Until this year, there was no way anyone could drag me to a yoga studio. I mean, no way at all! As a plus-size woman, I had written yoga classes off as "showoff hour for lanky, thin, muscularly built and flexible people."
And who could really blame me? Prior to the Jessamyn Stanleys of the world (who I love following), yoga has been widely marketed representing the demographic.
When I was offered a free week of yoga at Tantris in Los Angeles, I was at a place in life where I knew I needed the physical activity. I suffered great loss early in the year, with the passing of my brother and then my grandfather one month after. I had about 80 lbs to lose, looked in the mirror and saw what needed to be fixed, was experiencing symptoms of obesity, but my strongest argument? I was on a budget and the class was free. So, I took the offer. I had nothing to lose.
I brought a friend along and went to class expecting nothing. I genuinely had no expectations other than to see the typical Hollywood model and actress types and to do a few Downward Dogs up in that bih. But to my surprise, I loved the class! It was challenging, but also surprisingly relaxing.
We chanted and followed that with a vinyasa flow. I wasn't great at the poses, but I felt my body asking for more yoga. I came back to class the following day, and the day after that, and the day after that. I continued coming back every day I possibly could, thus beginning the transformation and journey I'm on today. It's been five months of yoga so far and I'm absolutely loving it!
Here are five ways that yoga has improved my life:
I Feel Connected To My Body For The First Time In My Adult Life
For a very long time, I looked in the mirror to see what needed to be fixed...but never really felt like or saw myself. To me, my arms were just fat and weak and my legs were gigantic. That was the way they always were and I accepted them as such. But after beginning yoga, I started feeling strength and seeing shape in places I had so long ago given up on.
I started actually feeling every movement my body makes and am grateful for the ability. I see (and feel) my body's potential and know I'm putting in the work on the yoga mat to reach it.
I Participated In A 30-Day Challenge & Went Vegan
The yoga studio I go to (Tantris Center For Yogic Science) held a 30-day challenge, in which we were to eat vegan and attend class every day. I participated and felt so amazing afterwards that I continued being a vegan beyond the challenge.
I Lost Weight & My Body Started Reshaping
There are moments on a daily basis when I have to do a double-take. Whether I'm passing by a mirror, or looking at a photo someone else took, I am in shock that, for the most part, I'm not horrified, or I don't dislike what I see. I actually like my body. I haven't weighed myself in weeks, but after weighing myself in the beginning, I know I lost over 20 pounds in the first two months.
Daily, I see the results of the work I'm putting in on my mat. My posture has improved tremendously, my butt sits up higher (just being honest), and my cellulite is smoothing out.
I actually have a great relationship with fitness because I'm enjoying the activity that's helping me stay fit.
I Learned How To Meditate
I have a hard time sitting still. My mind just goes and goes. At the beginning and end of each yoga class, we have the opportunity to set intentions and meditate. The more I practice yoga, the better I get at putting myself into a meditative state. I'm able to tune out the craziness of the day, the list of things that need to be done, the stresses and the work. I can just sit in silence.
I Made Solid Like-Minded Friends
The people I practice yoga with are truly amazing. They are of all age groups and genders and races. They're so full of knowledge, wisdom, experience, and love. They'll celebrate with you just as quickly as they'll volunteer to work at a charity event with you. These people encourage your spiritual, physical and mental growth and when it comes down to it, they have your back.
*Article originally published on Thick Fab Life
Chel Hill started Thick Fab Life as a way to inspire people to love themselves, live well, and be the best version of themselves at any shape and size. Since discovering yoga in mid-2017, she is transforming her health & life through regular yoga practice, meditation & living a plant-based lifestyle. In addition to blogging, Chel is a Billboard-charting songwriter, a voice-over artist, and is passionate about all things creative.
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Anyway, as I’ve been doing some stair climbing in order to get my body where I want it to be in time for the summer season, believe it or not, something that I’m considering doing is going on a water fast. Not so much for weight reasons but for detox purposes. Because the more research that I’ve done on water fasting, as of late, it really does seem like a quick and effective way to benefit your body, on a few different levels.
Here's what I mean.
What Water Does for Your Body Overall
GiphyI’m pretty sure that you grew up hearing somewhere that your body is made up of somewhere around 60 percent water. However, what you may not have known (or didn’t remember) is that your brain and heart reportedly consist of 73 percent water, while your lungs are made up of 83 percent water. Since water keeps you hydrated and it has oxygen in it (which is something that your organs need in order to function properly), that’s enough of a reason to prioritize water consumption on a daily basis (and yes, I am definitely preaching to the choir here).
Okay, but what are some other things that water does for you?
- Water lubricates your joints
- Water helps your body to produce saliva and mucus
- Water improves the quality of your skin and hair
- Water regulates your body temperature
- Water helps you to digest your food better
- Water helps to prevent migraines
- Water helps to make diabetes more manageable
- Water increases your energy levels
- Water helps to maintain your blood pressure
- Water makes your period cramps more bearable
- Water helps you to lose and/or manage your weight
- Water helps to prevent urinary tract infections
- Water can help you get over a hangover quicker
- Water keeps natural lubrication going
- Water increases longevity
And gee, this is just 15 reasons why it’s important to drink no less than 11 cups (cups are smaller than a glass, if you’re thinking about the whole “eight glasses a day” thing) of water daily if you are a woman and 15 cups if you are a man.
