![Quantcast](http://pixel.quantserve.com/pixel/p-GS-HF4BKvzCmv.gif)
![The Pageant Queens Are ALL Black & Here’s Why](https://assets.rebelmouse.io/eyJhbGciOiJIUzI1NiIsInR5cCI6IkpXVCJ9.eyJpbWFnZSI6Imh0dHBzOi8vYXNzZXRzLnJibC5tcy8zNDY2NzkzMi9vcmlnaW4uanBnIiwiZXhwaXJlc19hdCI6MTc2MTA1MjE5MH0.tSY-K0st71R0ShYsRwu_MS1_Amhef5tXZ0O4MfFIKK0/img.jpg?width=1200&height=600&quality=90&coordinates=0%2C0%2C0%2C100)
The Pageant Queens Are ALL Black & Here’s Why
With Miss Universe's recent win, Black women now hold every major Pageant title in the world. Melanin is here, and seeing why is 2020 vision. Our culture has waited too patiently, and no we're not giving out standing ovations for acceptance speeches anymore as much as we're honoring the natural crowns of melanin hair glory that graced each stage.
Our sisters, already crowned by the tresses of their natural hair, fro'd or faded, curly kinky hair or not, our Queens have came and conquered. Another representation of our blackness entering a room and needing no invite. Like Tupac at the picnic in Poetic Justice.
The current headlines are ringing as the world is surprised for the FIRST time in history that there is a Miss America, Miss USA, Miss Teen USA, and Miss Universe who are ALL BLACK WOMEN. It's not a coincidence that we're seeing melanin wisdom rising at its finest. In fact, it's a glimpse of what is about to happen with our next decade. Order is happening before us.
It's an honor that Zozibini Tunzi joins the group as the newly crowned Miss Universe, but here's why our Pageant Queens are all Black:
- It's out of their control now. They have run out of creativity and need us to renew their minds. They can't keep up with our excellence because when we embrace our culture, our light is way too hard to compete with.
- Their time is simply, up. Our ancestors gave them 400 years to erase the lies they taught us but they still missed the parts that lead us to our melanin truth and we no longer beg for the acceptance. We show up and take home new titles.
- Our ancestors' great-great grandchildren have reactivated their spirit on this earth and something inside of us all is something that they can't have. Now granted, we do still have some who keep missing the mark on all this black glory happening, failing to see the obvious signs, tapping into the air of energy out here, but my oh my, collectively and professionally, we are black, we are getting it and we are here.
- We simply are unstoppable. Until the 1940s, pageants barred women not of the "white race" from participating. Despite later changes to the rules, a black woman did not participate until the 1970s and, even then, we weren't really welcomed. This decade is sure to leave all that behind, and as you can see, we're coming in groups now.
I recall a time when Steve Harvey announced the wrong winner and a pageant queen's title easily got replaced in seconds, but this time, the riches of our complexion can't be mistaken or taken. Black Queens, there is a part of you that is deeply rooted in continuous winning seasons and now our blackness has tapped into yet another and it's rightfully recorded.
Getty Images
We've raised the bar. As we rise above all the branches of our life: family, money, kids, hustles, credit, purpose; may our souls and peace flourish as well, because our own management of "know thyself" will keep us here. It's needed.
As we've witnessed Miss Universe take the last crown, my soul shook at her looks. Her hair, so fiery short - cut into the obedience of her soul's rhythm. Her eyes, piercing its ancestry pride at every angle. Her poise, clear with deliverance to the loudest sound of knowing who you are wholeheartedly. It is something obvious and ever-so-special about her and the title 'Universe' has awakened Mother Nature to what we honor her for, the truest form of coconut-oiled blackness.
Zozibini Tunzi is her name and has put the cherry on top for every black Pageantry win this year. Salute Queen! The 26-year-old gender violence activist hailing from South Africa recently wrote:
"Tonight a door was opened and I could not be more grateful to have been the one to have walked through it. May every little girl who witnessed this moment forever believe in the power of her dreams and may they see their faces reflected in mine. I proudly state my name Zozibini Tunzi, Miss Universe 2019!"
Now that's dope!
Reflecting over earlier in the year when viewers' excitement showed up for the other three, one viewer said, "It is important to little brown and black girls to see three strong figures, three strong women, African-American women that are doing so much great work," Ms. Franklin told the New York Times in May. "People will argue that race doesn't matter. But race does matter in America, because of the history, because of slavery."
