
Danai Gurira On Why Pushing Your Physicality & Self-Care To The Limit Is So Important

Danai Gurira burst onto many people's radar as Okoye, the leader of the Dora Milaje, the undeniably powerful army of superwomen heralded in the record-breaking box office smash Black Panther. What many don't know is that Gurira, 40, has been putting in the work for quite some time.
Whether it's as a nonprofit organizer and playwright (the nonprofit, Almasi Arts, supports and facilitates the dramatic arts in Zimbabwe, and she's currently adapting Chimamanda Ngozi Adichie's award-winning novel Americanah into a TV miniseries), or starring in The Walking Dead, her strength has also come from rigorous workouts, a commitment to her spirituality, and a continued connection to her passions and goals.
Gurira recently sat down with Women's Health Magazine to talk about her fitness journey, but the gems she dropped are mantras that we can all incorporate into our own fitness AND professional journeys.
Take one look at Gurira and it is clear that she is well-trained and finely tuned. World-class athletes like Serena Williams and Simone Biles have been, on one hand, praised for their domination of their particular sports, while on the other hand, lambasted for their muscular physical appearance.
This double-edged sword is also felt by we regular women who may be afraid to go to the extreme when it comes to our own physical training. To that, Gurira says:
"As women, we're not always encouraged to find the fullest extent of our physical power...There's something so exciting about tapping into that part of ourselves."
Under the wing of trainer AJ Fisher, Gurira has crafted her enviable physique using a method Fisher dubs as "Corectology." The method involves high-intensity intervals, Pilates-inspired moves, and a lot of circuit training. Described as a way to "even out muscle imbalances while improving strength, mobility, and cardiovascular function," Gurira has been successfully practicing this method at least four times a day for the last three years.
For those who aren't quite ready to jump into such a high-demand workout regimen, Gurira explains:
"There's no need to break records tomorrow. It's just about slowly finding what feels good and what feels rewarding."
She also advises that women should try different activities in order to find not only what works for them but what they enjoy—"it might be lifting weights, it might be boxing, it might be something a little less [intense]."
In addition to revealing her workout secrets, Gurira was also incredibly candid about her upbringing and what drives her passion. "I was in a home where I was allowed to freely find myself," she says, which undoubtedly set the tone for the not-so-traditional career path she has chosen.
She wants others to know they can also make similar choices, too. Her work with Almasi Arts is guided by her commitment to enhancing the lives of women and girls. Part of her self-described journey includes fighting gender inequality. Through her nonprofit work, she is "making sure unheard voices are heard and celebrated." She tells Women's Health Magazine:
"The struggles of women and girls is something that I'm very passionate about. I have to do what I can in the world. We all have to do what we can."
The global success of Black Panther has given Gurira and other creatives of color another example of why our stories are just as important as the rest. She admits, "It kind of affirms that little African girl's instinct that these stories would resonate if they were told with passion, integrity, and excellence."
In a world of instant gratification—one where success is attributed to the glamorized grind—we don't often see how hard hard work really is. Particularly, we rarely get to see the pitfalls and difficulties that are inherently tied to most people's perception of success. To that, Gurira drops some major Dora Milaje advice:
"There's no app for skipping hard work; you have to seek your purpose and pursue it."
There are, indeed, no shortcuts to success. Gurira reminds us to always keep our why at the forefront our minds by "remembering the goals," which will inevitably provide the fuel to power us through the difficult times.
To read more about Danai's workout routine, diet, and additional methods of practicing self-care, click here. Read the feature story in Women's Health Magazine when it hits newsstands July 26.
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Egypt Sherrod & Mike Jackson On Love, Business, And Financial Transparency On The First Date
Egypt Sherrod and Mike Jackson have captivated us on their HGTV show, Married to Real Estate, and podcast Marriage and Money.
Now, they have teamed up with TurboTax to assist small business owners with tax and financial support. The couple met while working in radio, and now they own multiple businesses together. While working with your spouse can have its ups and downs, they wouldn’t have it any other way.
“Besides the fact that I get to work with the person I love doing what I love to do, right? There's the aspect of our daughters, seeing us work together as a unit and actually doing it successful,” Mike tells xoNecole in an exclusive interview
“So they get to grow up and experience what it is to be entrepreneurs from ground level, right? Because Mom and Dad did it, and they did it in such a way that I want to emulate, even if they don't decide to do exactly what we do, but they get to see it. That, to me, means a lot.”
But owning a business, whether separate or together, comes with a lot of responsibility and mistakes can often happen, especially for novice entrepreneurs. Egypt opens up about mistakes her and Mike experienced working in real estate.
“On our journey of entrepreneurship, we made a lot of mistakes. We spent money, we did things backwards, we learned the hard way through the school of hard knocks. There was no road map for us,” she says.
“So our goal by partnering with TurboTax is to really open the eyes of fellow entrepreneurs, to show them that, especially when it comes to your finances, your taxes, and getting that right, there is a faster, more cost effective, more accurate way of getting the support that you need.”
