
Why You Feel ‘Itchy’ Down There Before Or During Your Period, According To An Expert

We understand how uncomfortable periods can be. From the lingering effects of PMS on our mood to aching cramps and bloating, there are enough changes happening in our bodies over a 28-day cycle to last us a lifetime. Still, some women experience a post-period symptom to add to their concerns: vaginal itchiness and odor. Which leaves us to wonder: what’s the reason behind all this?
To help us get to the bottom of this common issue, we’ve tapped board-certified OB/GYN Dr. Stephanie Hack, MD, MPH, the “Lady Parts Doctor,” to uncover normal and abnormal symptoms, causes, and preventative measures for vaginal itch and odor.
The Cause of Vaginal Itch and Odor
According to Dr. Hack, there are a number of factors that can cause vaginal irritation and itching.
“Vaginas are colonized with bacteria and yeast that generally live in harmony. The vagina has an acidic environment — its pH is under seven — which creates an environment where bacteria live in harmony,” she tells xoNecole. “Because we have lots of lactobacilli (or good bacteria) that keep the levels of the other more harmful bacteria and the yeast down, anything that decreases the amount of this good bacteria can throw the population levels off.”
This change in pH levels can then result in an overgrowth of harmful bacteria, which can lead to vaginal infections like BV or a yeast infection.
What Causes Changes In Our pH Balance
Changes in our pH levels are connected to our hormone levels through estrogen and progesterone. “People who are in higher levels of estrogen states like due to pregnancy, being on your period, or taking hormone replacement therapy, can experience more yeast infections because of the relationship between estrogen and yeast,” Dr. Hack shares.
Because many of the products that we use in our daily hygiene routine can be irritating to our vaginal area, Dr. Hack shares that this can cause an allergic reaction or further exasperate our irritations. “As women, we will put many things in our vaginas trying to help it, but these things can actually be harmful,” she says. “One thing we always tell people not to do is put soaps in our vaginas. Douching, using sprays and creams, yoni pearls, and steaming can irritate the vagina and throw off your pH.”
Other factors like sexually transmitted infections and even some pelvic floor dysfunction can cause us to have burning or tingling pain and discomfort sensations in the vagina.
Why Vaginal Itching Happens Around Our Periods
Hormonal changes are seen as being the leading causes of vaginal irritation and why it tends to occur right before our period. Since there’s a link between our hormone levels and the estrogen levels of our cycle being highest just before ovulation, it essentially doesn’t give our bodies enough time to rebalance our pH levels before our periods start again.
“If you have a 28-day cycle, you're going to get your period about two weeks after ovulation. This may cause you to start experiencing the symptoms of yeast overgrowth, maybe a week or so after ovulation, which is a week before your period,” she says. So if you find yourself always saying, “Man, I'm always getting yeast infections right before my period,” you can blame your hormones for that.
Signs That It Might Be Time To See A Doctor
When it comes to whether or not you need to see the doctor about your vaginal discomfort, Dr. Hack advises you to pay attention to abnormal changes in the color and odor of your discharge. “If you notice that you have a lingering odor after your period ends, that isn’t your typical post-period blood odor, or you notice that you have a change in your discharge, that’s gray and has that fishy odor — or if it's clumpy and white, or green, or yellow — that's something that you should definitely follow up with your doctor on.”
Additionally, when speaking to your gynecologist, always keep note of any irregular pain associated with the pelvic area and cite any recent antibiotics or medication changes that could be related to these symptoms.
How To Prevent Vaginal Irritation
To maintain a balanced pH level and to keep your lady parts happy before and after your cycle, take the following feminine care tips into consideration:
- “You don't really need to put anything in your vagina, other than water — you really should just clean your vagina with your hands and water,” she says. “In the shower, let the water run, and you can move your fingers in between the labia to get out any dried discharge, using a mild soap without a fragrance.”
- “Avoid using harsh soaps and any other chemicals in the vagina because those can be irritating.”
- “The research on probiotics is contradictory. You'll find some that say probiotics are helpful and others that say they aren't. But for people who continue to have chronic resonators or chronic symptoms like that, I always recommend that they try a probiotic and see if that helps, and they may find improvement in their symptoms.”
