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The Chrissy Teigen Scandal, Explained
We all know Chrissy Teigen to be a model, host, cook, author, and John Legend's wife. She's fierce, outspoken, and charismatic. But what we didn't know was how her words have affected others publicly and behind the scenes. We never knew her to be a bully. Celebrities like Michael Castello and Courtney Stodden have come forward with bullying accusations against Teigen. Y'all, since when did Chrissy become a social media troll? Her words, not mine. Over the past few months, social media users have not let her antics die down. Chrissy has been held accountable and has made it publicly known that her behavior was unacceptable. And because of the ongoing accusations and public commentary, Chrissy Teigen is now canceled.
So, how did this bullying scandal come to be? And, why is it still a topic of discussion? Well, let's look at some key facts and the timeline of events. Chrissy's past seemed to have crept up on her. Because what is done in the dark, always comes to light.
Chrissy Leaves Twitter
Chrissy Teigen had just quit Twitter pic.twitter.com/MPxqLQmi5M
— Peter Hoskins (@PeterHoskinsTV) March 25, 2021
Back in March, Teigen decided to leave Twitter claiming to be a target of social media trolls. This is when allegations started to come to light about her mean girl ways. The break would only last about three weeks, but she tweeted at the time:
"For over 10 years, you guys have been my world. I honestly owe so much to this world we have created here. I truly consider so many of you my actual friends. But it's time for me to say goodbye. This no longer serves me as positively as it serves me negatively, and I think that's the right time to call something.
"I encourage you to know and never forget that your words matter. No matter what you see, what that person portrays, or your intention. For years I have taken so many small, 2-follower count punches that at this point, I am honestly deeply bruised."
Courtney Stodden Speaks Out
Shortly after Chrissy's exit, her accuser Courtney Stodden shared their past in a series of screenshots of previous messages between the two. Hashtagging Chrissy as a bully. In April 2021, Teigen returned from her social media break and reemerged on Twitter. Triggered, and with full transparency, Stodden let us know just how to hurt she was over Chrissy's comments.
"She wouldn't just publicly tweet about wanting me to take 'a dirt nap' but would privately DM me and tell me to kill myself." "I can't wait for you to die."
Courtney Stodden reported her truth this past May in an interview with The Daily Beast.
Countless Apologies
After the interview was live, Chrissy released a public apology to Stodden.
"Not a lot of people are lucky enough to be held accountable for all their past bulls–t in front of the entire world. I'm mortified and sad at who I used to be. I was an insecure, attention-seeking troll. I am ashamed and completely embarrassed at my behavior but that is nothing compared to how I made Courtney feel."
The amount of backlash received over Chrissy Teigen's social media messages and comments forced her to issue a second statement in June. This time apologizing to any and everyone else she may have hurt. This includes Michael Costello and Teen Mom's Farrah Abraham. Chrissy refers to her behavior as a "mistake" as she wishes Courtney happy healing in May 2021.
Sidebar: Is bullying considered a mistake though when you're a whole grown adult? I mean, either this is who you are, who you have always been, or there are some deep-rooted issues involved.
Suffering the Consequences
It was reported in June of this year Teigen decided to leave season two of Netflix Show Never Have I Ever. It was also announced that Chrissy decided to step away from a cleaning supplies company she launched earlier this year as well. Since then, Chrissy has issued several public apologies on different platforms. Chrissy Teigen is now canceled and officially a part of the cancel club.
Chrissy Adds Fuel To The Fire
Earlier this month, Teigen has denied accusations that she deletes negative comments from her Instagram posts. Say what? As reported byPage Six, Chrissy states:
"People in my comments that are mad that there's not enough angry comments in my comments. They think that I like delete them. But like, what?"
Why is Chrissy deleting comments? Is she deleting the comments so she doesn't react? It's hard to say and who knows?
And because of her bullying behavior, Teigen admits that she is trolled by other users regardless for the type of content she posts. Though, she masks her reaction to accusations as "funny", it looks like social media gave Chrissy a taste of her own medicine. She doesn't like it either. As a result, Teigen has come to the conclusion that it's best that she doesn't get involved in anyone's shit ever again.
