With the rise of more and more black women breaking away from traditional 9-5s to become their own bosses, the CEO is getting a revamp as the SHEeo. CEOs are forging their own paths, blazing their own trails, and turning their passion into a profit. Curious to know how she does it? In the Meet The SHEeo series, we talk to melanated mavens leveling up and glowing up, all while redefining what it means to be a boss.
Dr. Jacqueline Dow has always had a passion for improving women's health through proper nutrition and fitness, so when she graduated in 2018 with her doctorate in Public Health, she knew that a traditional nine-to-five would limit her ability to serve the women in her community. As a result, she launched her athleisure apparel company J. Dow Fitness to promote holistic wellness, fitness and self-confidence among women of all shapes and sizes. She continues to address the disproportionate prevalence of chronic disease and health disparities among women of color through health education, health advocacy, and research science.
In this week's feature, meet Dr. Jacqueline Dow of J. Dow Fitness.
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Brand: CEO of J. Dow Fitness
Location: Atlanta, GA
Year Founded: 2018
# of Employees: None
30-Second Pitch: J. Dow Fitness is a black female owned athleisure apparel company established to promote holistic wellness, fitness and self-confidence among women. J. Dow Fitness caters to women of every body type by offering sizes that range from small to 2XL.
What inspired you to start your brand?
As a research scientist, I have analyzed risk factors that lead to negative health complications among Black women, infants and children for several years. I know the key to combating chronic diseases that disproportionately impact women of color include physical activity and proper nutrition. Starting my own business gave me the opportunity to merge my scientist background with public health practices known to effectively improve women's health and pregnancy outcomes.
What was your a-ha moment that brought your idea into reality?
In 2018, I graduated from Morgan State University with my Doctor of Public Health (DrPH) degree. As I prepared for graduation, I reached an interesting period in my career. As an employee (of a corporate organization), I did not have the freedom to focus on my passion and professional expertise, which is women's health among minorities in particular. Instead of remaining frustrated, I took my destiny into my own hands and created J. Dow Fitness, LLC.
Who is your ideal customer?
Every woman is the ideal customer for J. Dow Fitness! Whether she is a fitness instructor, a marathon runner, or just beginning her fitness journey, we have something special for every woman! Also, J. Dow Fitness athleisure apparel can easily be worn causally! It is the perfect outfit for the rigorous workout, lunch with friends and even a casual date.
What makes your business different?
J. Dow Fitness offers unique athleisure apparel different from any other company. Our leggings are high-waist and provide amazing tummy control. Our sports bras are longer when compared to traditional sports bras and provide great support. In addition, our athleisure apparel offers bright colors, fun patterns and quality fabric.
What obstacles did you have to overcome while launching and growing your brand? How were you able to overcome them?
Initially, one of my challenges was identifying the face of my brand. It was very important that the images utilized for marketing and advertising be inclusive of every woman. As a result, I have been very intentional on identifying models of all hues, shapes and body types. However, it is extremely important that my customers also know and understand who I am and why I decided to start my business.
What was the defining moment in your entrepreneurial journey?
November 2018 was the defining moment for my entrepreneurial journey. Only four months after launching J. Dow Fitness, I found myself a new vendor at The Village Market Black Friday Experience in Atlanta. It was an invaluable opportunity that completely changed my perspective as a new business owner. I was literally blown away by the amount of encouragement and exceeding number of Black women excited about my product.
Where do you see your company in 5-10 years?
In 5-10 years, there will be major expansion for J. Dow Fitness. In addition to growing our brand, J. Dow Fitness athleisure apparel will be offered in gyms and fitness studios not just in Atlanta, but across the United States. The ultimate goal is for J. Dow Fitness athleisure apparel to be offered in major department stores such as Macy's.
Where have you seen the biggest return on investment?
So far, the biggest return on investment has been vending at several major events. This setting has provided unexpected networking opportunities and the ability to meet so many amazing women. In addition, it has allowed me as the business owner to personally introduce my brand and product to so many women.
Biggest lesson(s) you’ve learned in business?
- Don't be afraid to step out of your comfort zone.
- Once you identify where money is being wasted, adjust immediately.
- Stretch yourself to be the face of your brand.
- Always keep your customer in mind when identifying new products.
- Identify which marketing strategies are most effective for your business.
For more of J. Dow Fitness, follow them on social media @jdowfitness.
In a xoNecoleexclusive, the iconic actress opens up about embracing this season of her life, new projects, and overall being a “bad motherfucker.” Gabrielle reveals that she was 37 years old when she was diagnosed with perimenopause and is still going through it at 51 years old. Mayo Clinic says perimenopause “refers to the time during which your body makes the natural transition to menopause, marking the end of the reproductive years.”
“I haven't crossed over the next phase just yet, but I think part of it is when you hear any form of menopause, you automatically think of your mother or grandmother. It feels like an old-person thing, but for me, I was 37 and like not understanding what that really meant for me. And I don't think we focus so much on the word menopause without understanding that perimenopause is just the time before menopause,” she tells us.
Gabrielle Union
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"But you can experience a lot of the same things during that period that people talk about, that they experienced during menopause. So you could get a hot flash, you could get the weight gain, the hair loss, depression, anxiety, like all of it, mental health challenges, all of that can come, you know, at any stage of the menopausal journey and like for me, I've been in perimenopause like 13, 14 years. When you know, most doctors are like, ‘Oh, but it's usually about ten years, and I'm like, ‘Uhh, I’m still going (laughs).’”
