It seems like every time we scroll down our Instagram feeds, we are bombarded by pictures of melanated goddesses living their best lives abroad. London. Cuba. Dubai. Black girls are going everywhere – but what about for graduate school?
According to the National Center for Education, black women are graduating from college at an all time high and are America's most educated group. Of black students alone, black women have earned 66% of bachelor's degrees, 71% of master's degrees, and 65% of all doctorate degrees. So, I think it's safe to say that black women are killing it.
Early last fall, I made the decision to jump off the college to 9-to-5 assembly line and apply to various Master's degree programs in London, England. What started off as a fun and semi-sarcastic conversation-starter when people would ask the infamous, "What are you doing after graduation" question ultimately evolved into my true preferred course of action for this next chapter in my life. When I interned at the White House under the Obama administration, I interacted with a number of senior officials who had international degrees, but they were rarely women of color. We have the ambition, we have the travel bug, and clearly we have the educational prowess. So if they can do it, why can't I?
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Despite the shortage of women of color mentors to guide me on this journey, I was pleased to find a number of resources to guide me along my quest for a degree abroad. And, I would like to share them with you! Here are 4 quick tips to consider when taking your talents global.
1. Understand What Experience You Are Looking For
Are you willing to learn a new language? Are you particular about the prestigiousness of a certain graduate program? Are you here for a good time, not a long time? These are all factors that you will need to take into consideration as you first begin to research international degree programs. The world is a big place, and as expected, there are a lot of program options.
I narrowed down my choices by prestige, language, duration, and international access. Specifically, I limited my research to leading one-year international relations and public policy programs in the U.K. that were located nearby to airports and train stations, so I can easily travel to other destinations in Europe. Europe can just as easily be Asia, South America, or Africa and financial aid packages, networking opportunities, and name recognition vary by school, so start with a big framework and tailor down your schools from there.
2. Make A Timeline
After you have an idea of which school profiles you are interested in, I highly recommend making a comprehensive timeline, which outlines all of your application deadlines, funding deadlines, school login information, program requirements, etc. This is definitely the least glamorous part of the application process, but organization and proactivity are key. Life doesn't stop because you're applying to grad school, so do yourself a favor and make everything as easy to navigate as possible.
3. Be Proactive In Your Applications
In line with making a solid timeline, there are a number of mini-deadlines like external scholarship deadlines and visa applications that can pop up within the overall deadline. Most programs require academic and/or professional recommendation letters and there is nothing worse than having everything ready to go, but you cannot submit your application until your recommender submits their component. That being said, start early. Give yourself time to write several drafts of your personal statement and program-specific essays (if applicable) and reach out to at least double the number of required recommenders. This is especially true for post-grad applicants whose preferred professors may have left the school or are on sabbatical. Many schools have rolling deadlines, but a 3-4 month cushion to get everything in order gives you the opportunity to put your best foot forward.
4. Look Into Different Funding Streams
But actually, look into different funding streams. For many students, myself very much included, I was not born with a silver spoon in my mouth and the first question my dad asked me after receiving my acceptance was, "So, who's paying for this?" Depending on your desired program and academic track record, there are a number of prestigious programs that fully fund international graduate degree programs in select countries like the Fulbright Program, Rhodes Scholarship, Marshall Scholarship, and Schwarzman Scholars. These programs aside, tuition fees at foreign universities are often much lower than their U.S. counterparts.
For an example, graduate tuition fees at École Polytechnique (ParisTech) are €15000 per year around $19,000 USD whereas similar degrees from California Institute of Technology (Caltech) are $48,000 per year. Furthermore, some institutions offer specific merit-based scholarships on a rolling basis or are even virtually free for U.S. students (excluding relocation, housing, and visa fees). So again, be proactive and do your research!
There's a whole world waiting for you if you decide to take a chance and pave your own path. Bon voyage!
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So, what is included in the first Not Beauty launch?
The current Not Beauty products available are lip glosses that come in three shades: In the Flesh, Strawberry Jelly, and Quartz.
During my visit to the first LA Not Beauty pop-up activation, I not only had the chance to purchase all three glosses but also took a peek inside the blow-up log tent. Inside, fans got to experience SZA’s love for nature and her fascination with bugs, which are prominently featured in her performances for this tour. At one point, she even had human preying mantis prancing across the stage y'all.
There were blow-up photos of the beauty that is SZA for fans (myself included) to take photos, but in wooden-like tree trunks were a deeper dive into some of the ingredients featured in her products and their benefits.
For example, the glosses feature Hi-Shine Lip Jelly and Shea Butter as key ingredients and some of the listed benefits included are:
- Shea Butter - “A powerhouse ingredient, offering both functional and nourishing benefits.”
- Hi-Shine Lip Jelly (featured in the In the Flesh shade) - “Formula glides on with perfect adhesion to the lips without stickiness).
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What are in the products?
Featured in an orange package, with images of a bug and flower on the side, the back of the box reads: “It’s NOT BEAUTY, it just works. Developed by Solána “SZA” Rowe.
As someone who never leaves home without a good lip gloss, I loved how compact the wood panel packaging is. Perfect to slip into my purse, or in the case of the show at SoFi Stadium, into my pocket when I’m not carrying a bag.
Because I’m a sucker for a good black and brown lip liner and clear gloss combo, I decided to wear the Quartz flavor on night one of the Grand National Tour LA stop, and it did not disappoint. I’ll admit, it’s light weight feel made me nervous because it felt like there was nothing on my lips. However, when I checked my lips in my compact mirror several times throughout the night, I was shocked to find that my gloss was still intact. I only reapplied once out of the habit of looking cute and applying my gloss, but not necessity.