“On our journey of entrepreneurship, we made a lot of mistakes. We spent money, we did things backwards, we learned the hard way through the school of hard knocks. There was no road map for us."
Being tax compliant is among small business owners’ top concerns, but it's often time-consuming and research-intensive to figure out taxes on your own. TurboTax Business provides small business owners and solopreneurs access to unlimited live expert help to get your taxes prepared and filed.
When it comes to their marriage, the money conversation never goes away. The couple owns six businesses together, multiple properties, and are parents to three daughters. So when it comes down to finances, they believe in transparency, even dating back to their first date 21 years ago.
“Our first conversation about money was that, ‘hey, I don't have no money.’ Okay?,” Mike says. “Because there's been past relationships that are no longer existing. There's been things going on that I had to take care of and get through. So you're meeting a man that is pretty much starting from scratch again. How do you feel about it?”
At the time, Mike was newly divorced and had a small child. Egypt says she found his honesty “refreshing” and was looking for someone to build with, so his finances weren’t a problem for her. “If you're building anything, and that's like, first, second, third date, and you feel like, okay, this is someone I can be invested with, even beyond money, you have to just be honest about your circumstances,” Egypt shares.
“Our first conversation about money was that, ‘hey, I don't have no money.’ Okay?. Because there's been past relationships that are no longer existing. There's been things going on that I had to take care of and get through. So you're meeting a man that is pretty much starting from scratch again. How do you feel about it?”
“Otherwise you're building a house of cards that can fall at any minute, but I think money is one of the things. Finances are one of the things that even when people are in love, they still can't make it work and it breaks up marriages. It breaks up relationships because it's a stressor.
“So, yeah it is something that you want to ask about up front. What's your credit? How much do you earn? You don't have to be rich, but I just need to know if if the math is mathing.”
While they don’t believe you should have the money conversation on the first date, they do believe you should have it early to avoid any misunderstandings down the line.
To hear more about their story, check out their podcast, Marriage and Money and watch the new season of Married to Real Estate on HGTV.
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“So they get to grow up and experience what it is to be entrepreneurs from ground level, right? Because Mom and Dad did it, and they did it in such a way that I want to emulate, even if they don't decide to do exactly what we do, but they get to see it. That, to me, means a lot.”
But owning a business, whether separate or together, comes with a lot of responsibility and mistakes can often happen, especially for novice entrepreneurs. Egypt opens up about mistakes her and Mike experienced working in real estate.
“On our journey of entrepreneurship, we made a lot of mistakes. We spent money, we did things backwards, we learned the hard way through the school of hard knocks. There was no road map for us,” she says.
“So our goal by partnering with TurboTax is to really open the eyes of fellow entrepreneurs, to show them that, especially when it comes to your finances, your taxes, and getting that right, there is a faster, more cost effective, more accurate way of getting the support that you need.”
“On our journey of entrepreneurship, we made a lot of mistakes. We spent money, we did things backwards, we learned the hard way through the school of hard knocks. There was no road map for us."
Being tax compliant is among small business owners’ top concerns, but it's often time-consuming and research-intensive to figure out taxes on your own. TurboTax Business provides small business owners and solopreneurs access to unlimited live expert help to get your taxes prepared and filed.
When it comes to their marriage, the money conversation never goes away. The couple owns six businesses together, multiple properties, and are parents to three daughters. So when it comes down to finances, they believe in transparency, even dating back to their first date 21 years ago.
“Our first conversation about money was that, ‘hey, I don't have no money.’ Okay?,” Mike says. “Because there's been past relationships that are no longer existing. There's been things going on that I had to take care of and get through. So you're meeting a man that is pretty much starting from scratch again. How do you feel about it?”
At the time, Mike was newly divorced and had a small child. Egypt says she found his honesty “refreshing” and was looking for someone to build with, so his finances weren’t a problem for her. “If you're building anything, and that's like, first, second, third date, and you feel like, okay, this is someone I can be invested with, even beyond money, you have to just be honest about your circumstances,” Egypt shares.
“Our first conversation about money was that, ‘hey, I don't have no money.’ Okay?. Because there's been past relationships that are no longer existing. There's been things going on that I had to take care of and get through. So you're meeting a man that is pretty much starting from scratch again. How do you feel about it?”
“Otherwise you're building a house of cards that can fall at any minute, but I think money is one of the things. Finances are one of the things that even when people are in love, they still can't make it work and it breaks up marriages. It breaks up relationships because it's a stressor.
“So, yeah it is something that you want to ask about up front. What's your credit? How much do you earn? You don't have to be rich, but I just need to know if if the math is mathing.”
While they don’t believe you should have the money conversation on the first date, they do believe you should have it early to avoid any misunderstandings down the line.
To hear more about their story, check out their podcast, Marriage and Money and watch the new season of Married to Real Estate on HGTV.
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