Conversations about perimenopause, fibroids, and all the things that are associated with women’s bodies have often been considered taboo and thus not discussed publicly. However, times are changing, and thanks to the Gabrielle’s and the Tia Mowry’s, more women are having an authentic discourse about women’s health. These open discussions lead to the creation of more safe spaces and support for one another.
“I want to be in community with folks. I don't ever want to feel like I'm on an island about anything. So, if I can help create community where we are lacking, I want to be a part of that,” she says. “So, it's like there's no harm in talking about it. You know what I mean? Like, I was a bad motherfucker before perimenopause. I’m a bad motherfucker now, and I'll be a bad motherfucker after menopause. Know what I’m saying? None of that has to change. How I’m a bad motherfucker, I welcome that part of the change. I'm just getting better and stronger and more intelligent, more wise, more patient, more compassionate, more empathetic. All of that is very, very welcomed, and none of it should be scary.”
The Being Mary Jane star hasn’t been shy about her stance on therapy. If you don’t know, here’s a hint: she’s all for it, and she encourages others to try it as well. She likens therapy to dating by suggesting that you keep looking for the right therapist to match your needs. Two other essential keys to her growth are radical transparency and radical acceptance (though she admits she is still working on the latter).
"I was a bad motherfucker before perimenopause. I’m a bad motherfucker now, and I'll be a bad motherfucker after menopause. Know what I’m saying? None of that has to change. How I’m a bad motherfucker, I welcome that part of the change."
Gabrielle Union and Kaavia Union-Wade
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“I hope that a.) you recognize that you're not alone. Seek out help and know that it's okay to be honest about what the hell is happening in your life. That's the only way that you know you can get help, and that's also the only other way that people know that you are in need if there's something going on,” she says, “because we have all these big, very wild, high expectations of people, but if they don't know what they're actually dealing with, they're always going to be failing, and you will always be disappointed. So how about just tell the truth, be transparent, and let people know where you are. So they can be of service, they can be compassionate.”
Gabrielle’s transparency is what makes her so relatable, and has so many people root for her. Whether through her TV and film projects, her memoirs, or her social media, the actress has a knack for making you feel like she’s your homegirl. Scrolling through her Instagram, you see the special moments with her family, exciting new business ventures, and jaw-dropping fashion moments. Throughout her life and career, we’ve seen her evolve in a multitude of ways. From producing films to starting a haircare line to marriage and motherhood, her journey is a story of courage and triumph. And right now, in this season, she’s asking, “What’s next?”
“This is a season of discovery and change. In a billion ways,” says the NAACP Image Award winner. “The notion of like, ‘Oh, so and so changed. They got brand new.’ I want you to be brand new. I want me to be brand new. I want us to be always constantly growing, evolving. Having more clarity, moving with different purpose, like, and all of that is for me very, very welcomed."
"I want you to be brand new. I want me to be brand new. I want us to be always constantly growing, evolving. Having more clarity, moving with different purpose, like, and all of that is for me very, very welcomed."
She continues, “So I'm just trying to figure out what's next. You know what I mean? I'm jumping into what's next. I'm excited going into what's next and new. I'm just sort of embracing all of what life has to offer.”
Look out for Gabrielle in the upcoming indie film Riff Raff, which is a crime comedy starring her and Jennifer Coolidge, and she will also produce The Idea of You, which stars Anne Hathaway.
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When I came across a way to maximize the pleasure I receive from cunnilingus (already), I had no choice but to tap in. Who knew the key to taking oral sex to new heights was giving it a sideways twist? For those of you who might also be interested in ways to spice up the way you do oral, experience faster and stronger orgasms, or simply want to indulge in something new with your partner, the Kivin Method could definitely be the oral sex technique for you, too.
Keep reading to learn about the method that is sure to have you writhing in ecstasy in no time at all.
What Is The Kivin Method?
For the uninitiated, the Kivin Method is an oral sex technique that focuses on stimulating the clitoris from a different angle. Dubbed “sideways oral” by some, this method involves the action of giving head from a side-to-side movement as opposed to the up-and-down motion that people typically perform when giving head. (If you need a visual, this illustration is helpful.)
The difference in approach as you’re receiving head can be a game-changer in how you receive pleasure. Not only does the giving partner have access to the clitoris, but they can also access more easily the vulva and the labia, which are objectively a bigger focus in this version of cunnilingus. More access means wider coverage, and that, plus the new sensation of oral from a different angle, can heighten the way you experience oral sex that much more.
Where more pleasure flows, intense orgasms are sure to follow.
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How To Do The Kivin Method
If you want to know how to do the Kivin Method, it’s actually pretty straightforward. The receiver lays on their back while the giver positions themselves perpendicular to the receiver. Their head will be facing the vulva, but instead of vertical, their face will be horizontal to the vulva.
From there, the giver can get to business, ensuring that they keep their head perpendicular to the receiver’s vulva while working on their craft. Because this technique can be more intense for some receivers, start slowly by stroking the vulva and clitoris sideways with the tongue, and allow sensations and communication from the receiver to be a guide of what you need more or less of with the Kivin Method.
Ultimately, the Kivin Method allows experimentation and unlocking what pressure, rhythm, and tricks work best for the giver and the receiver. Try implementing a finger or two, or adding a sex toy to the mix to intensify the act even further.
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