'Forbes' Writer Pauleanna Reid Drops Major Gems On How To Elevate Your Media Pitch
Media has the power to create conversations, establish trends, and sway consumer opinions and you need in ASAP. The problem is, every time you reach out to a media publication for coverage, you're met with unanswered emails and cold shoulders. While you may feel like this lack of communication is a reflection of your product, it's actually a reflection of your packaging.
If you're an entrepreneur who feels like pitching is a pain in the ass, the truth is you're just not doing it right, sis. Luckily, Forbes Senior Contributor Pauleanna Reid slid through this year's ElevateHER Crawl and dropped gems that had our tribe dripping in entrepreneurial expertise. According to this Canadian-girl boss, although she gets several brand pitches on a regular basis, the majority are wrong AF.
"On a weekly basis, I receive at least a minimum of 50 pitches. 47 of those pitches are incorrectly done. Your goal is to not get your email deleted. So I'm going to tell you how to run your race."
Forbes Writer Pauleanna Reid's Expert Tips On How To Pitch To Mediayoutu.be
Read on to learn how to effectively R.A.C.E. when you pitch yourself to media brands and increase your chances of getting your story heard:
R is for Readiness
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Stay ready so you don't have to get ready. The opportunity of a lifetime could show up on your doorstep at any time, and Pauleanna says that this is a major key that entrepreneurs often overlook when pitching their stories:
"You want to make sure that you have creative collateral ready at all times. Press kit, media kit, you'd be surprised how many people do not even have a headshot. I can't write my article without creative collateral."
The writer also noted the importance of having a clear vision. Your brand story is the backbone of your business and Pauleanna says it's important that we tell it right:
"Make sure that you can articulate your story. How are you contributing to a conversation on a community level, on an industry level and the world at large?"
A is for Audience
I hate to break this to you girl, but you can't sell to everyone. While you may want to believe that your consumer is every consumer, that's just not facts.
Everything ain't for everybody and this is also true when it comes to your business.
"Your company addresses a need for a specific type of person. You need to figure out where this person lives. Not geographically, [but] what publications are they reading?"
The writer/entrepreneur shared that it's important to target your audience so that you can pitch to the appropriate publications.
"At 'Forbes', we have a millennial audience that's very entrepreneurial. They value solutions. So you're not going to pitch me an inspirational story, I need action steps. I need to know what problem you are solving. The worst thing you can do is pitch me and your first line is 'I want to share my story in 'Forbes'.' No, you don't. You're not ready."
C is for Contact
It's not about what you know, it's about who you know and Pauleanna gave us some valuable tools to make sure you're in touch with the right people:
"You need a contact to get a contract. So how are you going to find these contacts? You're going to your Twitter advanced search, and you're gonna look for the words 'editor', 'deputy editor', 'writer', [and] 'journalist'."
Sites like Hunter.io and HARO can give you the Rolodex of your dreams and even potentially double your income.
E is For Execution
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Let's be clear. Pauleanna and every other editor in the world is tired of you sending those long-ass emails once a week. Less is more, and this especially applies when it comes to pitching your brand to a journalist. Contrary to popular belief, we don't need your life story, sis. Condense your brand's narrative into no more than 600 words the next time you send an email. Pauleanna explained:
"Organize your emails. People are not putting paragraphs. People are sending me pitches that are 1000 words. Edit your email, and I guarantee you can get your pitch in less than 500-600 words."
Pauleanna made it abundantly clear that editors are not one of your little friends. Make sure to come correct:
"Another thing is, I am not your sweetie. I am not your love. I'm not your honey. My name is not Paula... Spell my name right and give me that respect. I guarantee you will not be able to enter another inbox if you misspell the editor's name."
The author also offered some yasss-worthy software to help us keep up with our emails after they're sent:
"You can use YesWare, you can use Toot. You can use MailTracker. Girl, I'm giving you all the gems. Track your email because it will help with your follow up."
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Exclusive: Melanie Fiona On Making High-Vibrational Music & Saying Yes To Partnership
Melanie Fiona is back! After taking a little more than a decade-long hiatus, she has officially made her return to music and blessed us with two singles, “Say Yes” and “I Choose You.” While both singles are very different from each other, they both reflect who she is today and the type of music she wants to make. In our conversation, the mom of two expressed what she learned during her time away.
“It's interesting, even when I said it is like coming back, I don't ever feel like I really left because I was always still performing. I've still been public. It's not like I went into being this recluse person or version of myself, but the thing that I really learned in this process is that I think things take time,” Melanie says in a xoNecole exclusive.
“I think often we're so caught up in it, being on the timing of demand or popularity, or, like, striking while the iron is hot and the thing that I've learned is that everything is on God's time. That's it. Every time I thought I would have been ready, or, like, things were taking too long, I had to reship some things, personally, professionally, in my life. I also gave myself permission to make a living, not just make a living, but make a life for myself.”
Making a life for herself included getting married to Grammy-nominated songwriter Jared Cotter, starting a family, and embracing new landscapes, such as podcasting as a co-host of The Mama’s Den podcast. She also began doing more spiritual work and self-care practices like meditation, sound healing, Reiki, acupuncture, and boundary setting, which allowed her to get in touch with her inner voice.
“I wasn't putting out music, and I wasn't experiencing a number one record, but I was being a number one mom,” she says.
“I was experiencing things that were allowing me to heal and get in touch with myself so that I could make new music from a space of joy and freedom, and excitement again because I definitely feel like I did lose some excitement because of just politics and industry and what it can do to your mental health and even your physical health. So giving myself the space to really just say, ‘Hey, it's okay. Everything's right on time.’”
