What Your Zodiac Says About Your Style
Zo·di·ac /ˈzōdēˌak/ noun
- a belt of the heavens within about 8° either side of the ecliptic, including all apparent positions of the sun, moon, and most familiar planets. It is divided into twelve equal divisions or signs (Aries, Taurus, Gemini, Cancer, Leo, Virgo, Libra, Scorpio, Sagittarius, Capricorn, Aquarius, Pisces).
There are two types of people in this world. One who obsesses over zodiac signs and one who dreads the question, "What's your sign?"
No matter your stance on astrology, the day you were brought into this universe may bring clarity to why you are who you are. And when you add fashion to the mix, there's an added curiosity that lingers as to why you may be obsessed with your favorite dress. The stars have aligned just for you to understand your unique style.
What Your Zodiac Sign Says About Your Signature Style
ARIES Mar 20 – Apr 20
Aries are the queens of cool. While you love your classics, you have no problem keeping it street chic. Dej Loaf is an illustration of that very equilibrium. Keep the basics in rotation to remain the fashion chameleon you are.
Keys:
- Understated jewelry
- Sleek and chic staples with classic silhouettes
- Layering prints
TAURUS Apr 20 – May 21
This sign is all about comfort but they are also not afraid to stand out in the crowd. You can't live without your cozy jeans and sneakers. You are extremely fashion-forward and pride yourself on being confident and pragmatic. Much like Gabby Sidibe, you can make any look your own.
Keys:
- Statement Pieces
- Functionality
- Timelessness
GEMINI May 21 – Jun 21
Shionat is the epitome of a stylish Gemini. She will switch it up in a minute, creating a head turning reputation. Granted, Shionat is somewhat of a style icon and her stylish ways stem from her zodiac sign. With strengths like adaptability, Geminis can't stick to just one style.
Keys:
- Accessories
- Streamlined staples
- On-trend
CANCER Jun 21 – Jul 23
Cancers are highly imaginative, so you best believe they are never old-fashioned. The perfect example is Pastor Sarah Jakes Roberts. Her conviction in her faith can also be seen in her style choice. Cancers live for perennial items that provide a classic vibe.
Keys:
- Romantic and beautiful patterns
- Loves the opportunity to dress up
- Elegant and elevated staples
LEO Jul 23 – Aug 23
If you know Leos, you know they are headstrong. Their exuberance fuels their desire for challenge. This is especially present when it comes to fashion. Jennifer Lopez is a risk-taker and that is a testament to her rising Leo sun.
Keys:
- Vibrant hues
- Trendsetter
- Eccentric outfits
VIRGO Aug 23 – Sep 23
Virgos know their best side and they know how to work it. Maybe you've heard of the goddess Virgo, Beyonce Giselle Knowles-Carter – she is both ladylike and perfectly sexy. Virgos gravitate to beautiful pieces that exude confidence.
Keys:
- Grown & sexy vibes
- Tailored outlines
- Vintage pieces
LIBRA Sep 23 – Oct 23
Libras are the mix masters. This sign can take any basic staple and make it edgy. Serena makes good on this declaration because she has created her own designs to wear for the tennis court. Libras can also go from sweats and sneakers to a form-fitting dress with ease.
Keys:
- Metallic accents
- Feminine and edgy
- Fabrics like silk and suede
SCORPIO Oct 23 – Nov 22
"She was a Scorpiooooo...whew!?" Even Tyrese knows that Scorpios are baddies. The motto for this sign is "Perfection 24/7." Scorpios tend to have a uniformed style because they are creatures of habits. Gabrielle Union always manages to be feminine and never boring.
Keys:
- Structured suits
- One staple in every color
- Polished with an ounce of edge
SAGITTARIUS Nov 22 – Dec 22
A Sag's sense of humor easily translates into their style. This zodiac sign has a way of playing with colors and combining a modern spin. Nicki Minaj remains relentless in her Sagittarius tendencies because she is the queen of bold.
Keys:
- A dope pair of heels
- Bold colors
- Statement handbags
CAPRICORN Dec 22 – Jan 20
My forever First Lady, Michelle Obama is a vision of class. She is a textbook Capricorn because she is all about sophistication and simplicity. If it ain't easy, Capricorns don't have time for it.
Keys:
- Classics
- Comfortability
- Color-blocking
AQUARIUS Jan 20 – Feb 18
Aquarius = innovative. This sign has no problems experimenting with trends and the goal is always to be happy with the outcome. Your creative and unique spirit leaves room for endless possibilities in your fashion choices. Kerry Washington is a prime example of the whimsy that is the Aquarius. She defines her own style in a wild way.
Keys:
- Fun shapes
- Creative color combinations
- Rebellious and trendy
PISCES Feb 18 – Mar 20
If you're looking for style tips, ask a Pisces. Ya'll know this water sign is effortlessly chic. They are free spirits like Rihanna and they never shy away from a bold look. I am sure that you love every look Bad Gal RiRi dons because she wears it with ease and major sex appeal.
