
How Tracee Ellis Ross Stays Radiant At 52: Her Best-Kept Fitness & Self-Care Secrets Revealed

In Tracee Ellis Ross, we trust.
The California-born diva continues to inspire us with her vibrant energy, unshakeable confidence, and dedication to self-care. As the actress and beauty mogul recently celebrated her 52nd birthday, it's the perfect time to reflect on the rituals that keep her glowing and joyful. Known for her love of fitness, mindful travel, and nurturing wellness routines, Tracee exemplifies the power of prioritizing self-care.
Now, more than ever, Black women need to be intentional about how we care for ourselves. Here, we’ll dive into some of her go-to practices that keep her grounded, radiant, and aging gracefully—a true icon of self-love and wellness.
Take the Moments
In an interview with PEOPLE, the founder of Pattern Beauty emphasized the importance of meticulous planning and organization in presenting one's best self. According to Ross, setting up her Pattern headquarters necessitates "mapping out with military precision" to ensure a successful and effective operation.
“That is perhaps both an escape and a defense mechanism, and also how I get it all done. But I take the moments: what I call it is being mindful and slow between A and B. So instead of rushing between things, I really allow myself to be present between them.”
The rich auntie continued, “I'm not sleeping well. One of my responses to menopause has been I just am not sleeping well, but sometimes I'm able to sleep in. And this morning I was able to sleep in. And then I wandered around the city. So I get to recharge by being able to sleep in when I can, by being a person in the world, by cooking for myself, by taking a bath, by connecting and being with my family, all of those things.
"I'm just like everybody else, just trying to find the fun things to do, watching TV, way too much TV on my iPad.”
Tracee's Holistic Approach to Fitness
Keeping the mind and body strong is a top priority for this one. In the realm of fitness, the black-ish star adopts the Tracy Anderson Method, a renowned technique favored by a number of celebrities. In 2017, she told PopSugar, “I feel sexy, and strong and beautiful when I’m working out. The movements are very dancer-esque, and I’ve been really enjoying it.”
The method combines strength-training mat classes with dance-cardio classes, aiming to reshape your muscles into long, lean, and robust ones. This approach is said to be based on two decades of scientific research conducted by Anderson, who has helped women of various body types achieve a dancer's physique.
According to Tracee’s trainer, Jason Walsh, they’ve been focusing on full body patterns, and “her goal is increasing her overall strength and muscle coordination,” he told Shape in 2022. “We are always focused on reinforcing her fundamental movement patterns.”
From weights to kettlebells to battle ropes, there’s nothing the Girlfriends alum won’t try. Tracee also incorporates Gyrotonics into her fitness routine, prioritizing balance, strength, and flexibility throughout her body. The Gyrotonic Method employs specialized equipment designed to enhance an individual's well-being by opening energy pathways, stimulating the nervous system, extending range of motion, and boosting strength and movement efficiency.
Her pre-workout meal: applesauce. “And I do not like applesauce at all. But I was told that that kind of pure, good-for-you sugar 15 minutes before a workout will make your workout more productive. Whether it works or not, I have no idea. But I suffer through eating the applesauce,” she confessed to The Wall Street Journal in 2022.
When it comes to her food, she makes most meals herself, even deeming herself the queen of the salad. It’s her way of loving herself which helps with avoiding sugar, dairy, and gluten. But if she wants a treat, she’s gonna have a treat. The actor told PopSugar in 2017, “I eat chocolate if I want chocolate. I’m a big salty person; I love olives, I love potato chips, I love French fries.”
Choosing Gratitude and Compassion for Her Body Over Judgment
Best of all, she is gentle with herself. During the pandemic, she got transparent about her journey. “With all the sharpness and harshness and violence and fear that has been around, perhaps the softness of my body is a blessing. It has been able to nurture me in a way that my mind could not... I really encourage and invite all of us to receive the wisdom of our bodies right now and allow the softness, the weight, the whatever — and be grateful. I made it through this year!"
Frequent Flyer
The enthusiastic globetrotter is collaborating with Roku to create a thought-provoking docuseries centered around the concept of solo travel. With her characteristic passion, Ross aims to honor and motivate individuals who embrace the unique journey of self-discovery, empowering them to live their lives authentically and courageously.
Tracee’s travel style combines comfort, practicality, and personal rituals to create a relaxed yet intentional experience. This is what we know from her interview with The Traveler.
Flying Attire: As an airport outfit, Tracee opts for “fancy sweats” by Pangaia, preferring oversized pieces with deep pockets and a hoodie for warmth. She also wears thigh-high compression socks to improve circulation.
Preparedness: She always carries a large tote and a roller bag with essentials, having learned from past lost luggage experiences.
Hydration & Health: Tracee challenges herself to drink at least two liters of water on flights to stay hydrated.
Comfort Over Everything
For vacations, she values sunlight-filled rooms and authentic local food, steering clear of overly experimental cuisine. She frequently revisits her favorite destinations, finding comfort in familiar places she knows well, including a longtime favorite in Mexico.
A bathtub is a must-have, helping her unwind upon arrival, while strong fragrances in hotel linens are a pet peeve due to her sensitive nose. She also likes to settle in by unpacking her bags and sanitizing her space.
