The Best And Worst Traits Of Men To Date By Their Zodiac Sign
8. Cancer Man
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The Cancer man, while not afraid to be emotional, often times can be a disaster to date if they get hot and bothered over just about anything. Sometimes the balance of how they are feeling and what they are thinking gets shaky. Because they can be very insular, you might find yourself trying to figure out what's happening inside them, and it most certainly doesn't help if they're trying to do the same thing. Still, there is something sweet and delightfully romantic about a passionate Cancer man.
Cancer Best Traits:
- Emotionally receptive
- Poetic
- Considerate
- Thoughtful
- Charming
- Smooth
Cancer Worst Traits:
- Emotional rollercoaster
- Passive aggressive
- Shy
- Introverted
- Holds grudges
- Irritable
- Inferiority Complex
Cancer Compatibility: The most compatible signs with Cancer are generally considered to be Taurus, Virgo, Scorpio, and Pisces. The least compatible signs with Cancer are generally considered to be Aries and Libra.
How To Connect With A Cancer Man:
Cancer Man Communication
A Cancer man is one of the male signs that are more open to communicating about emotions and feelings. Similarly to a Scorpio, a Cancer man will be more than happy to put his heart on the line. He processes things more with what is in his heart than what is on his mind. Trying to make a Cancer man jealous, mad, or interested by making quick jabs or smart remarks will do the opposite of what you are hoping because he reads into everything. They do not react well to harsh words or criticism. Also, if you don't keep a Cancer man intrigued with conversation, he will grow bored.
Cancer Man Trust and Commitment
In order for you to grow trust with a Cancer man, you have to let him know that he is emotionally safe and secure with you. He needs to be sure that your bond is stable, and you both are on the same page in every way. He does not like not knowing what you are feeling. Make sure you are very open with your Cancer man, and intimately get to know his heart. To keep a Cancer man, you must be willing to compromise and meet him halfway always. To strengthen his commitment, you should be straight up about how you feel at each juncture of your relationship. Sometimes they need a little extra reinforcement and TLC.
Cancer Man Sex
Keep the sex steamy, passionate, and hands-on. A Cancer man connects sexually through a spiritual connection. Make sure to set the mode with music, incense, and anything that gets your energetic juices going. Cancer men love to get freaky, and it turns them on to see you drenched from head to toe. Your lovemaking should feel like a Zane novel. Spontaneous, freaky, driving, and deep.
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Chilli Dishes On Her Drama-Free Dynamic With Matthew Lawrence And No Longer Fearing Marriage
Chilli may be preparing to walk down the aisle soon. The TLC singer has been dating actor Matthew Lawrence since 2022, and the two seem to be going strong. Chilli dished on her relationship with the Boy Meets World star during her visit to Fox 5’s talk show Portia. “This is the first time that we have both experienced being in a relationship to where, I mean—there's no drama at all. We get along, and we have differences but we, still to this day, we've never had an argument,” she said of their drama-free dynamic. “I don't even understand why we would have to have an argument in the first place.”
The “Waterfalls” singer also revealed that since dating her beau, she no longer has a fear of marriage. “I do not. I don't have any fear at all when it comes to him,” she said. “It is just the way he is as a man, you know? He is a good guy. He has an amazing heart, and I mean, he checks off all of my list except for a few I don't know yet—’til we get married.”
Chilli and Matthew's relationship may be taking another significant step in the future. In a 2023 interview with ET, Matthew shared their potential plans for children. "That's the game plan. That's what we're trying to do," he disclosed. This news is particularly exciting as Chilli already has a son named Tron with music producer Dallas Austin, and the prospect of expanding her family adds a new dimension to her relationship with Matthew.
While Chilli is known as a legend in music, her dating life often takes center stage. But that’s what happens when you’re linked to some powerful men. Here’s a look back at Chilli’s dating history.
Dallas Austin
The “No Scrubs” singer dated the super producer throughout the ‘90s, and he produced many songs for her group, such as “Creep” and “Ain’t 2 Proud 2 Beg.” The two welcomed their son in 1997 and shortly parted afterward. Their relationship was documented in the VH1 TLC documentary Crazy, Sexy, Cool.
Usher
Usher and Chilli
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Usher and Chilli are probably each other’s most famous relationship. The former couple, which is still talked about to this day, were together from 2001-2004. They were still in touch over the years, but the “Unpretty” artist said she finally stopped all contact 15 years later.
Floyd Mayweather Jr.
Chilli and Floyd Mayweather Jr. sparked dating rumors after he appeared on her VH1 reality TV show What Chilli Wants in 2010. While the two looked really chummy on the show, the “Diggin On You” singer denied that they were ever romantically involved.
Nick Cannon
In 2016, Chilli and Nick Cannon were rumored to be dating. The Masked Singer host gushed about the mother of one in an interview with E! News. "She's amazing," he said about Chilli. "She's an outstanding person, but you gotta ask her what's going on." He later clarified that they were friends and he’d “be so lucky to be able to...be called dating someone like that."
Matthew Lawrence
Chilli and Matthew Lawrence have been together since 2022, and they sometimes give us glimpses into their relationship on social media. We can’t wait to see what the beautiful couple has in store for the future.
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