It's no secret Naomi Campbell is living large, but did you know she had a relaxing Keyan retreat in addition to her other homes? Actually, the supermodel was just appointed the country's new tourism ambassador for her supreme adoration for all things related to the culture, including her estate there.
The open-air residence is located in Malindi and its sky-high Makuti roofs can't be missed. Naomi invited Architectural Digest inside to see the stunning, nature-inspired decor and gave fans a virtual tour of the impressive digs that also house a spa. "It's a beautiful place. This is definitely my go-to place [for] chilling, relaxing, and like completely shutting down...Kenya is just like a natural gem. It has the Safari, it has the bush, it has the coast, it has the dunes—it has all the elements," Naomi gushed mid-tour.
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After going from room to room, which included shuffling across lush greenery and several outdoor pools, she concluded the tour on this note:
"I hope that you will all now look at Kenya with different eyes and come here and enjoy the gorgeous nature that it gives. The African continent is where it's at. Watch. Been saying it for a long time, but you'll see."
Now, if booking a ticket to Kenya is not in your future anytime soon, we did pull some key elements of the fashion legend's decor that will bring all the Kenyan vibes straight to you. From Moroccan light fixtures to wildlife art, below see how you can create your own naturistic oasis.
Coffee Table Books That Set The Mood
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"We have to give props to the two ladies which [are] Carol Beckwith and Angela Fisher who have been champions of Africa and Kenya for so long," Naomi says to the cameras before adding, "[They're] my heroes of the whole region because they've just done [so much for] and always [just showed] the beauty of Kenya."
We figured what better way to bring some authentic Keyan culture into your space than with first edition copies of Naomi's heroes. This beautiful set is filled with photos and stories to swipe through of the people Naomi holds so dear. This photographer and author duo's work can sit pretty on your coffee table that's most likely from Ikea, unlike Naomi's handcrafted Keyan woodwork. A girl can dream!
Fake a Green Thumb and Breathe Easy
"What I love about being here is that you're really living outside, you know? Even if you're covered, it's still open...you still get the natural air and the breeze," Namoi talked up her space. Well, since most of us regular folk aren't living in enormous villas, you can bring a little piece of the outside inside. And while real plants have awesome benefits aside from your decor needs, some of us just aren't blessed with a green thumb. If that's you, save yourself the grief and adopt an artificial plant baby. You'll be glad you did when you're admiring its green hue all year long.
A Lush Bed Canopy to Cozy Into
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Naomi has a love of bed canopies, but honestly who doesn't? "I always love when I go to hotels and they have it," she said. While her canopies double as mosquito protection in Kenya, you can play pretend and just enjoy the cozy aesthetic.
She also served up a bit of beauty advice in the bedroom, too: "I don't personally sleep in air conditioning. I don't like it. It gives wrinkles, I believe."
Wildlife Art That Sparks Creativity
Naomi's home is full of art—paintings, sculptures, photography. She notes Armando Tanzini as one of her favorite local artists and credits him for many works featured in the home. Original art can be pricey, so we suggest copping a print instead. She showed off a lion portrait displayed on her bedroom wall, so we found this print that also makes a statement.
Moroccan-Style Lighting to Ignite a Vibe
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Naomi showed off a lantern-style chandelier noting, "It has that Moroccan Egyptian vibe." We're not sure how many coins the authentic Kenyan piece she has in her home will run you (Our guess? Many, many coins.), but get a similar vibe with this luxe table lamp version.
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The origin of the word "discipline" can be traced back to the Latin word "disciplina," which means "instruction" or "teaching." Over time, however, discipline has come to be synonymous with punishment, with parents relying on shame, fear, and/or physical pain to curb undesirable behavior.
Teaching takes time, so nipping it in the bud in whatever fashion parents deem necessary (within reason) has become the norm. But is this what’s best for children? And when does it become less about curbing undesirable behavior and more about getting our licks back for offenses we feel our children should know better to do?