Keys:
- Bohemian flair
- Soft, flowing pieces
- Balance
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Originally published on November 22, 2018
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Joce Blake is a womanist who loves fashion, Beyonce and Hot Cheetos. The sophistiratchet enthusiast is based in Brooklyn, NY but has southern belle roots as she was born and raised in Memphis, TN. Keep up with her on Instagram @joce_blake and on Twitter @SaraJessicaBee.
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When discussing the topic of raising children, discipline is often the first thing that comes to mind. Children need discipline. Full stop. But what is discipline? And how do we draw the line between discipline and revenge?
The origin of the word "discipline" can be traced back to the Latin word "disciplina," which means "instruction" or "teaching." Over time, however, discipline has come to be synonymous with punishment, with parents relying on shame, fear, and/or physical pain to curb undesirable behavior.
Teaching takes time, so nipping it in the bud in whatever fashion parents deem necessary (within reason) has become the norm. But is this what’s best for children? And when does it become less about curbing undesirable behavior and more about getting our licks back for offenses we feel our children should know better to do?
In my work as a parenting coach, I’ve often heard parents say, “I asked him nicely three times before spanking him. He didn’t stop doing it until I did, so clearly talking doesn’t work.”
And the parent isn’t wrong. Talking often doesn’t work the first, the third, or the even the 10th time. And the reason is directly tied to brain development.
Children cannot and do not process information the way an adult can. Auditory processing is not fully developed until a child is 14 or 15 years old. And even then, if a child has auditory processing delays or Auditory Processing Disorder (APD), they may always struggle with processing auditory commands. According to Susie S. Loraine, MA, CCC-SLP, the term auditory processing refers to how the brain perceives and interprets sound information. Several skills determine auditory processing ability—or listening success. They develop in a general four-step hierarchy, but all work together and are essential for daily listening.
Without this understanding, discipline can easily become revenge because parents will then view their child’s misdeeds as a personal slight. Instead of teaching them to do better, parents now want to show them the consequences of not doing better. This is why it's imperative for parents to discern between discipline and revenge to maintain healthy relationships with their children.
5 WAYS TO DISTINGUISH BETWEEN PARENTAL GUIDANCE AND RETALIATION:
Understanding The Intent
Discipline is rooted in love and concern for the child's well-being. It focuses on teaching lessons and helping children understand the consequences of their actions. Conversely, revenge-driven actions stem from a desire to inflict pain or punishment as payback for perceived slights or disobedience. Parents should reflect on their motives before taking disciplinary actions. Ask yourself whether your intention is to help your child learn or to make them suffer for upsetting you.
Example: If a child accidentally breaks a valuable item, a disciplinary response would involve discussing the importance of being careful and working with the child to come up with a way to replace or fix what they’ve broken. On the other hand, a vengeful reaction might involve yelling, harsh punishment, or bringing up past mistakes to intensify guilt.
Maintaining Emotional Regulation
Effective discipline requires parents to remain calm and composed, even in challenging situations. It's natural to feel upset or frustrated when children misbehave, but responding with anger or resentment can escalate the situation and blur the line between discipline and revenge. Before addressing the issue, take a moment to breathe and collect your thoughts.
Example: If a child cannot follow instructions, a disciplined response would involve calmly explaining why their cooperation is necessary in working with the child to accomplish the goal. Conversely, a retaliatory response might involve shouting, name-calling, or resorting to physical punishment out of anger.
Promoting Growth and Learning
Discipline should always aim to promote growth and learning. It involves guiding children toward making better choices and understanding the impact of their actions on themselves and others. Effective discipline strategies include positive reinforcement, setting clear expectations, and providing opportunities for reflection and growth.
Example: If a child repeatedly forgets to complete their chores, a disciplinary approach would involve discussing the importance of responsibility and finding solutions together, such as creating a chore chart or setting reminders with Siri or Alexa. In contrast, a revenge-driven response might involve imposing overly harsh punishments or belittling the child, which can undermine their self-esteem and hinder their ability to learn from their mistakes.
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Building Trust and Communication
Trust and open communication are essential components of a healthy parent-child relationship. Discipline should strengthen this bond by fostering trust and encouraging children to confide in their parents without fear of judgment or retaliation. When children feel safe and supported, they're more likely to accept discipline as a form of guidance rather than punishment.
Example: If a child admits to breaking a rule or making a mistake, a disciplined response would involve listening to their perspective, discussing the consequences of their actions, and working together to find a solution. Conversely, a retaliatory response might involve accusations, blame, or shutting down communication, which can erode trust and damage the parent-child relationship.
Seeking Professional Guidance
Parenting is a learning journey, and, disciplining children is a delicate balance between guiding them toward responsible behavior and nurturing their growth. By understanding the intent behind our actions, maintaining emotional regulation, promoting growth and learning, building trust and communication, and seeking professional guidance when needed, as parents we can help our children built on love, respect, and understanding.
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