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Aley Arion is a writer and digital storyteller from the South, currently living in sunny Los Angeles. Her site, yagirlaley.com, serves as a digital diary to document personal essays, cultural commentary, and her insights into the Black Millennial experience. Follow her at @yagirlaley on all platforms!
'He Said, She Said': Love Stories Put To The Test At A Weekend For Love
At the A Weekend For Love retreat, we sat down with four couples to explore their love stories in a playful but revealing way with #HeSaidSheSaid. From first encounters to life-changing moments, we tested their memories to see if their versions of events aligned—because, as they say, every story has three sides: his, hers, and the truth.
Do these couples remember their love stories the same way? Press play to find out.
Episode 1: Indira & Desmond – Love Across the Miles
They say distance makes the heart grow fonder, but for Indira & Desmond, love made it stronger. Every mile apart deepened their bond, reinforcing the unshakable foundation of their relationship. From their first "I love you" to the moment they knew they had found home in each other, their journey is a beautiful testament to the endurance of true love.
Episode 2: Jay & Tia – A Love Story Straight Out of a Rom-Com
If Hollywood is looking for its next Black love story, they need to take notes from Jay & Tia. Their journey—from an awkward first date to navigating careers, parenthood, and personal growth—proves that love is not just about romance but also resilience. Their story is full of laughter, challenges, and, most importantly, a love that stands the test of time.
Episode 3: Larencia & Mykel – Through the Highs and Lows
A date night with police helicopters overhead? Now that’s a story! Larencia & Mykel have faced unexpected surprises, major life changes, and 14 years of choosing each other every single day. But after all this time, do they actually remember things the same way? Their episode is sure to bring some eye-opening revelations and a lot of laughs.
Episode 4: Soy & Osei – A Love Aligned in Purpose
From a chance meeting at the front door to 15 years of unwavering love, faith, and growth, Soy & Osei prove that when two souls are aligned in love and purpose, nothing can shake their foundation. Their journey is a powerful reminder that true love is built on mutual support, shared values, and a deep connection that only strengthens with time.
Each of these couples has a unique and inspiring story to tell, but do their memories match up? Watch #HeSaidSheSaid to find out!
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I’ve gotta say that, for the most part, my friends are pretty damn chill. There is one (major) exception, though — and it’s an odd one. Even after all these years and countless times of me giving them the same answer, if there is a time when they think they are my mama, it’s when they see an email come through at an odd hour of the night. Then, all of a sudden, here they come asking me when do I get sleep if I’m emailing at (say) three in the morning.
Again, the answer never changes because, if there is one thing that Shellie Reneé Warren is gonna get, it’s 6-8 (sometimes nine) hours of sleep. However, since my chronotype (check out “Ever Wonder What Personality Traits Make Someone A 'Morning Person'?”) means that I like/prefer to write in the wee hours of the morning, sometimes I will sleep for the night for five hours and take a nap in the day. And y’all, that is just fine with me because I am well aware of the fact that napping does everything from give me more energy, heighten my alertness and even make me more creative to decrease stress levels, strengthen immunity, and reduce my chances of experiencing a heart attack or stroke.
My problem is I will oftentimes go “overboard” with my daytime zzz’s. What I mean by that is, in order to get the most out of a nap, they say thatyou shouldn’t sleep for longer than 25 minutes or so; otherwise, you could wake up feeling sluggish (I don’t but…). Also, it can make resting, soundly, at night a bit of a struggle.
So, what are you saying, Shellie? We should get quickies in? Yeah. And it’s funny that the word “quickie” would come up because just like a sex quickie can do wonders for you (and it can — check out “12 Super Solid Reasons To Have A Quickie Every Single Day”), it’s a full-circle moment when I say that something that can improve the quality of your sex life is to have a power nap (a nap that lasts between 10-30 minutes).
Wanna know how the two things correlate? Honestly, it’s no secret that sleep and sex work together to optimize both (check out “6 Fascinating Ways Sex And Sleep Definitely Go Hand In Hand”). Today, though, we’re going to tap into how a nap, specifically, can have you partaking in some of the best sex that you’ve experienced in a minute. I’ll explain.