Japan and Spain are top on her travel bucket list, and she hopes to visit soon.
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Adrian Marcel On Purpose, Sacrifice, And The 'Signs Of Life'
In this week's episode of xoMAN, host Kiara Walker talked with R&B artist Adrian Marcel, who opened up, full of heart and authenticity, about his personal evolution. He discussed his days transitioning from a young Bay Area singer on the come-up to becoming a grounded husband and father of four.
With honesty and introspection, Marcel reflected on how life, love, and loss have shaped the man he is today.
On ‘Life’s Subtle Signals’
Much of the conversation centered around purpose, sacrifice, and listening to life’s subtle signals. “I think that you really have to pay attention to the signs of life,” Marcel said. “Because as much as we need to make money, we are not necessarily on this Earth for that sole purpose, you know what I mean?” While he acknowledged his ambitions, adding, “that is not me saying at all I’m not trying to ball out,” he emphasized that fulfillment goes deeper.
“We are here to be happy. We are here [to] fulfill a purpose that we are put on here for.”
On Passion vs. Survival
Adrian spoke candidly about the tension between passion and survival, describing how hardship can sometimes point us away from misaligned paths. “If you find it’s constantly hurting you… that’s telling you something. That’s telling you that you’re going outside of your purpose.”
Marcel’s path hasn’t been without detours. A promising athlete in his youth, he recalled, “Early on in my career, I was still doing sports… I was good… I had a scholarship.” An injury changed everything. “My femur broke. Hence why I always say, you know, I’m gonna keep you hip like a femur.” After the injury, he pivoted to explore other careers, including teaching and corporate jobs.
“It just did not get me—even with any success that happened in anything—those times, back then, I was so unhappy. And you know, to a different degree. Like not just like, ‘I really want to be a singer so that’s why I’m unhappy.’ Nah, it was like, it was not fulfilling me in any form or fashion.”
On Connection Between Pursuing Music & Fatherhood
He recalled performing old-school songs at age 12 to impress girls, then his father challenged him: “You can lie to these girls all you want, but you're really just lying to yourself. You ain't growing.” That push led him to the piano—and eventually, to his truth. “Music is my love,” Marcel affirmed. “I wouldn’t be a happy husband if I was here trying to do anything else just to appease her [his wife].”
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I Tried It: 3 Low-Maintenance Wigs That Will Elevate Your Look This Season
There's nothing like the feeling you get when your hair is done. It can instantly boost your confidence and put you in a great mood. I've never been a stranger to hair trends and I often experiment with the latest braided styles and colors.
But there are moments when I just don't feel like doing my hair. I'm natural and a lot of times I will braid or twist my hair up and cover it with a scarf or turban. However, when I crave a different look without the hassle of styling, I reach for a wig.
I've always had a love-hate relationship with wigs. Sometimes, I struggle to get them to lay flat and don't get me started with the bonding glue process. So when it comes to wearing wigs, I like to keep it nice and breezy around this b--- (word to Katt Williams), especially in the summertime.
That's why I jumped at the chance to try these three versatile wigs from Luvme Hair. Each one offers a unique look and is surprisingly low maintenance, which aligns perfectly with my philosophy that wearing wigs should make life easier. Let’s dive into the three styles below.
Headband Wig
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This was the first wig I tried on, and I instantly fell in love with it. So much so that it took me weeks to even consider trying the other two. I’m partial to colored hair, especially blonds, browns, and reds, so I was skeptical about the jet black hair. However, I think the color, combined with the curl pattern, worked surprisingly well for me.
One of the things I really liked about this wig was that I didn’t have to braid my hair down first. I could simply throw it over a low ponytail, which is the epitome of a low-maintenance style. The headband has combs inside and velcro on the ends, ensuring a secure fit.
Half Wig
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I had never worn a half wig before, so I faced some challenges. I cornrowed the bottom half of my hair where the wig would sit, but I believe this made it more difficult to use the combs. It might just be me though. I straightened the top part of my hair to blend it with the wig, which looked cute for about five minutes.
Firstly, I have a brown/blonde color mix on the ends of my hair, and the half wig is black. So, I had to hide some of the color (I didn’t have time to dye the wig). Secondly, straightening my hair myself is always a hassle because it never lasts long. Add to that the summer humidity, and you get a hot mess. Despite all this, I managed to get some cute pictures before things got out of control, and that’s all that matters, right?
Would I consider this a low-maintenance hair style? Yes and no. I think it’s unrealistic for me during the summer, especially since I enjoy summer activities. However, when the weather cools down, I’ll definitely rock it, dyed, of course.
Bob
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Now, this is the wig I was nervous about. I never had a bob and I didn't think I would like it. But once I put bobiana on, my mind instantly changed. I finally understood why the gworls rave about the bob so much. It was giving boss. It was giving grown woman. It was giving the bob means business. Iykyk. It was the ultimate statement.
I will say when I first put it on, one side of my wig just would not lay flat. It took some trial and error, but I finally managed to get it to look good. With the bob, I highly recommend braiding your hair down first as small as you can so it can lay as flat as possible. I really liked the ash blonde color, which is perfect for summer. The length also makes it a great low-maintenance style for the season, so you don't have to worry about the hair making your neck sweaty.
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