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Afros Aren't A Trend, They're What Make Black Girls Beautiful
This year’s Black History Month has many of us in formation, with fists up and ‘fros out thanks entirely to Bey, but unfortunately, February couldn’t go by without its share of daily racism.
Earlier this month, a group of young women were suspended from school for rocking their natural hair at C.R. Walker Senior High School in the Bahamas. Similar to the story of Vanessa VanDyke, the principal of the school said the students violated school rules by not donning straight hair, but “untidy and unkempt” natural afros. By not straightening their hair, the girls would be faced with suspension and expulsion, something the principal stands by.
“All I’m trying to accomplish is to get students to respect the rules, but it’s getting more and more challenging every year. It’s almost as if the principals and administrators have no right these days to enforce the school rules and regulations.”
Her mother exposed the root of her daughter’s suspension on Facebook, which later went viral and later spoke out on local news to say the principal has continued to justified her reasoning by stating the need for girls to “maintain” their hair will help them with careers later on in life.
Read: Natural vs. Relaxed: Why We Should Rid Ourselves of the Hurt About Our Hair
“You’re preparing them for the job market, so you’re pretty much telling my Black child that her kinky hair isn’t good enough for a top paying job or any job for that fact.”
Her daughter, Tayjha Deleveaux, spoke on the history of her hair and her feelings on the consequences of her choice to go natural.
“I’ve had my hair permed and texturized since I was about three of four-years-old and I went natural when I was 13. I went to the doctor one day for what I thought was a dandruff problem, but I was told that I needed to stop perming my hair because not only was it burning my scalp, but it was also burning my face as well. The areas are my nose and eyes would peel so badly when I permed my hair. The doctor told me I had to cut it out, so I had no choice but to go natural. I was humiliated because the whole class heard her tell me that I looked untidy and unprofessional...I was embarrassed, I was humiliated, and I didn’t know how to feel about myself anymore after she said that. She made me feel ugly, she made me feel less than beautiful because of my natural hair.”
What would ensue thereafter was worldwide support of Deleveaux and her classmates with the spark of the hashtag #SupportThePuff. Beyoncé’s one liner “I like my baby hair with baby hair and afros” would manifest itself in grown women of color from around the world who would take to their Instagram in solidarity with the Bahamian students.
And if social media solidarity via photos isn’t enough, someone created an online petition “in support of those students” encouraging “the potential voter to consider the damaging effects of telling our precious darlings that in the year 2016, their hair is not good enough to be worn naturally.”Read: I Am Proof That You Shouldn’t Sleep On The Drybar For Natural Hair
With the release of various natural-haired dolls and campaigns that cater to breaking the stigma surrounding hair in the Black community, it’s detrimental to tell young girls around the globe that the very things they’re born with are some sort of flaw or deformity. Supporting the puff of any size isn’t just a political statement formed decades ago by women of the Black Panther Party, it’s creating a new wave of self-acceptance, spawning a generation of women who are shattering stereotypes and feeling liberated in doing so, with the subject of diversity a hot button topic in mainstream media. However, it’s evident that the world isn’t quite ready for women embracing who they are in their natural state. Conversations on afros bring out the worst in people.
However, the hashtag is acknowledging the beauty that is associated with being a Black woman through the hundreds of photos being shared. Our beauty has yet to be socially accepted–although our features and culture seem to be up for grabs and passed off as “new and trendy” here and there–but what makes our Black beautiful is more than just how we look, but how we act when we’re unified as a collective.
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While the ignorance and blatant racism is hard to overlook, the unity amongst women of color sends a bigger message that cannot be ignored. #SupportThePuff matters.
This article is sponsored by Hulu.
UnPrisonedhas returned for its highly anticipated second season, delving deeper into the complex dynamics of the Alexander family.
The series premiere comes a year after its debut season garnered rave reviews from fans and critics and earned record-breaking ratings for Hulu's Onyx Collective brand. UnPrisoned's success can be attributed to its raw, relatable themes and comedic appeal.
Inspired by creator Tracy McMillan's life, the show follows Paige (Kerry Washington), a therapist and single mother whose life takes an unexpected turn when her father, Edwin (Delroy Lindo) --who was released from prison-- moves in with her and her teenage son, Finn (Faly Rakotohavana).
Throughout UnPrisoned's first season, viewers witnessed how Edwin's incarceration deeply affected Paige's life and relationships. In the series, Paige unpacks her trauma through interactions with her inner child and her online followers. Meanwhile, Edwin is overcoming specific struggles with his own past that led to his life of crime, including a dysfunctional upbringing and his mother's arrest. As the Alexanders attempt to reconcile, new challenges arise.
This new season promises to further explore their unconventional family dynamic. Here are several compelling reasons why season two of UnPrisoned should be on everyone's watchlist.
The Alexander Family Life Is Still In Shambles
UnPrisoned's second season resumes where the series left off, with Paige grappling with the fallout from her troubled therapy practice and Edwin navigating life independently after moving out. Meanwhile, Finn faces his own challenges. The teenager is battling anxiety and seeking information about his father—a topic Paige avoids discussing.