In my work as a parenting coach, I’ve often heard parents say, “I asked him nicely three times before spanking him. He didn’t stop doing it until I did, so clearly talking doesn’t work.”
And the parent isn’t wrong. Talking often doesn’t work the first, the third, or the even the 10th time. And the reason is directly tied to brain development.
Children cannot and do not process information the way an adult can. Auditory processing is not fully developed until a child is 14 or 15 years old. And even then, if a child has auditory processing delays or Auditory Processing Disorder (APD), they may always struggle with processing auditory commands. According to Susie S. Loraine, MA, CCC-SLP, the term auditory processing refers to how the brain perceives and interprets sound information. Several skills determine auditory processing ability—or listening success. They develop in a general four-step hierarchy, but all work together and are essential for daily listening.
Without this understanding, discipline can easily become revenge because parents will then view their child’s misdeeds as a personal slight. Instead of teaching them to do better, parents now want to show them the consequences of not doing better. This is why it's imperative for parents to discern between discipline and revenge to maintain healthy relationships with their children.
5 WAYS TO DISTINGUISH BETWEEN PARENTAL GUIDANCE AND RETALIATION:
Understanding The Intent
Discipline is rooted in love and concern for the child's well-being. It focuses on teaching lessons and helping children understand the consequences of their actions. Conversely, revenge-driven actions stem from a desire to inflict pain or punishment as payback for perceived slights or disobedience. Parents should reflect on their motives before taking disciplinary actions. Ask yourself whether your intention is to help your child learn or to make them suffer for upsetting you.
Example: If a child accidentally breaks a valuable item, a disciplinary response would involve discussing the importance of being careful and working with the child to come up with a way to replace or fix what they’ve broken. On the other hand, a vengeful reaction might involve yelling, harsh punishment, or bringing up past mistakes to intensify guilt.
Maintaining Emotional Regulation
Effective discipline requires parents to remain calm and composed, even in challenging situations. It's natural to feel upset or frustrated when children misbehave, but responding with anger or resentment can escalate the situation and blur the line between discipline and revenge. Before addressing the issue, take a moment to breathe and collect your thoughts.
Example: If a child cannot follow instructions, a disciplined response would involve calmly explaining why their cooperation is necessary in working with the child to accomplish the goal. Conversely, a retaliatory response might involve shouting, name-calling, or resorting to physical punishment out of anger.
Promoting Growth and Learning
Discipline should always aim to promote growth and learning. It involves guiding children toward making better choices and understanding the impact of their actions on themselves and others. Effective discipline strategies include positive reinforcement, setting clear expectations, and providing opportunities for reflection and growth.
Example: If a child repeatedly forgets to complete their chores, a disciplinary approach would involve discussing the importance of responsibility and finding solutions together, such as creating a chore chart or setting reminders with Siri or Alexa. In contrast, a revenge-driven response might involve imposing overly harsh punishments or belittling the child, which can undermine their self-esteem and hinder their ability to learn from their mistakes.
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Building Trust and Communication
Trust and open communication are essential components of a healthy parent-child relationship. Discipline should strengthen this bond by fostering trust and encouraging children to confide in their parents without fear of judgment or retaliation. When children feel safe and supported, they're more likely to accept discipline as a form of guidance rather than punishment.
Example: If a child admits to breaking a rule or making a mistake, a disciplined response would involve listening to their perspective, discussing the consequences of their actions, and working together to find a solution. Conversely, a retaliatory response might involve accusations, blame, or shutting down communication, which can erode trust and damage the parent-child relationship.
Seeking Professional Guidance
Parenting is a learning journey, and, disciplining children is a delicate balance between guiding them toward responsible behavior and nurturing their growth. By understanding the intent behind our actions, maintaining emotional regulation, promoting growth and learning, building trust and communication, and seeking professional guidance when needed, as parents we can help our children built on love, respect, and understanding.
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