, I lay out quarter sheet pans and label them with tape according to the dish. I prep and measure everything for each recipe and then load each sheet pan with everything needed to make the dish. I wrap each tray in saran or foil, stack them, and place them in the fridge. Pull out the sheet pan you need when cooking, and everything is ready. It’s something I learned at the restaurant that saves so much time.
Q: What’s one item that should always be on a dinner party menu?
AC: Bread or roll with butter is excellent for holding guests over if the kitchen is delayed.
Q: What’s one non-menu item you should always have on hand?
AC: For a non-menu item, wine!
Q: How do you decide on a theme or menu for a gathering?
AC: It all starts with the occasion and the guest list. If it’s a group that doesn’t know each other very well, I may get more elaborate with the theme to help break the ice. For a group of friends or family who don’t get to see each other very often, I usually keep it simple so the evening can be all about catching up. A great playlist, good wine, and a family-style menu are all you need.
Q: Should attendees be expected to bring a gift?
AC: If I’m hosting, I’m not expecting gifts. The gift is taking time to come over and enjoy a meal with me! But bringing something to enjoy at the gathering, like a bottle of wine, is always appreciated.
Q: What are three affordable gifts that guests can give a host?
AC:A bag of excellent coffee is a beautiful gift for a host. Sweet July’s House Blend Coffee is sourced from all-female co-ops, so it’s a gift I love to give to the women in my life. Whether it’s being served after dinner or just for the host to enjoy on their own, you can’t go wrong with a bag of high-end coffee.
Fresh flowers are great if you have a host who likes total control over the food and beverage menu. Go for something neutral in color that can work with any décor.
The Sweet July Olive Oil and Balsamic Vinegar set is my go-to host gift. Bottled in Napa, it’s a gift any foodie will appreciate - and use!
Q: What are some creative tablescape or decor ideas that you love?
AC: I like to keep my dinnerware neutral and classic (like this ceramic collection in nutmeg) and infuse color and texture through linens. For centerpieces, I want to use what I have in my yard. If it’s summer, it might be flowers or greenery, but interesting branches can also look architectural in tall, clear vases next to tapered candles in the colder months. There’s no need to spend a ton of money on flowers.
With Ayesha’s tips, you can create a holiday gathering that your family and friends will cherish forever.
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