Here are some of the ingredients featured, but not limited to, in the Quartz flavor.
- Polyisoubutene
- Butyrospermum Parkii (Shea)Butter
- Ricinus Communis (Castor) Seed Oil
- Mentha Piperita (Peppermint) Oil
- Tocopherol
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Lip prep
I’m a simple girl who loves to stay true to her roots. So ahead of the show, I stopped by a local Inglewood Beauty Supply store and grabbed a Black and Brown shade lip pencil for just under $2 a piece.
Shading the outline of my lips with the black pencil first, I used the brown to lightly fill the inside of my lips before applying my Quartz Not Beauty shade gloss.
How to apply
There’s truly no right or wrong way to apply lip gloss (in my opinion), with this being a brush applicator sort of product, I simply untwisted the top and swiped the gloss around my top and bottom lip generously.
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Results
Again, my Not Beauty Quartz product stayed on my lips from the start of the show, which began with a fire DJ set from LA’s very own, Mustard, to the conclusion when Kendrick and SZA reunited on stage to send us home to their duet, “luther,” featured on the rapper's GNX album.
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xoMAN started as an Instagram Live series and is now a full-cast production, with Walker as the host. Initially, she was skeptical about joining as the new host of xoMan. Not because she doesn’t have the chops to thrive in the role, but because coming in on something that wasn’t her original idea initially seemed daunting for the media personality.
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When xoNecole's managing editor Sheriden Garrett approached Walker to take on the position, it felt like fate. She had previously attempted to get Garrett on her CockTales platform about six or seven years ago due to her expertise in the love and relationship space.
“I was like, wait, y’all listen to the show? And you want me to host a show where I’m only talking to men? And I’m listening to them and not giving them a hard time? I say that because sometimes I feel like, on my show, I may come off like I don’t even like men," she says.
"I love men, but it can be frustrating sometimes on that platform, social media, and other places when they continue to regurgitate the same rhetoric about what I like to call Twitter topics, like constantly talking about who’s paying as a man, as a woman. You should do this. You should do that…It’s been cool hearing the stories with the men we’ve spoken to so far at xoMAN, hearing these stories, and hearing them let their guards down.”
A Howard graduate, Walker almost didn’t enter the world of media after listening to advice from elders who said she would make a great lawyer because she loves to debate topics and sometimes argue (haha).
"It’s been cool hearing the stories with the men we’ve spoken to so far at xoMAN, hearing these stories, and hearing them let their guards down.”
After traveling to the nation’s capital to study political science, Walker soon discovered that her only motivation for becoming an attorney was the potential income and witnessing how boss women like Erika Alexander’s Maxine Shaw character on Living Single would look in their suits as career women.
“I realized that this was for real,” she says, studying law at Howard. “This is a lot of work, and when you think about what you do, I was like, this is not a performance, and I just wanted to talk. I wasn’t trying to defend anyone.”
A visit to a fair showcasing the different organizations on Howard’s campus, combined with her affinity for celebrity gossip and entertainment news, ultimately led Walker to explore a radio career. Soon, she auditioned for a show and landed the gig. By the spring semester, she was on the radio, ultimately leading her to switch her major to journalism with a concentration in broadcast news.
Soon after earning her degree in the field, Walker decided she didn’t want to do anything related to hard news. Instead, she became involved in lifestyle content. She used her friends' love of hearing her stories to motivate her to get into podcasting.
The rest is, as they say, history.
“Before podcasts became what they are, I was in a living room with a microphone before ultimately moving to a studio and refining the show. I loved it and knew people were listening because I monitored the analytics and everything," she explains.
"When we decided to do a live show, the show sold out in two weeks, and I was so nervous. I was like, 'Are we ready? Are we gonna be able to sell out this venue?' We didn’t have any sponsorship. We were still independent and had to front the money for everything.”
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“When they sold out in two weeks, not only did I price my tickets too low, but I thought, wow, we’ve got something. I was like, people spent money to hear me and my co-host talking about our shitty love lives. This is wild, all from an idea in my head. It made me feel like I was on the right path and encouraged me to stop doubting myself. I have imposter syndrome," she reveals.
"Even to this day, I’m constantly biased. But it’s like, if not me, then who? And, like, why not me? If people can do it with way less and way more. I’ve been trying to encourage myself and other people to eliminate the doubt that we have in ourselves so we can do whatever it is we want to do. I love it. No matter how many sleepless nights I have, I will continue to have bags under my eyes until the end of time because I’m enjoying it.”
"I have imposter syndrome. Even to this day, I’m constantly biased. But it’s like, if not me, then who? And, like, why not me? If people can do it with way less and way more. I’ve been trying to encourage myself and other people to eliminate the doubt that we have in ourselves so we can do whatever it is we want to do."
In between garnering a strong social media presence for her work as a podcast host, lifestyle influencer, and beyond, Walker has managed to use her many gifts and talents, like cooking, and most importantly, giving a strong opinion about the things she does (or doesn’t) believe in to carve out a lane of her own.
As she embarks on this chapter as the host of xoMAN, where she has already spoken with actors Devale Ellis and Skyh Black and Dear Future Wifey podcast host Laterras R. Whitfield, Walker hopes that it encourages people, especially women, to look at their male counterparts from a different perspective.
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“I just hope that people learn to, again, not put people in boxes and make the other person, whoever it is, men specifically for this show, but sit down and talk with an open mind and listen to understand, not to respond. Help someone feel safe.”
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