Things I Wish I Had Known Before Becoming A Teacher
The education industry (in particular teaching) is a very popular career field.
For some, the idea of inspiring and being a service to the young is heartwarming, and not to mention the benefits aren’t too bad either. However, before you jump in the classroom, you may want to do your research first.
To save you some time, I sat down with 4 teachers across the States for their perspective and their thoughts on the things they wish they would’ve known before becoming a teacher.
One middle school iSTEAM teacher, Elexia Robinson-White, has always had a love for teaching from the moment she was in the classroom herself as a young child. Being an educator was also in her blood. She comes from a long family line of teachers and the idea of giving back to the youth was always in her heart.
“I always felt it was my duty to help touch the lives of others,” Elexia told me. “I am confident that being a teacher has collided with my own destiny of impacting other people. My classroom is the avenue in which I use to display my fervor for servant leadership and inspiring the youth to never take education for granted.”
Along with Elexia, a few other teachers (some new and some seasoned) were able to share their thoughts on teaching and what they wish they would’ve known. For the sake of some school district policies, the names of the other teachers will remain anonymous.
1.Your rapport with the students, can positively or negatively impact the way they receive the lesson.
While you are not hired to be the students’ BFF, some teachers have experienced that when their interaction with a student is more positive, the student performs better in their work. If you have a problem student, listen to them and see how you two can find a positive, medium ground. Although they are students, they are human and they simply want to be heard and respected.
2.Teaching is a calling - not "just a job."
Although, "teacher" may be your official title, you assume the role of many others. Sometimes mother, father, and counselor are some of those titles. The majority of the student’s day is spent at school so naturally they may cling to you and look at you as more than just a teacher.
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3.Working with parents can be difficult.
When you are studying and training to be a teacher, the discussion of working with parents doesn’t come up often. Nonetheless, knowing how to work with parents is a critical part of your job and the student’s success. Sometimes when there is a difference in student values and when there is poor communication, your relationship with parents may not be the best. Even if those things exist, sometimes you may struggle with some parents anyway. Working with those struggle parents is hard, but it’s not impossible. By staying professional and communicating, it will make the relationship better.
4.You will spend more time than designated in your job to do extra, but necessary work.
Being a teacher is a draining yet rewarding career. Sometimes you may be required or expected to do work outside of the classroom. Whether that is assisting with an organization or attending school-related events after hours, the most effective teachers are those that go the extra mile.
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5.The secretary will need to be your BFF.
It is recommend that you get close to the secretary as they have access to all school funds & have a greater impact on the principal's financial decisions for the schools. As you are moving your way up to the top, don’t forget the staff in the main office because they are the real plug.
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6.Students will find you on social media.
Nowadays, literally everyone is on social media. As a result, don’t be surprise when your students find you on the Gram or on Twitter and try to follow you. If your social profile can be easily found, consider making your account private so that students cannot follow you. Also, this will help you set professional boundaries between you and the students.
7.You can say goodbye to those “sunglasses and advil, last night was mad real” mornings.
As a teacher, you are visible all day, every day and your students will never stop looking up to you. Teaching is not a job where you can roll into work late with your sunglasses on because you went to hard at happy hour. Your students will notice if you are ever not your usual self.
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8.Student teaching may not completely prepare you.
Not all student teaching experiences truly prepare you to teach. You may end up teaching a different age group, different grade, or student environment than you trained for. If you become a teacher and get a job teaching a grade or subject that you were not prepared for, spend time in at that school before you start and observe.
9.What you want to teach may not be available.
Although teaching jobs will always be around (teach is an ever-growing career field), sometimes what you want to teach may not be in demand. Before you start looking to teach, check around with your districts to see what kind of positions may become available and try to build a good rapport with the principal before you apply so that you can get your foot in the door.
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10.Summer time does not equal no work.
Many teachers feel that in the summer, you are not truly off if you want to be effective. For most districts, in the summer time there are tons of training and professional development opportunities that you can take advantage of. Similar to any profession, you don’t become truly the greatest until you put in work even when you are not required to work.
Are you a teacher? What are some of the things that YOU wish you would’ve known before teaching?
Brittani Hunter is a proud PVAMU alumni and the founder of The Mogul Millennial, a business and career platform for Black Millennials. Meet Brittani on Twitter and on the Gram at @BrittaniLHunter and @mogulmillennial.
This Black Woman-Owned Creative Agency Shows Us The Art Of Rebranding
Rebranding is an intricate process and very important to the success of businesses that want to change. However, before a business owner makes this decision, they should determine whether it's a rebrand or an evolution.
That's where people like Lola Adewuya come in. Lola is the founder and CEO of The Brand Doula, a brand development studio with a multidisciplinary approach to branding, social media, marketing, and design.
While an evolution is a natural progression that happens as businesses grow, a rebrand is a total change. Lola tells xoNecole, "A total rebrand is necessary when a business’s current reputation/what it’s known for is at odds with the business’s vision or direction.
"For example, if you’ve fundamentally changed what your product is and does, it’s likely that your brand is out of alignment with the business. Or, if you find your company is developing a reputation that doesn’t serve it, it might be time to pump the brakes and figure out what needs to change.
She continues, "Sometimes you’ll see companies (especially startups) announce a name change that comes with updated messaging, visuals, etc. That usually means their vision has changed or expanded, and their previous branding was too narrow/couldn’t encompass everything they planned to do."
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The Brand Doula was born in 2019, and its focus is on putting "the experiences, goals, and needs of women of color founders first," as well as brands with "culture-shifting missions."
