Although this is becoming less of an issue as a sistah ages (praise the Lord!), I know I can’t be the only one who feels like there is pretty much only one week out of every month when I’m home-free as far as menstrual cycles go. The rest of the time, if my body isn’t getting ready for my period to come on, it’s recovering from being on it.SMDH. Between bloating, restlessness, period pimples, random food cravings, and unpredictable moods, the last thing that anyone wants to experience is a damn yeast infection. Yuck upon yuck. Eww upon eww. Ick upon ick.
And really, just what is up with that, anyway? Why does it seem that if there is ever a time when we can predict that a yeast infection will arrive, it’s when Aunt Flo wants to spend a bit of quality time with us?
If that’s something you can relate to and it’s also something that you’ve low-key always wondered about, I’ve got the answer — along with some things that you can do to prevent yeast infections and menstrual cycles from colliding (at least as much) in the future.
Okay, So What’s Up with Yeast Infections Around Menstrual Cycles?
GiphySo, sincereportedly 3 out of 4 women will have at least one yeast infection in their lifetime, I’m thinking that most of y’all have “had the pleasure” — NOT — by now at some point. This means that you probably know what causes yeast infections to transpire in the first place: an overgrowth of bad bacteria in your vagina to the point where the good kind isn’t able to prevent it from becoming an infection.
Although things like pregnancy, weight gain, diabetes, certain medications, poor diets, sleep deprivation, and even stress can play a role in making you more susceptible to getting a yeast infection, one thing that can be the culprit behind all of these is a set of imbalanced hormones. And when do your hormones find themselves moving all over the place the most? In the days leading up to your period.
There was even a study that stated that for more than half of the women who had a significant imbalance between good and bad bacteria, it was right when they were about to start their cycle. So, when you take all of this into account, it makes a lot of sense when periods and yeast infections seem to like to hang out with each other a lot.
How to Treat a Yeast Infection During Your Period
GiphySo, what should you do if you happen to get a yeast infection during your menstrual cycle? To tell you the truth, for the most part, you should do what you’ve always done in the past when it comes to healing from one. If an over-the-counter product (like Monistat) has always worked for you, you can still use it (although you should go with pads instead of tampons until the treatment is completed). If you’ve always taken an oral med like Diflucan, you still can. The main thing that I wanted to bring up here is since bothyour estrogen and progesterone levels tend to be at their lowest when you are on your cycle and since some studies say that progesterone can help to keepcertain strains of candida under control, you might want to consume more cruciferous vegetables, kale, and nuts.
Why? Well, although there aren’t really any foods that contain progesterone, there are some that help tostimulate the production of it — and the ones that I just mentioned qualify. It’s also a good idea to keep in mind that it’s not uncommon for the changes that a period brings to actually make you think thatyour yeast infection went away during your cycle (it’s happened to me before); that usually isn’t the case, so keep treating it, as usual, whether you’re on your cycle or not.
6 Ways to Prevent a Yeast Infection Before Your Cycle Comes in the Future
GiphyYou know the saying: an ounce of prevention is worth a pound of cure. So, now that you know what causes a yeast infection around your cycle, here are six things that can help to prevent one around that time of the month.
1. Use organic products.
If you’re someone who uses tampons (especially), it’s important to go withan organic brand. The reason why is that they don’t contain the dyes, fragrances, and other chemicals that many popular commercial brands do. This is relevant because anything that is going to be inside your vagina for hours on end needs to have as few chemicals on it as possible. Otherwise, it could throw your pH balance off, and — voila! You’ve got a perfect breeding ground for a yeast infection. For leads on some of the best organic tampons that are currently on the market, check out Health’s “The 8 Best Organic Tampons, According to Experts.” For a referral for organic pads, check out Cosmo’s “11 Organic Pads Your Bathroom Cabinet Needs.”
2. Load up on probiotics.
All of us havelive bacteria and yeast in our system; probiotics are the good kind of bacteria that our body needs —including our vaginas. The short answer why (you can read a more detailed onehere) is when your vagina is full of probiotics, it helps to fight off the bad bacteria that can throw off your pH balance and lead to some type of infection, including a yeast infection. This is why it’s smart totake a probiotic supplement on a consistent basis and you consume foods that are high in probiotics likefermented ones, including yogurt, raw cheese, and sourdough bread.
3. Get plenty of rest.
Since your hormone levels are all over the place in the days leading up to your cycle, you might find it difficult to sleep soundly throughout the night. Still, it’s important to be as intentional as you can about keeping your anxiety levels low and getting as much rest as possible. The (main) reason why is research reveals that you’re more likely to get a yeast infection if your body is stressed out or sleep-deprived. So, if you’re craving processed sugar or caffeine, try and curb that with natural sugar like fruit and go with decaf while you’re PMS’ing in order to keep your anxiety levels low so that you can remain calm and relaxed. And if you need to take a (power) nap to get more sleep in, do that. A lot of women end up with yeast infections because they’re not getting enough rest — and they don’t even realize it.