Social media won't let up, but the reality is there is no coming back from events like this. Bullying or any type of public hate-related commentary just doesn't subside after five months. It's something people do not easily forget. We now live in a world that has become intolerant of bullying, toxic behavior, and phobias. Apologies won't make up for the years of pain Teigen has inflicted on people. Apologies only have meaning for so long. A real apology is changed behavior.
I think we forget the tongue cuts just like a knife. Precise, sharp, and cold. We forget that words are everlasting.
With that said, I want to remind y'all that what people say to you or do to you, publicly or privately, has nothing to do with you. It has everything to do with them. One hundred percent of the time, they are projecting their issues onto you.
Their words and actions are a reflection of them.
Never you.
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UnPrisonedhas returned for its highly anticipated second season, delving deeper into the complex dynamics of the Alexander family.
The series premiere comes a year after its debut season garnered rave reviews from fans and critics and earned record-breaking ratings for Hulu's Onyx Collective brand. UnPrisoned's success can be attributed to its raw, relatable themes and comedic appeal.
Inspired by creator Tracy McMillan's life, the show follows Paige (Kerry Washington), a therapist and single mother whose life takes an unexpected turn when her father, Edwin (Delroy Lindo) --who was released from prison-- moves in with her and her teenage son, Finn (Faly Rakotohavana).
Throughout UnPrisoned's first season, viewers witnessed how Edwin's incarceration deeply affected Paige's life and relationships. In the series, Paige unpacks her trauma through interactions with her inner child and her online followers. Meanwhile, Edwin is overcoming specific struggles with his own past that led to his life of crime, including a dysfunctional upbringing and his mother's arrest. As the Alexanders attempt to reconcile, new challenges arise.
This new season promises to further explore their unconventional family dynamic. Here are several compelling reasons why season two of UnPrisoned should be on everyone's watchlist.
The Alexander Family Life Is Still In Shambles
UnPrisoned's second season resumes where the series left off, with Paige grappling with the fallout from her troubled therapy practice and Edwin navigating life independently after moving out. Meanwhile, Finn faces his own challenges. The teenager is battling anxiety and seeking information about his father—a topic Paige avoids discussing.
The Alexander Family Are Attending Therapy To Resolve Their Underlying Issues
Amid the chaos in their lives, the Alexander family decides to mend their bond by confronting their past traumas. They seek professional help and attend therapy sessions with a “family radical healing coach,” played by John Stamos, a new cast member. This collective effort aims to unravel the complexities of their shared history and strengthen their relationships.
The process of unraveling each character's internal conflicts and their potential impact on future relationships may clash with Paige's textbook therapy approach. While Paige is used to being in the therapist's seat in both career and family, this forces her into the unfamiliar role of a patient during therapy sessions. This shift would compel her to look in the mirror and try a radically different approach.
The Alexander Family Learned A Big Lesson During A Therapy Session
In therapy, the Alexanders are tasked with addressing their individual traumas to salvage their remaining relationships. One of the family therapist’s eccentric suggestions was an exercise involving a family wrestling match. During this session, Paige faces tough questions about her refusal to share information about Finn's father.
While it's unclear whether this scene is reality or fantasy, the image of the family duking it out in the ring certainly makes for hilarious yet compelling television.
Paige Tries Dating Again Following Failed Relationships
Amid her life's chaos, Paige decides to step back into the dating field. However, her many attempts have left her with mixed results. The dating apps have turned out to be a fail, and an outing with her ex Mal (Marque Richardson), who is also her father's parole officer, doesn’t go quite as expected after he brings an unexpected guest – his new girlfriend.
The situation takes an awkward turn when Mal's new partner learns why the former couple split, partly due to Paige's self-sabotage.
UnPrisoned Is A Perfect Balance Of Comedy And Drama
As a dramedy, UnPrisoned takes a comedic approach to its heavy subjects. The show takes us on a ride with Paige's dating misadventures and navigating a friendship with her ex.