The Alexander Family Are Attending Therapy To Resolve Their Underlying Issues
Amid the chaos in their lives, the Alexander family decides to mend their bond by confronting their past traumas. They seek professional help and attend therapy sessions with a “family radical healing coach,” played by John Stamos, a new cast member. This collective effort aims to unravel the complexities of their shared history and strengthen their relationships.
The process of unraveling each character's internal conflicts and their potential impact on future relationships may clash with Paige's textbook therapy approach. While Paige is used to being in the therapist's seat in both career and family, this forces her into the unfamiliar role of a patient during therapy sessions. This shift would compel her to look in the mirror and try a radically different approach.
The Alexander Family Learned A Big Lesson During A Therapy Session
In therapy, the Alexanders are tasked with addressing their individual traumas to salvage their remaining relationships. One of the family therapist’s eccentric suggestions was an exercise involving a family wrestling match. During this session, Paige faces tough questions about her refusal to share information about Finn's father.
While it's unclear whether this scene is reality or fantasy, the image of the family duking it out in the ring certainly makes for hilarious yet compelling television.
Paige Tries Dating Again Following Failed Relationships
Amid her life's chaos, Paige decides to step back into the dating field. However, her many attempts have left her with mixed results. The dating apps have turned out to be a fail, and an outing with her ex Mal (Marque Richardson), who is also her father's parole officer, doesn’t go quite as expected after he brings an unexpected guest – his new girlfriend.
The situation takes an awkward turn when Mal's new partner learns why the former couple split, partly due to Paige's self-sabotage.
UnPrisoned Is A Perfect Balance Of Comedy And Drama
As a dramedy, UnPrisoned takes a comedic approach to its heavy subjects. The show takes us on a ride with Paige's dating misadventures and navigating a friendship with her ex.
Other lighthearted moments include Edwin's attempts at CPR based on online videos and, of course, the antics of the Alexander family's unconventional new healing coach.
The second season of UnPrisoned is now available on Hulu.
UnPrisoned | Season 2 Trailer | Hulu
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Shaunie Henderson Says Creating 'Basketball Wives' Was A 'Matter Of Survival'
Before Shaunie Henderson married Pastor Keion D. Henderson, she was married to NBA star Shaquille O'Neal, and they share six children. However, the former couple was officially divorced in May 2011, a year after the first season ofBasketball Wivespremiered. While the reality TV show, which chronicled the lives of women who were exes or current girlfriends/ wives of basketball players, had a lot of people tuned in, it also faced a lot of criticism. One of the criticisms was the portrayal of the women on the show who, at times, were fighting with each other.
However, in our exclusive interview with Shaunie, the Undefeated author said the show was created out of necessity.
"We just tend to tear our own people up for whatever reason. When I started Basketball Wives, it was really a matter of survival for me. I was in desperation mode. I needed the show to be successful because I had to figure out how I was going to live and provide a life for my children," she said. "Basketball Wives is a platform and it is a space for women to have the freedom to be and say and do what represents them. And what that is, is their decision, right? I just provided the platform for it to happen.
She also explained that she wanted to help other women financially by having a platform that will give them access to opportunities.
"I knew that I had lost my voice before, and I wanted to provide a space to ensure that other women didn’t lose theirs. Again, what they decided to do with the camera time and who they decided to show up as is on them, but here's the platform, and I think for many women, it has been just that. It’s boosted them into a space in their life where they're able to make money and branch out into other opportunities that they may not have had otherwise."
"I knew that I had lost my voice before, and I wanted to provide a space to ensure that other women didn’t lose theirs. Again, what they decided to do with the camera time and who they decided to show up as is on them, but here's the platform, and I think for many women, it has been just that. It’s boosted them into a space in their life where they're able to make money and branch out into other opportunities that they may not have had otherwise."
Basketball Wives: LA Cast. L-R: Jac'Eil Duckworth, Brooke Bailey, Jackie Christie, Shaunie Henderson, Evelyn Lozada, Jennifer Williams, and Brandi Maxiell
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One of Basketball Wives' most infamous moments was the fight that occurred between Evelyn Lozada and Tami Roman in the second season. While it was a very explosive scene, Shaunie revealed that behind the scenes, the following day, everything was copacetic. She recalled that moment and said it was one of her most cherished memories from the show.
"It was probably the day after the infamous fight between Tami Roman and Evelyn Lozada. Evelyn had coined the “non-mf factor” phrase, and production had broken up their fight the night before. Me and her were on the beach, and Tami called to see what I was up to. I told her I was with Evelyn, and she said she was coming to meet us," she said.
"I'm thinking I'm about to be in part two. There's no security, we were off for the day and I was sure it was about to be horrible. Tami gets there. She’s already got her cigarette lit, her bob is bouncing as she walks up to us, and I just remember her saying, ‘What y’all heffas doing?’ It was just like nothing had happened at all. It was like they fought, they got it out, and she was off to the next thing."
She added, "Those type of moments I wish people could experience and see that although things happen that seem outrageous, it’s all love. It doesn't always end up perfect. But for the most part, we have had a really, really good time."
Read more from the interview here.
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