4. Protect your labia with a mix of coconut and olive oil.
An itchy labia (the outer part of your vagina) can be a telling sign that a yeast infection is either present or on its way. If you’re looking for a natural way to bring some external relief and healing (whether you’re on your cycle or not), apply a combination of coconut and olive oil to it.Coconut oil contains powerful antifungal properties whileolive oil is actually an oil that candida can’t stand. (By the way, the purest form of olive oil isextra virgin if you want to get the best — and quickest — results.)
5. Shed a few pounds.
If you heard somewhere thatbeing overweight can trigger a yeast infection, that would be true.The backstory is having extra pounds on your body can alsoplay a role in your hormones not being as balanced as they need to be — and as you’ve already seen, hormones that are in influx can definitely cause a yeast infection. So, although it is importantto not stay in your workout clothes for too long (due to all of the moisture in them that yeast enjoys thriving in), do make sure that you exercise. Aside from burning calories, it’s also been proven thatexercise can keep your estrogen levels from getting out of wack — and as far as avoiding yeast infections is concerned, that is always a good thing.
6. Use condoms.
Especially if you’re about to have sex with a new partner, you need to use a condom. There are multiple reasons why; however, when it comes to this particular topic, although sperm/semen itselfdoesn’t exactly “cause” a yeast infection, what it can do is alter the pH level in your vagina to where it creates an environment for a yeast infection to occur. So, if you don’t want sexual activity to result in a yeast issue up the road — condoms, it is, sis. Condoms, it is.
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Is it guaranteed that doing all of this will prevent a yeast infection around your cycle? Bodies are a tricky thing, so I can’t make those types of failsafe assurances. What I will stand on is, now that you’re aware of what yeast infections and periods have in common, you can be intentional about taking preventive measures that will make getting an infection less of an issue — and hell, even one less yeast infection experience will make that all worthwhile, don’t you think? Hell, I do.
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It's kinda wild that, in 2025, my byline will have appeared on this platform for (what?!) seven years. And yeah, when I'm not waxing poetic on here about sex, relationships and then...more sex and relationships, I am working as a certified marriage life coach, helping to birth babies (as a doula) or penning for other places (oftentimes under pen names).
As some of you know, something that I've been "threatening" to do for a few years now is write another book. Welp, October 2024 was the month that I "gave birth" to my third one: 'Inside of Me 2.0: My Story. With a 20-Year Lens'. It's fitting considering I hit a milestone during the same year.
Beyond that, Pumas and lip gloss are still my faves along with sweatshirts and tees that have a pro-Black message on them. I've also started really getting into big ass unique handbags and I'm always gonna have a signature scent that ain't nobody's business but my own.
As far as where to find me, I continue to be MIA on the social media front and I honestly don't know if that will ever change. Still, if you need to hit me up about something *that has nothing to do with pitching on the site (I'm gonna start ignoring those emails because...boundaries)*, hit me up at missnosipho@gmail.com. I'll do what I can. ;)
'Bel-Air' Actress Jazlyn Martin On Her Ongoing Identity Crisis And Its Influence On Her Creative Journey
Jazlyn Martin is a triple-threat performer known most for her role as Jackie on Peacock’sBel-Air. Her character’s fiery personality and questionable decisions have led to a few shocking moments in the series and quite a bit of convo on social media.
Now, I’ll be honest: as an avid TV-lover, I was well-prepared to hop on Zoom and jump into all the chatter around Bel-Air and her characters’ decisions. But after listening to her new EP Identity Crisis, I knew there was a lot more to talk about as well. During this exclusive conversation with xoNecole, Jazlyn Martin delved into the challenging journey she’s faced surrounding her identity, newfound fame, and family influence, and how it all plays a part in her art. Check it out!
xoNecole: So I know that your father is in the entertainment world, but when did you realize you shared the same passion?
Jazlyn Martin: I think it was very early on. I was a child who was full of attitude and fearlessness that would go after anything I wanted. I believe seeing my dad pursue music made me realize it was possible. I just had this hunger and fire, and my parents consciously fed and nurtured that - they are always all super supportive of whatever I do. So very, very early on, I was like, I'm meant to do this. And I just was like, I'm a star, and I know I'm a star.
xoN: Actually, let's talk about your family. What are some of your most important values, and how have your family and heritage played a part in shaping those values?