The joy and excitement are felt in one of two new singles, “I Choose You,” which is more of a lovers rock vibe, a tribute to Melanie’s Caribbean roots. While the Grammy award-winner is known for ballads like “It Kills Me” and “Fool For You,” she is becoming more intentional about the music she makes, calling it high-vibrational music. She says her music is a “reflection of my life,” as it captures every facet, from hanging out with friends to riding around in her car.
“Say Yes” has the classic R&B vibe Melanie is known for. However, both songs are inspired by her relationship. Melanie and Jared got married in December 2020, and the Toronto-bred artist dished on their relationship. Fun fact: he is featured in the “Say Yes” music video.
“When we first started dating, I had come into that relationship post a lot of self-work. I had gotten out of a long-term relationship, I had a year and a half to date and be by myself and do a lot of work on myself alone. And when we met, I remember feeling like this has to be my person because I feel it,” she says.
“And so when we went into that relationship, and we started dating, I was very clear. I was like, I know what I want. I'm very clear on what I need, and I'm not going to withhold my truth about myself in this process because of pride or fear of rejection. I know you love me, but I'm coming with my heart in my hand to let you know that if we're gonna get there, we have to put fear aside and say yes. So that was kind of like my open letter to him, which is why the video is us having a conversation.”
Melanie also shares that saying yes to her partner has empowered her in many ways, including motherhood and showing up for herself. Her new EP, also titled Say Yes, will be available at the top of 2025.
Check out the full interview below.
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Entertaining Like Ayesha Curry: Expert Advice For Holidays Done Right
Be prepared to wow the crowd.
It’s officially the holiday season, which means parties and gatherings galore. Between Friendsgiving, Christmas, and New Year's Eve celebrations, many of us are preparing to host loved ones in our homes one or two times between now and the end of the year. No matter the occasion or season, hosting for family and friends is a labor of love. But we can also agree that entertaining can be overwhelming, especially for first-time hosts.
As a seasoned host and entertainer, Ayesha Curry knows something about creating a memorable event for loved ones. Whether preparing for an intimate dinner with your immediate family or hosting a larger crowd, your guests will think you are a pro this holiday season with her tips on everything from welcoming guests to setting a beautiful table.
Q: What is your top tip for hosting?
Ayesha Curry:Part of being a great host is spending time with your guests, which means you can’t be stuck in the kitchen. Prep is key! I usually serve wine with the meal, but a cocktail or mocktail is a great way to greet guests. I prep the garnish the night before and batch the drink just before guests arrive. When the party begins, I pull everything out of the fridge and am ready to serve.
Writer Note: If you would like to offer non-alcoholic beverages for your sober or sober-curious guests, I love Saint Viviana Cab. It maintains full-body cabernet and flavor; no one will ever guess it’s alcohol-free. You can easily create a signature mocktail using Bittermilk’s Smoked Honey Whiskey Sour mix.
Q: Do you suggest any prep for serving or cooking?
AC:I lay out all my serving dishes and utensils the night before with little post-it notes saying what goes where. That way, I’m not digging around for anything. For more elaborate menus, I lay out quarter sheet pans and label them with tape according to the dish. I prep and measure everything for each recipe and then load each sheet pan with everything needed to make the dish. I wrap each tray in saran or foil, stack them, and place them in the fridge. Pull out the sheet pan you need when cooking, and everything is ready. It’s something I learned at the restaurant that saves so much time.
Q: What’s one item that should always be on a dinner party menu?
AC: Bread or roll with butter is excellent for holding guests over if the kitchen is delayed.
Q: What’s one non-menu item you should always have on hand?
AC: For a non-menu item, wine!
Q: How do you decide on a theme or menu for a gathering?
AC: It all starts with the occasion and the guest list. If it’s a group that doesn’t know each other very well, I may get more elaborate with the theme to help break the ice. For a group of friends or family who don’t get to see each other very often, I usually keep it simple so the evening can be all about catching up. A great playlist, good wine, and a family-style menu are all you need.
Q: Should attendees be expected to bring a gift?
AC: If I’m hosting, I’m not expecting gifts. The gift is taking time to come over and enjoy a meal with me! But bringing something to enjoy at the gathering, like a bottle of wine, is always appreciated.
Q: What are three affordable gifts that guests can give a host?
AC:A bag of excellent coffee is a beautiful gift for a host. Sweet July’s House Blend Coffee is sourced from all-female co-ops, so it’s a gift I love to give to the women in my life. Whether it’s being served after dinner or just for the host to enjoy on their own, you can’t go wrong with a bag of high-end coffee.
Fresh flowers are great if you have a host who likes total control over the food and beverage menu. Go for something neutral in color that can work with any décor.
The Sweet July Olive Oil and Balsamic Vinegar set is my go-to host gift. Bottled in Napa, it’s a gift any foodie will appreciate - and use!
Q: What are some creative tablescape or decor ideas that you love?
AC: I like to keep my dinnerware neutral and classic (like this ceramic collection in nutmeg) and infuse color and texture through linens. For centerpieces, I want to use what I have in my yard. If it’s summer, it might be flowers or greenery, but interesting branches can also look architectural in tall, clear vases next to tapered candles in the colder months. There’s no need to spend a ton of money on flowers.
With Ayesha’s tips, you can create a holiday gathering that your family and friends will cherish forever.
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