That said, if you’re someone like me and you know that you’re not hitting the “cups mark” each and every day, it might be a given that a water fast is something that you should give a shot. Yeah, but what if you’re someone who does enjoy water and you actually do make sure that you keep a bottle of it around with you at all times?
When it comes to going on a water fast, is it something that even you should consider doing as well? My short answer is “yes;” however, check out the next section of this to see why I say so.
What a Water Fast Can Ultimately Do for Your System
GiphyI’m pretty sure you know what a fast is, but just to be on the safe side, it’s when a person intentionally decides to go without food and/or drink for a certain period of time. Some people fast for religious or spiritual reasons. Some people do it as a form of detox. Some people do it to address some health issues that they may have. There is also what is known as intermittent fasting (which you can read about here) — but that’s kind of another topic for another time.
Anyway, when it comes to water fasting, specifically, it’s when you make the decision to consume nothing but water for a period of time, usually somewhere between 24-72 hours. And how can doing that help you out as far as your health is concerned? Good question.
Studies have proven that a water fast can help to:
- Reduce inflammation
- Improve heart health
- Treat hypertension
- Fight obesity
- Help to balance your hormones
- Fight against free radicals
- Lower your cancer risk
- Improve your quality of sleep
- Revive your body’s cells
- Decrease stress levels
Goodness, so with all of these great things that can happen to you if you do decide to go on a water fast, are there any challenges to keep in mind? That’s a good question, too. First, if you do happen to have any health issues, you should run your desire to go on a water fast by your doctor first, just to make sure that it doesn’t end up doing you more harm than good.
Something else? Make sure that your fasts last no longer than 72 hours. Your body needs food for fuel, so going beyond three days could prove to be problematic. If you are pregnant or breastfeeding, you are currently dealing with an eating disorder (or have in the past), or you’re under 18 or over 65, a water fast is actually not something that you should be doing.
Another thing? If you’re considering a water fast in order to lose weight, while you probably will shed some pounds, a lot of it will probably be water weight, so make sure not to overdo the fast just because you’re seeing what appears to be overnight results. Also, as wild as it may (initially) sound, a water fast can actually dehydrate you. That’s because you don’t just need water but also electrolytes in order for your system to remain hydrated, and ones like potassium, sodium, and magnesium come from food.
However, if after taking in all of what I just said, you believe that you are “in the clear” to do a water fast, I’ve got a few tips for making the process easier and most beneficial for you.
5 Things to Keep in Mind When Doing a Water Fast
GiphySo, what if you think that you are more than ready to attempt your first water fast? Here are a few things that you should definitely keep in mind:
1. Eat less 2-3 days before going on the fast. One of the biggest mistakes that people make when it comes to fasting (no matter what kind of fast it is) is not “pre-gaming” for it. By eating lighter and smaller meals (ones that preferably don’t consist of processed foods, dairy, caffeine, or alcohol) 2-3 days before your fast, your body will already have been somewhat prepared for going without food totally.
2. Consider drinking some mineral water. Remember that when you are on a water fast, you’re not taking in any nutrients from food, and that is why you might want to consider consuming mineral water. It gets its name because it has minerals in it like magnesium, potassium, and calcium that can do things like improve your bone health, reduce heart disease, treat constipation, and even help to lower your blood pressure. Mineral water is one way to get some nutrients into your system without “cheating” when it comes to your water fast.
3. Don’t overdo it with the exercising; meditate instead. Again, food provides fuel that gives you energy. This means that if you’re not eating, your system may be moving at a slower pace, and if that is indeed the case, you shouldn’t overextend it. Bottom line: If you are someone who has a consistent workout routine, chill out on that a bit while you are fasting. Instead, opt for something like yoga or meditation, so that you can keep your system calm while you are going without sustenance.
4. Pay attention to potential side effects. Since water fasting tends to send your body through certain metabolic changes, you could experience headaches (even migraines), nausea, fatigue, vomiting, and even feelings of disorientation during your fast. These are not indications to further push yourself. That said, if it’s already been 24 hours, you should pat yourself on the back and consider breaking the fast. If it’s been less time, at the very least, snack on some fruit or try ginger or peppermint tea to see if the side effects subside.
Remember, a fast is supposed to improve your health; if that isn’t happening, don’t try to be a superwoman out here. Do what makes you feel better.
5. Ease back into eating. Just like you had to ease into water fasting, it’s wise to ease out of it as well. Bone broth, fruits, and veggies that contain lots of water (like watermelon, strawberries, cucumbers, zucchini, and peaches) can help your body adjust to being on food again once your fast is done.
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At the end of the day, anything that cleanses you out — mind, body, and spirit — is something worth considering at the very least. And since that is the aim of most fasts, and also since water is healing in so many ways, a water fast might just be what the doctor ordered.
I mean, pun intended (you still should consider trying it, though).
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