Jazlyn: I mean, my mom is like an angel; she's so graceful and kind, and I've had to work hard to get there. When I was young, I was very abrasive, headstrong, and stubborn. Whereas my mom gives an immense amount of grace in the way she carries herself. I had to learn that.
I think being strong is something I’ve always had. My parents always joke that they don't know where my personality came from. Because my dad is shy and timid and my mom is kind, and I'm a fireball. But my Dad always asked the important industry questions like, “Why do you want to do this?” And that instilled some purpose into me. It really carried me to keep going because it's so easy to be discouraged in this field, but that drive has helped me push through all of the challenges.
xoN: I bet. I have such a respect for actors and the way you all navigate the industry. Speaking of, let’s dig into “Bel-Air.” Were you a fan of the show? Did you have to go back and watch the episodes?
Jazlyn: So I actually did watch the show which is crazy because sometimes I don’t. I saw it was a reboot and was like, ‘Oh no, not another one.’ But I watched the first three episodes, realized how good it was, and ended up watching the whole season. I became a fan, and then a few months later, I booked the role!
I think the imagination is such a beautiful and powerful tool, and I feel like if you create something in your mind, it happens. It's a crazy thing, but I really just created Jackie's world - the house she grew up in, her parents leaving her, and everything. I created why she fell in love with dance. I really came at it from a human approach. If I see it, then the audience can see it.
xoN: Yeah, background plays into so much of how we deal with things, how we interact with people, and everything. And I feel like Jackie gets a lot of backlash. Like, we’ve all had a “Jackie Moment” to be real.
Jazlyn: She gets so much backlash! I just encourage people to give her grace and see the God in her because I do think she tells a lot of Black and brown girls' stories. People project on her, saying she’s too ratchet or hood, and I’m like does that mean she’s not loveable?
We have to be careful of what’s said and put out because Jackie has gone through things that I've never had to go through. The fact that she's alive and still highly functioning is a blessing. So what if she gets a little messy? I love her. Because she’s helped me extend empathy to people I don't necessarily want to or don't think deserve to have it. But she's 17, she's figuring it out, and she doesn't have parents. Like, that's such a huge factor.
"We have to be careful of what’s said and put out because Jackie has gone through things that I've never had to go through. The fact that she's alive and still highly functioning is a blessing. So what if she gets a little messy? I love her."
xoN: You mentioned how your character is viewed, which digs a bit into identity. So I want to talk a little bit about some of the emotional songs on your EP “Identity Crisis.” What inspired the track “Perfect?”
Jazlyn: When I was creating “Perfect,” I already had the EP title. So I kind of mapped out, like, the different conflicts I had in my head and categorized them into seven songs, and so one of my identity crises was being perfect. Because I feel like a lot of men tend to put women on pedestals. They're expected to be perfect - especially when you’re in the limelight. You know, you can't slip up. You can't say the wrong thing. Cancel culture is such a huge thing. And I just wanted to encourage people to give people grace to be themselves because that's not an easy thing to do.
I just wanted to take down this facade that I’m perfect because I never pretended to be. I never wanted to be. I think that's something people have placed on me, that I have it all figured out, I think I just carry it well, but that doesn't mean it's not heavy. I just wanted to be very vulnerable and honest. I think people think “perfect” is a compliment, but I think it's a cage because it doesn't allow room for error. It doesn't allow for you to be human and mess up and fail and take risks. So I just wanted to encourage grace.
xoN: Do you ever feel like you went through an identity crisis?
Jazlyn: I go through one constantly. Growing up, I didn't really have one. But I think as you get older and more aware and cognitive, you know how the world goes, and the world starts telling you who you are, instead of you deciding who you are. And I feel like being mixed played a big role in that, not feeling Black or Mexican enough. I wanted to belong to both worlds but didn’t so I was just “other.” That was an identity crisis in itself.
Also, being introduced to a level of fame has been interesting, too. I think we all go through identity crises all the time because we’re evolving and changing. It’s beautiful, but it’s also scary; you see yourself this one way, and then something happens, and there’s a shift. So yeah, I think it’s something we all go through but no one talks about.
"I think as you get older and more aware and cognitive, you know how the world goes, and the world starts telling you who you are, instead of you deciding who you are. And I feel like being mixed played a big role in that, not feeling Black or Mexican enough. I wanted to belong to both worlds but didn’t so I was just 'other.'"
xoN: I love that. And I know Hispanic Heritage Month is coming up, and you'll be speaking at the New York Latino Film Festival. Talk to me about what that moment means to you and what you hope to bring to the event. *Editor’s note: The interview was conducted before Hispanic Heritage Month began.