That's true, our blackness needs all acceptance today, tomorrow, and beyond.
As Senator Kamala Harris in all her brown-skin glory tweeted in May, "Nia, Cheslie, and Kaliegh: you are trailblazers, creating your own path on your own terms."
She's right, this is officially living while black, congratulations Queens!
Featured image via Paras Griffin/Getty Images
- South Africa's Zozibini Tunzi Wins Miss Universe 2019 - Bloomberg ›
- Miss Universe 2019 winner is Miss South Africa Zozibini Tunzi ... ›
- South Africa's Zozibini Tunzi named Miss Universe 2019 | GMA ›
- Who Is Zozibini Tunzi? Miss Universe 2019 Winner ›
- South Africa's Zozibini Tunzi Is Miss Universe 2019 ›
- Miss Universe 2019: South Africa's Zozibini Tunzi wins, beating ... ›
- Miss Universe Zozibini Tunzi Is Not a 'Diversity Win' | Glamour ›
- Miss Universe 2019: South Africa's Zozibini Tunzi Wins the Crown ... ›
- Why Zozibini Tunzi's Miss Universe 2019 Win Is Especially Historic ... ›
This article is sponsored by Hulu.
UnPrisonedhas returned for its highly anticipated second season, delving deeper into the complex dynamics of the Alexander family.
The series premiere comes a year after its debut season garnered rave reviews from fans and critics and earned record-breaking ratings for Hulu's Onyx Collective brand. UnPrisoned's success can be attributed to its raw, relatable themes and comedic appeal.
Inspired by creator Tracy McMillan's life, the show follows Paige (Kerry Washington), a therapist and single mother whose life takes an unexpected turn when her father, Edwin (Delroy Lindo) --who was released from prison-- moves in with her and her teenage son, Finn (Faly Rakotohavana).
Throughout UnPrisoned's first season, viewers witnessed how Edwin's incarceration deeply affected Paige's life and relationships. In the series, Paige unpacks her trauma through interactions with her inner child and her online followers. Meanwhile, Edwin is overcoming specific struggles with his own past that led to his life of crime, including a dysfunctional upbringing and his mother's arrest. As the Alexanders attempt to reconcile, new challenges arise.
This new season promises to further explore their unconventional family dynamic. Here are several compelling reasons why season two of UnPrisoned should be on everyone's watchlist.
The Alexander Family Life Is Still In Shambles
UnPrisoned's second season resumes where the series left off, with Paige grappling with the fallout from her troubled therapy practice and Edwin navigating life independently after moving out. Meanwhile, Finn faces his own challenges. The teenager is battling anxiety and seeking information about his father—a topic Paige avoids discussing.
The Alexander Family Are Attending Therapy To Resolve Their Underlying Issues
Amid the chaos in their lives, the Alexander family decides to mend their bond by confronting their past traumas. They seek professional help and attend therapy sessions with a “family radical healing coach,” played by John Stamos, a new cast member. This collective effort aims to unravel the complexities of their shared history and strengthen their relationships.
The process of unraveling each character's internal conflicts and their potential impact on future relationships may clash with Paige's textbook therapy approach. While Paige is used to being in the therapist's seat in both career and family, this forces her into the unfamiliar role of a patient during therapy sessions. This shift would compel her to look in the mirror and try a radically different approach.
The Alexander Family Learned A Big Lesson During A Therapy Session
In therapy, the Alexanders are tasked with addressing their individual traumas to salvage their remaining relationships. One of the family therapist’s eccentric suggestions was an exercise involving a family wrestling match. During this session, Paige faces tough questions about her refusal to share information about Finn's father.
While it's unclear whether this scene is reality or fantasy, the image of the family duking it out in the ring certainly makes for hilarious yet compelling television.
Paige Tries Dating Again Following Failed Relationships
Amid her life's chaos, Paige decides to step back into the dating field. However, her many attempts have left her with mixed results. The dating apps have turned out to be a fail, and an outing with her ex Mal (Marque Richardson), who is also her father's parole officer, doesn’t go quite as expected after he brings an unexpected guest – his new girlfriend.
The situation takes an awkward turn when Mal's new partner learns why the former couple split, partly due to Paige's self-sabotage.
