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ItGirl In Motion: Paige Shari Addison Shows Us Why She's The Hostess With The Mostess
Paige Shari Addison is the epitome of an ItGirl, which is why she is one of 100 ladies on xoNecole's inaugural ItGirl 100 list in partnership with Hyundai. Hailing from Atlanta, Georgia, Paige started her journey as a host in high school by hosting parties. Since then, she has made a career in hosting, from parties to big-name events, and she launched Strictly RNB, a platform for new artists and R&B lovers. Paige reflects on her creative path in the limited video series "ItGirl in Motion."
“My first curated event at Criminal Records was incredible. It was all for up-and-coming artists,” she says. “I needed a platform for us as a collective to be able to give ourselves the platform instead of asking for it, instead of looking for it. I was like, I want to make sure I let people get this experience that I would give as a performer but enjoy the experience with them. It was a dream come true.”
The Atlanta native also has her own line of acai bowls called Soulfull Bowls. She started it during the pandemic after events and parties shut down. But it was her love for eating acai bowls and the reactions others had to them that made her want to make it her next business move. Being open to creating new ventures in the midst of uncertainty is a bold move and one of the reasons why Paige has the “it” factor.
“Being an ItGirl means you’re just authentic. There’s an air to us. We have confidence that exudes from the way we speak, the way we put our lip gloss on, the way we walk, the way we talk. I show up as myself everytime I walk into a room. I’m hospitable, I make sure everybody’s good,” she says.
Get to know more about the hostess with the mostess in the video above.
See our ItGirl 100 list in full here. Click through the gallery below for some BTS moments of Paige and our partnership with Hyundai.
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London Alexaundria is the contributing editor for xoNecole. She is an alum of Clark Atlanta University, where she majored in Mass Media Arts and has worked in journalism for over ten years. You can follow her on Instagram and TikTok @theselfcarewriter
Skylar Marshai Talks Hair Reset With SheaMoisture Bond Repair 'Revive & Thrive' Campaign
This article is in partnership with SheaMoisture
Skylar Marshai is known for her extravagant style, and her hair is no exception. But now, she’s giving her hair a break and focusing on hair care with SheaMoisture’s Bond Repair Collection. “I feel like my hair has always been an extension of my storytelling because I know it's so innately linked to my self-expression that I've been thinking a lot about how my love for crafting my hair into these different forms and shapes has honestly never given it a chance to just be,” Skylar explains.
“So for the next few weeks, I will be wearing my natural hair out.” The SheaMoisture Bond Repair Collection is infused with AminoBlend and HydroPlex technology, scientifically proven to make hair 6x stronger with 84% less breakage by repairing and rebuilding broken hair bonds (vs. non-conditioning shampoo). That’s why it's the perfect hair reset for Skylar.
“It's been a long, long time since I've worn my natural curls. I haven’t nurtured it in its natural form so I’m scared of breakage, of it being dry, of it being damaged,” she admits. “I do feel like my hair is in good hands because I will be using the SheaMoisture Bond Repair Collection and it’s known for repairing damaged hair making it smoother, making it stronger like all of these very real concerns I have.”
Thanks to the unique blend of Amino Blend Complex (fortifying amino acids), Amla oil, and fair-trade shea butter used in each product, the hair will become visibly healthier after just one use. That’s because the collection focuses on repairing and reviving dry, damaged hair due to color, protective styles, heat, and more. This 4-step system, which includes Bond Repair Shampoo, Bond Repair Conditioner, Bond Repair Masque, and Bond Repair Leave-in, also enhances weakened hair bonds to reduce future breakage.
Skylar shows us how she uses the collection and it’s giving big, beautiful, healthy hair. “So I think it's gonna be some beauty to allowing my hair to rest,” she says. When it comes to styling, the influencer is “just gonna let Mother Nature do her thing.” Learn more about the SheaMoisture Bond Repair Collection below.
Step One: Bond Repair Shampoo
Rejuvenate your hair with SheaMoisture Bond Repair Shampoo, your go-to solution for luscious locks. Packed with hella hydration power, this shampoo adds moisture by 60% while removing buildup without stripping your strands. This shampoo gently cleanses impurities while significantly enhancing shine, smoothness, and softness.
The Bond Repair Shampoo is the first step in the 4-step Bond Repair system, all of which are infused with the uniquely formulated AminoBlend, and HydroPlex, Shea Moisture’s technology that rebuilds hair strength at its core.