Jazlyn: I’m bringing some Afro-Latino-ness! I always grew up seeing Latinos being represented in a very specific way—very Spanish, not very Indigenous looking. So I'm really excited to bring the Black experience, with the Latino experience, to the stage because that's something a lot of people don't know exists.
People are always like, “Are you Black or Latina?” Well, I'm both! We were just dropped off in different parts. I’m excited to speak on that and highlight how prevalent anti-Blackness is within Latino communities. A lot of Afro-Latinos have faced an identity crisis because of it, including myself. It sometimes feels like you’re supposed to hate the other half of who you are.
For me, I held onto that little Black girl inside. I refused to let her go. And that’s what I want to represent when I speak—resilience and acceptance of our full selves. I’m also looking forward to meeting fellow Latino people, especially Afro-Latinos, and sharing our stories. It’s not a narrative that gets much attention, and I’m excited to represent.
xoN: I’m excited for you! Finally, with all the praise and recognition you’re receiving now, what has it been like to transition from working in music, dance, and acting to now being in the spotlight? How have you embraced this new level of fame?
Jazlyn: Um, it's overwhelming. I think that's the best word. Sometimes, I'm joyful, because I'm giving back to the community. People resonate with Jackie's stories and see themselves in her, which I think is the biggest compliment to me. But then sometimes, you know, I feel sad because I'm like, ‘Damn, I'm not doing enough,’ like I should be doing more. It's crazy, the industry is so fast-paced that you don't really try to celebrate wins. It's just a transition, an identity crisis of the like.
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Lori Harvey’s Can’t-Live-Without Essentials: From Chanel Hand Cream To Baby Hair Brushes
If Lori Harvey says something is a must-have, we believe her. In the realm of trendsetters and tastemakers, Lori shines as a beacon of impeccable style and sophistication. When she deems something a "must-have," it instantly becomes an object of desire for fashion and beauty enthusiasts worldwide. Her innate ability to identify and embrace emerging trends has solidified her position as the quintessential it girl.
Her influence extends far beyond the realm of clothing, encompassing everything from her rigorous Pilates routine to her meticulously curated skincare regimen.
Let’s keep it 1000— her words carry weight, and her recommendations are highly sought after. The fashion industry hangs on her every word, eager to know what trends she will embrace next. Her Instagram account, with its millions of followers, serves as a virtual runway, showcasing the latest must-have items and coveted accessories.
Recently, she sat down with StyleCaster to share what’s in her Hermès bag and there were a couple of items that grabbed our attention so let’s run them back.
YSL Sunglasses
Every girl needs a pair of sunnies at the ready. You never know who you need to avoid or when you wanna have a legit no-makeup day. Lori believes, “They just are the vibe.”
Chanel Hand Cream
“One thing you’ll never find me is ashy,” the star boasts. Of course, her hand cream of choice is Chanel which deeply hydrates, protects, and delicately scents your hands. Quickly absorbed, it leaves skin soft, supple, and long-lasting comfort. Best of all, your nails and cuticles are enhanced for a flawless manicure.
Rhode Peptide Lip Treatment
Apparently the Rhode hype is real. Lori shared that she likes to indulge in this nourishing delight that transforms her lips on the go so much so that she has one in every bag. According to the girlies, this ethereal formula glides on effortlessly, leaving your lips with a glossy sheen. It works diligently to deeply nourish and quench the thirst of dry lips, ensuring they remain hydrated and supple.
Baby Hair Brush
“The baby hair queen” herself has over 100 baby hair brushes because you gotta keep those edges slayed and laid. This Red by Kiss Ultimate Edge Fixer Professional Boar Hair Brush is a 3-in-1 baddie that features natural and gentle boar bristles that provide a massaging sensation on the scalp, improving blood flow and making it perfect for sculpting short, unruly baby hairs and taming flyaways. It also offers two types of ends for versatile use, including edge control gel application.
SKN by LH White Tea Toner
This toner serves as a good refresher for the model on the go. “It’s very fresh and keeps the skin hydrated. Any time I need a pick me up for my skin, I am whipping her out.”
During the sit-down, the multi-hyphenate also emphasized her strong work ethic and involvement in all aspects of her skincare brand, SKN by LH, from creative product development to Instagram curation. Lori debunks misconceptions about her not working, proudly stating that she earns everything she has and is deeply invested in her brand's success.
Honorable Mentions: Birth Control & Fan
We just had to add Lori's birth control must-have moment from the vid to the list, “Because you know… no babies,” as Lori said.
Additionally, whether folks know it or not, having a fan handy is key to maintaining a sweat-free beat and not appearing too glowy. No matter the season, keep a handheld fan, motorized or old-school, in your bag to quite literally keep cool. It’s the Lori Harvey-approved way to keep it cute.
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