Other lighthearted moments include Edwin's attempts at CPR based on online videos and, of course, the antics of the Alexander family's unconventional new healing coach.
The second season of UnPrisoned is now available on Hulu.
UnPrisoned | Season 2 Trailer | Hulu
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Summer Travel Guide: 9 Safest Vacation Spots For Black Women
When it comes to planning and choosing our international travels, there’s one question that is bound to come up: “Is it safe for Black women?”
At times, our travel plans can be halted by whether or not our desired destination is safe not only for solo travel but for overall protection as women of color. We want to have fun, go on excursions, taste the food, and let our hair down, so the last thing we need on our minds is navigating microaggressions and worrying about our safety.
According to a report by The Mandala Research Firm, 17% of Black Americans take one or more international trips and travel locally more than six times per year. Even more exciting, 42% of Black Americans said they would spend more in 2020 on travel than in 2019 (pre-Covid), and 50% of Black adults (16% more than the general population) are more likely to travel to locations associated with their ethnic or cultural heritage. All of this goes to show that we’re not afraid to pack our bags and book flights to our heart's desire.
Our passion for travel and exploration highlights a growing desire to connect with a wide range of cultures while discovering new fresh locales. By choosing destinations with positive reputations for safety and belonging, you can enjoy your next adventure with peace of mind. And to help, we’ve provided a list of the best vacation spots to add to our travel bucket list.
1.Havana, Cuba
Known for its vibrant culture and welcoming locals, Havana offers a unique travel experience for you and your girlfriends. Stroll through the historic streets of Old Havana and immerse yourself in the lively music and dance scenes that make this city unforgettable.
2.Rio de Janeiro, Brazil
Famous for its Carnival, stunning beaches, and warm hospitality, Rio de Janeiro is a lively and safe city to explore all year long. Don't miss a visit to the iconic Christ the Redeemer statue and the bustling Copacabana Beach for a true taste of Rio's energetic spirit.
3.Belize
With its beautiful beaches, diverse wildlife, and laid-back Caribbean vibe, Belize is a safe and adventurous destination for travelers. Discover the underwater wonders of the Belize Barrier Reef and explore ancient Lamanai Maya Ruins.
4.Paris, France
Who doesn’t have Paris, the city of lights, on their travel list? Renowned for its art, fashion, and iconic landmarks like the Eiffel Tower, Paris offers a blend of romance and safety for travelers. Wander through the charming neighborhoods of Montmartre and Le Marais, explore the Louvre, and indulge in the city's exquisite culinary delights.
5.Lisbon, Portugal
Portugal's capital city, Lisbon, charms visitors with its historic architecture, delicious cuisine, and welcoming atmosphere. Enjoy breathtaking views from São Jorge Castle and savor traditional pastries at the famous Pastéis de Belém bakery.
6.Bali, Indonesia
We’ve all seen the viral photos off the Bali coast and Gates of Heaven, so why not make it a reality? Famous for its lush landscapes, vibrant culture, and serene temples, Bali offers a safe and enriching travel experience in Southeast Asia.
7.Tokyo, Japan
Recently, the value of the Japanese Yen has seen a significant drop, making it the lowest it has been against the dollar since 1986, which also means that there’s no better time than now to make your travel plans to the renowned cultural hub.
8.Accra, Ghana
There’s no FOMO like the kind felt from seeing all the beautiful faces enjoying their holiday at Ghana’s Afrochella Festival, so let this be your sign to start planning the trip now. Often referred to as a welcoming home for the African diaspora, Ghana offers rich cultural experiences and a sense of belonging. Explore the vibrant markets of Accra and visit the historic Cape Coast Castle to connect with the nation's poignant past.
9.Seoul, South Korea
You may be surprised to find this city on the list, but for Black travelers, Seoul is said to be one of the safest and most exciting cities to travel to. There will be plenty to eat, buy, and experience from this city’s rich history and culture.
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