According to Lola, culture-shifting is "the act of influencing dominant behavior, beliefs, or experiences in a community or group (ideally, for the better)."
"At The Brand Doula, we work with companies and leaders that set out to challenge the status quo in their industries and communities. They’re here to make an impact that sends ripples across the market," she says.
"We help the problem solvers of the world — the ones who aren't satisfied with 'this is how it's always been' and instead ask 'how could this be better?' Our clients build for impact, reimagining tools, systems, and ways of living to move cultures forward."
The Brand Doula has worked with many brands, including Too Collective, to assist with their collaboration with Selena Gomez's Rare Beauty and Balanced Black Girl for a "refresh," aka rebrand. For businesses looking to rebrand, Lola shares four essential steps.
1. Do an audit of your current brand experience — what’s still relevant and what needs to change? Reflect on why you’re doing the rebrand in the first place and what success would look like after relaunching.
2. Tackle the overall strategy first — before you start redesigning logos and websites, align on a new vision for your brand. How do you want your company to be positioned moving forward? Has your audience changed at all? Will your company have a fresh personality and voice?
3. Bring your audience along the journey — there’s no need to move in secret. Inviting your current audience into the journey can actually help them feel more connected to and invested in your story, enough to stick around as changes are being made.
4. Keep business moving — one of my biggest pet peeves is when companies take down their websites as soon as they have the idea to rebrand, then have a Coming Soon page up for months! You lose a lot of momentum and interest by doing that. If you’re still in business and generating income, continue to operate while you work on your rebrand behind the scenes. You don’t want to cut existing customers off out of the blue, and you also don’t want so much downtime that folks forget your business exists or start looking for other solutions.
While determining whether the rebrand was successful may take a few months, Lola says a clear sign that it is unsuccessful is negative feedback from your target audience. "Customers are typically more vocal about what they don’t like more than what they do like," she says.
But some good signs to look out for are improvements in engagement with your marketing, positive reviews, press and increase in retention, and overall feeling aligned with the new branding.
For more information about Lola and The Brand Doula, visit her website, thebranddoula.com.
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Angela Bassett Just Won Her First Emmy, Here's A Look Back At Her Stellar Career
Angela Bassett's legacy keeps getting better and better. After three decades of giving us remarkable performances and racking up awards, the legendary actress can now call herself an Emmy winner.
She recently won her first Emmy for outstanding narration on National Geographic’s nature documentaryQueens during the Creative Arts Emmys. She opened up about the win to a reporter. “This is one of the big ones, and that doesn’t usually happen,” she said.
“Whenever you’re acknowledged, I’m just, you know, a girl who just wanted to act. My mentors were way out ahead of me. I just looked to them and got inspiration and hope and, and I just put my focus, my energy, and my love to try to make it happen in my life and for my life.”
She concluded, “So each and every day, I try to remember that first love, and when this happens, I appreciate it.” In honor of Angela's recent achievement, we take a look at her extraordinary career.
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Academy Awards
In January 2024, the 66-year-old actress received an honorary Oscar for her esteemed career. This came after being nominated for the prestigious award twice, in 1994 for What's Love Got to Do with Itand in 2023 for Black Panther: Wakanda Forever. During her speech, she reflected on her journey, her love for acting, and praised other Black actresses.
"Thank you, thank you to the Academy and the Board of Governors for this award," she said. "I have considered acting my calling and not just my career. I do this work because I find it meaningful and I hope in some way that it makes a difference and has an impact. To be recognized in this way for what I love doing is truly wonderful and I am beyond grateful."
Critics Choice Award
The mom of two won Best Supporting Actress at the 2023 Critics Choice Awards for her role as Queen Ramonda in Black Panther: Wakanda Forever.
BET Awards
The 9-1-1 actress won Best Actress at the 2023 BET Awards.
Golden Globes
In 2023, Angela received a Golden Globe for Best Performance by an Actress in a Supporting Role in Any Motion Picture for Black Panther: Wakanda Forever. She won her first Golden Globe in 1994 for her starring role in What's Love Got to Do with It.
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Black Girls Rock!
In 2019, Angela was the recipient of the Icon Award for Black Girls Rock! She gave a rousing speech while accepting the award. "My purpose as a Black woman, as an actress, has always been to portray excellence on the screen, to be proud, unapologetic, and without regret," she said.
NAACP Image Awards
The decorated actress has won countless Image awards. In 2020, 2022, and 2023, Angela won Outstanding Actress in a Drama Series for 9-1-1. In 2023, she took home awards for Outstanding Supporting Actress in a Motion Picture for Black Panther: Wakanda Forever and the Entertainer of the Year.
Other films/ series she has Image awards for include What's Love Got to Do with It, How Stella Got Her Groove Back, Black Nativity, Music of the Heart, Ruby's Bucket of Blood, The Score, Malcolm X, Sunshine State, The Rosa Parks Story, and ER.
Screen Actors Guild Awards
Angela took home the award for Outstanding Performance by a Cast in a Motion Picture in Black Panther at the 2019 Screen Actors Guild Awards.
Walk of Fame
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The legendary received a star on the Hollywood Walk of Fame on March 20, 2008. During the ceremony, she reflected on when she first moved to L.A. to pursue her dreams. “I meant to stay six months, but I stayed. Today, my cup runneth over!” she said in her speech. “I am crying now, I cried yesterday and the day before. … This day is so, so special to me.”
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