Naps Reduce Stress
If you’re feeling super stressed out right now, you are not alone. There is plenty of data out here that says that most of us are stressed for at least a couple of reasons at a time — and that can impact your sexual health on a few levels. For one thing, it can bring about feelings of depression and/or anxiety. Stress can also throw your hormone levels off (including your cycle) which can weaken your libido. Stress can make you want to put distance between you and your partner (yes, literally).
Stress can also make it challenging to get aroused or to have an orgasm. And just what can help to decrease stress? Taking a nap. Since sleep has a way of helping you to “get off of the clock” and relax a bit, that can lower your stress levels and “reset” your body so that you are calmer — and that, in turn, can do wonders for your sex drive and ultimately your sex life.
Naps Improve Your Mood
There is one person in my life, and fairly 80 percent of the time, she’s in a super good mood. Oh, but let that girl go without sleep, and…who is this woman? LOL. There’s research behind why this happens. When a person is sleep-deprived, it messes with their brain chemicals, and that can amplify emotions like anger, restlessness and sadness. In fact, one study revealed that people who had their sleep disrupted throughout the night, they ended up having their positive outlook on life reduced by about 30 percent.
And geeze, who wants to have sex when they’re not feeling very good? Anyway, since serotonin is a neurotransmitter that helps to regulate your moods, your sleep patterns, and your libido and sleep is what helps to keep it in balance — by taking a nap, not only can it help you to feel better, it can also increase your desire for sex (it can also build up your endurance which is also…sexually beneficial).
Naps Increase Your Focus and Concentration
Something that some of my clients bring up is how, when it comes to having sex, sometimes the flesh is willing while the spirit is weak because, although the desire for intimacy is there, so much is going on that they aren’t able to get still enough to focus on experiencing copulation with their partner. This also tracks because, when you don’t have enough rest, your brain finds itself not working in harmony and that can make it hard to do everything from approaching life with a sense of flexibility to making necessary decisions.
Certain data also reveal that a lack of rest can cause you to have a really poor attention span and not process things in context (the more you know). So, if you really want to get some yet it’s hard for you to focus long enough to make it happen, ask your bae to lie down with you and take a nap. Between the sleep and the snuggling (check out “Fall's Coming: 8 Wonderful Health Benefits Of Cuddling”) — you may wake up with your mind and body totally on the same page. #wink
Naps Can Make You Feel Better About Your Body
Even if, overall, you feel really good about your body, I think that we all have moments when we feel less attractive than others — and who wants to have sex when they don’t really feel…very sexy? Well, something else that sleep, in general, can do is increase your confidence in your body.
For one thing, if you want to lose a few pounds, sleep can actually make that happen by helping your body metabolize the glucose (sugar) that’s in it so that you can better manage your appetite. Other studies go on to share that since sleep deprivation can impact one’s mental health and emotional stability in a negative way, of course, getting enough rest would increase body positivity.
Shoot, science even goes so far as to say that insomnia can cause people to have an elevated level of dissatisfaction when it comes to their body image. Don’t take their word for it, though. Look in the mirror before a nap. Then look in a mirror after waking up from me. Do you feel better? I’d be surprised if you don’t.
Makes Your Brain Bigger…Which Could Make Your Orgasms Better
I saved the best for last by design. Now if you’re wondering how in the world a nap can improve (and possibly increase) your orgasms — oh, there is a method to the madness…trust. For starters, the saying that your biggest sex organ is your brain? That isn’t a myth. Long story less long, the brain is what houses your central nervous system and that is what controls how men and women sexually function (yes, literally).
And since the brain also releases feel-good chemicals like dopamine, serotonin, and oxytocin during sex and brain activity significantly increases in women during sexual activity (especially right before she orgasms) — well, would it trip you out to know that when you take a nap, your brain actually expands? A bigger brain (that’s healthy) can potentially intensify your sexual experiences (and your climaxes) — and who doesn’t want that to go down?
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Like I said earlier, I never have to be convinced to get a nap in. However, if your sex life has been a bit stagnant lately, you’ve been feeling a little sluggish and you’re not sure what to do — I’m hoping that a nap can get you right.
There’s enough science to prove that it can. All you need to do is give it a shot.
Now where’s your pillow and sleep mask, chile?
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