

Heading off on vacation can mean more sex for couples or those looking for a getaway love with no strings attached. More than 50 percent of people say they are more likely to be intimate with their bae while on vacation than they are at home, and 12 percent of Americans are down to have a fling when they hit their destination. If you're not booed up or you're taking a trip without your love — that doesn't mean you can't still have a good time.
Like travel, masturbating is beneficial for your health since it increases blood flow throughout your body, releases feel-good chemicals in the brain (endorphins), and it helps you figure out what you need in the bedroom (or wherever you decide to get it on) so that when you are with a partner you'll always be satisfied.
Since masturbation and sex toys still feel "taboo" packing a vibrator in your carry-on only for TSA to need to inspect your bag in front of your fellow passengers might make you think twice about throwing it in your travel bag, but thanks to small and discreet vibrator designs, there's no need to worry.
Here are five vibrators that will make nondescript self-love travel companions:
Make Me Over by Bedroom Candy
Bedroom Kandi
This beautifully designed vibrator is just small enough to throw in your carry-on and, to the naked eye, looks like a compact holding your go-to powder. But, don't let the size fool you; it comes equipped with seven vibration patterns to ensure you get the pleasure you're craving.
Vibe. by Maude
getmaude.com
With over 125 five-star reviews, it's safe to say this hand-held latex-free personal massager is worth a try.
Crave Vesper Vibrator Necklace
The Grommet
A vibrator that doubles as an accessory? Well, you can't get any more discreet than this. The vibrator necklace comes in three colors: rose gold, 25 karat gold, and silver. If you're concerned about the material, don't you worry, it's nickel-free with a stainless steel body that won't tarnish.
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tuLips by SWEET VIBRATIONS
tuLips
This palm-sized sex toy was designed to stimulate the entire clitoris (not just the tip). With ten settings and a lifetime warranty, we think this gadget will become a "me time" favorite.
Clitoral Vibrator with Wireless Remote Control
Amazon
Want to do it with no hands anytime, anyplace? This waterproof silicone wearable vibrator gives you pleasure that only you'll be able to hear since the three-inch sex toy doesn't get above the sound of a whisper. This toy can also add a little fun to your sex life if you're brave enough to give your partner the control (pun intended).
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'Sistas' Star Skyh Black On The Power Of Hypnotherapy & Emotional Vulnerability For Men
In this insightful episode of the xoMAN podcast, host Kiara Walker talked with Sistas star Skyh Black, as he opened up about his journey of emotional growth, resilience, and self-discovery. The episode touches on emotional availability, self-worth, masculinity, and the importance of therapy in overcoming personal struggles.
Skyh Black on Emotional Availability & Love
On Emotional Availability & Vulnerability
“My wife and I wouldn't be where we are today if both of us weren't emotionally available,” he shared about his wife and Sistas co-star KJ Smith, highlighting the value of vulnerability and emotional openness in a relationship. His approach to masculinity stands in contrast to the traditional, stoic ideals. Skyh is not afraid to embrace softness as part of his emotional expression.
On Overcoming Self-Doubt & Worthiness Issues
Skyh reflected on the self-doubt and worthiness issues that he struggled with, especially early in his career. He opens up about his time in Los Angeles, living what he calls the “LA struggle story”—in a one-bedroom with three roommates—and being homeless three times over the span of 16 years. “I always had this self-sabotaging thought process,” Skyh said. “For me, I feel therapy is essential, period. I have a regular therapist and I go to a hypnotherapist.”
How Therapy Helped Him Heal From Self-Doubt
On Hypnotherapy & Empowering Self-Acceptance
Skyh’s journey is a testament to the power of tapping into self-development despite life’s struggles and being open to growth. “I had to submit to the fact that God was doing good in my life, and that I'm worthy of it. I had a worthiness issue and I did not realize that. So, that’s what the hypnotherapy did. It brought me back to the core. What is wrong so that I can fix it?”
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Adrian Marcel On Purpose, Sacrifice, And The 'Signs Of Life'
In this week's episode of xoMAN, host Kiara Walker talked with R&B artist Adrian Marcel, who opened up, full of heart and authenticity, about his personal evolution. He discussed his days transitioning from a young Bay Area singer on the come-up to becoming a grounded husband and father of four.
With honesty and introspection, Marcel reflected on how life, love, and loss have shaped the man he is today.
On ‘Life’s Subtle Signals’
Much of the conversation centered around purpose, sacrifice, and listening to life’s subtle signals. “I think that you really have to pay attention to the signs of life,” Marcel said. “Because as much as we need to make money, we are not necessarily on this Earth for that sole purpose, you know what I mean?” While he acknowledged his ambitions, adding, “that is not me saying at all I’m not trying to ball out,” he emphasized that fulfillment goes deeper.
“We are here to be happy. We are here [to] fulfill a purpose that we are put on here for.”
On Passion vs. Survival
Adrian spoke candidly about the tension between passion and survival, describing how hardship can sometimes point us away from misaligned paths. “If you find it’s constantly hurting you… that’s telling you something. That’s telling you that you’re going outside of your purpose.”
Marcel’s path hasn’t been without detours. A promising athlete in his youth, he recalled, “Early on in my career, I was still doing sports… I was good… I had a scholarship.” An injury changed everything. “My femur broke. Hence why I always say, you know, I’m gonna keep you hip like a femur.” After the injury, he pivoted to explore other careers, including teaching and corporate jobs.
“It just did not get me—even with any success that happened in anything—those times, back then, I was so unhappy. And you know, to a different degree. Like not just like, ‘I really want to be a singer so that’s why I’m unhappy.’ Nah, it was like, it was not fulfilling me in any form or fashion.”
On Connection Between Pursuing Music & Fatherhood
He recalled performing old-school songs at age 12 to impress girls, then his father challenged him: “You can lie to these girls all you want, but you're really just lying to yourself. You ain't growing.” That push led him to the piano—and eventually, to his truth. “Music is my love,” Marcel affirmed. “I wouldn’t be a happy husband if I was here trying to do anything else just to appease her [his wife].”
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