Step Two: Bond Repair Conditioner
Tailored to repair styling damage, this creamy conditioner locks in 12x more moisture than standard non-conditioning shampoos, boosting damaged hair strength by 1.5x with significantly less breakage. The creamy SheaMoisture Bond Repair Conditionerdeeply hydrates, enhances manageability, and leaves your hair looking healthier and shinier.
Step Three: Bond Repair Masque
This Ultra Moisturizing reparative masque is a moisture-rich game-changer for those dealing with the aftermath of hair damage caused by styling. The SheaMoisture Bond Repair Masque delivers 13 times more moisture compared to non-conditioning shampoos, ensuring your hair feels nourished and soft. Designed to repair and rejuvenate, this masque significantly strengthens damaged hair — making it twice as strong while reducing breakage.
Step Four: Bond Repair Leave-In Conditioner
Elevate your curl game with SheaMoisture’s Bond Repair Leave-In Conditioner. Lightweight and hydrating, the Bond Repair Leave-In Conditioner provides 12x more moisture than non-conditioning shampoos and tames frizz with 24-hour humidity control. Designed to define curls and coils, the leave-in conditioner enhances softness and shine allowing you to detangle effortlessly.
Bonding Oil
The SheaMoisture Bonding Oil is a multitasking all-in-one formula that acts as a heat protectant and provides the hair with moisture, strength, shine, damage protection, and intense nourishment. This lightweight oil not only offers 24-hour frizz and humidity control but also fortifies your tresses, making them up to 5 times stronger with significantly less breakage.
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Mastering Soft Productivity: The 'Anti-Hustle' Strategy To Achieve More With Less Stress
In a world often driven by hustle culture and the relentless pursuit of productivity, there exists a quieter, gentler approach to life that speaks to the whispers of our heart that tell us to: slow down. This alternative path, known as soft productivity, champions the idea of aligning one's actions with one's deepest desires and commitments, all while honoring the rhythm of one's own life.
Soft productivity is a philosophy rooted in the belief that true fulfillment arises not from the relentless pursuit of external markers of success but from the deliberate cultivation of harmony between one's actions and one's innermost desires.
For many, the idea of living a soft, productivity life is all about recognizing that our dreams are not mere destinations to be reached through sheer force of will, but ongoing commitments to be nurtured and honored each day. As the one adage puts it, consistency will get you a lot further than intensity.
By putting soft productivity into practice, one can learn that progress is not always measured in monumental achievements, but in the steady accumulation of small, intentional acts aligned with our deepest passions.
What if success looked less like a frantic race to the top and more like a leisurely stroll through our imagination, hopes, and desires? Soft productivity invites us to embrace a holistic approach to living that honors the interconnectedness of exploring our interests while living a life that’s in alignment with our deepest values and aspirations.
To help you live a life of soft productivity, consider these five tips:
1.Clarify Your Values and Priorities:
Take the time to reflect on what truly matters to you. What are your core values? What brings you joy and fulfillment? By gaining clarity on your values and priorities, you can align your actions with what truly matters, allowing you to focus your time and energy on the things that bring you the most satisfaction.
2.Practice Mindfulness and Presence:
Cultivate a practice of mindfulness in your daily life. Take moments throughout the day to pause, breathe, and center yourself in the present moment. Whether it's through meditation, journaling, or simply taking a walk in nature, finding moments of stillness can help you reconnect with yourself and your innermost desires.
3.Set Intentional Goals:
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Rather than chasing after external markers of success, set goals that are aligned with your values and aspirations. Be intentional about what you want to achieve and why it matters to you. Break down your goals into smaller, manageable steps that can be marked by internal validation and growth over external factors, and trust the process.
4.Embrace Imperfection:
Understand that perfection is an illusion and that mistakes are an inevitable part of the learning process. Instead of striving for perfection, embrace imperfection as a natural part of the journey. Allow yourself to take risks, make mistakes, and learn from failure, knowing that growth often comes from adversity. Be kind to yourself and practice self-compassion in your daily life — let go of self-judgment and embrace self-acceptance, knowing that you are worthy of your dreams and desires while going at your own pace to achieve them.
5.Focus on Process Over Outcome:
Shift your focus from the end result to the process itself. Instead of fixating on the outcome, enjoy the journey and savor the experience of growth and learning along the way. Celebrate small victories and milestones, knowing that progress is a journey, not a destination.
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