UnPrisoned Is A Perfect Balance Of Comedy And Drama
As a dramedy, UnPrisoned takes a comedic approach to its heavy subjects. The show takes us on a ride with Paige's dating misadventures and navigating a friendship with her ex.
Other lighthearted moments include Edwin's attempts at CPR based on online videos and, of course, the antics of the Alexander family's unconventional new healing coach.
The second season of UnPrisoned is now available on Hulu.
UnPrisoned | Season 2 Trailer | Hulu
Feature image courtesy
Summer Travel Guide: 9 Safest Vacation Spots For Black Women
When it comes to planning and choosing our international travels, there’s one question that is bound to come up: “Is it safe for Black women?”
At times, our travel plans can be halted by whether or not our desired destination is safe not only for solo travel but for overall protection as women of color. We want to have fun, go on excursions, taste the food, and let our hair down, so the last thing we need on our minds is navigating microaggressions and worrying about our safety.
According to a report by The Mandala Research Firm, 17% of Black Americans take one or more international trips and travel locally more than six times per year. Even more exciting, 42% of Black Americans said they would spend more in 2020 on travel than in 2019 (pre-Covid), and 50% of Black adults (16% more than the general population) are more likely to travel to locations associated with their ethnic or cultural heritage. All of this goes to show that we’re not afraid to pack our bags and book flights to our heart's desire.
Our passion for travel and exploration highlights a growing desire to connect with a wide range of cultures while discovering new fresh locales. By choosing destinations with positive reputations for safety and belonging, you can enjoy your next adventure with peace of mind. And to help, we’ve provided a list of the best vacation spots to add to our travel bucket list.
1.Havana, Cuba
Known for its vibrant culture and welcoming locals, Havana offers a unique travel experience for you and your girlfriends. Stroll through the historic streets of Old Havana and immerse yourself in the lively music and dance scenes that make this city unforgettable.
2.Rio de Janeiro, Brazil
Famous for its Carnival, stunning beaches, and warm hospitality, Rio de Janeiro is a lively and safe city to explore all year long. Don't miss a visit to the iconic Christ the Redeemer statue and the bustling Copacabana Beach for a true taste of Rio's energetic spirit.
3.Belize
With its beautiful beaches, diverse wildlife, and laid-back Caribbean vibe, Belize is a safe and adventurous destination for travelers. Discover the underwater wonders of the Belize Barrier Reef and explore ancient Lamanai Maya Ruins.
4.Paris, France
Who doesn’t have Paris, the city of lights, on their travel list? Renowned for its art, fashion, and iconic landmarks like the Eiffel Tower, Paris offers a blend of romance and safety for travelers. Wander through the charming neighborhoods of Montmartre and Le Marais, explore the Louvre, and indulge in the city's exquisite culinary delights.
5.Lisbon, Portugal
Portugal's capital city, Lisbon, charms visitors with its historic architecture, delicious cuisine, and welcoming atmosphere. Enjoy breathtaking views from São Jorge Castle and savor traditional pastries at the famous Pastéis de Belém bakery.
6.Bali, Indonesia
We’ve all seen the viral photos off the Bali coast and Gates of Heaven, so why not make it a reality? Famous for its lush landscapes, vibrant culture, and serene temples, Bali offers a safe and enriching travel experience in Southeast Asia.
7.Tokyo, Japan
Recently, the value of the Japanese Yen has seen a significant drop, making it the lowest it has been against the dollar since 1986, which also means that there’s no better time than now to make your travel plans to the renowned cultural hub.
8.Accra, Ghana
There’s no FOMO like the kind felt from seeing all the beautiful faces enjoying their holiday at Ghana’s Afrochella Festival, so let this be your sign to start planning the trip now. Often referred to as a welcoming home for the African diaspora, Ghana offers rich cultural experiences and a sense of belonging. Explore the vibrant markets of Accra and visit the historic Cape Coast Castle to connect with the nation's poignant past.
9.Seoul, South Korea
You may be surprised to find this city on the list, but for Black travelers, Seoul is said to be one of the safest and most exciting cities to travel to. There will be plenty to eat, buy, and experience from this city’s rich history and culture.
Let’s make things inbox official! Sign up for the xoNecole newsletter for love, wellness, career, and exclusive content delivered straight to your inbox.
Featured image by Klaus Vedfelt/Getty Images