11. Gemini

Based off of personal experience, Geminis get the #11 position. They tend to be "two faced," with one foot out the door, and the other inside. They love to stir the pot and then act like they aren't carrying the spoon. Though they can be very loving, sometimes you'll never know what you get. If you capture the heart of a Gemini, and you get him to act right, more power to you!

Best Traits: Adventurous, Resilient, Determined, Playful, Resourceful, A Leader, Sociable, Sauve, A Thinker, Funny.

Worst Traits: Indecisive, Commitment Phobe, Unreliable, Emotionally Cut Off, Stubborn, Messy, Territorial, Competitive, Selfish.

Gemini Compatibility: The most compatible signs with Geminis are generally considered to be Aries, Leo, Libra, and Aquarius. The least compatible signs with Geminis are generally considered to be Virgo and Pisces.

How To Connect With A Gemini:


The best way to connect with a Gemini man is to have intellectual and conceptual conversations about culture, society, politics, and current events. Geminis love to debate and talk about things that matter to them, and how the world affects them on a personal and systemic level. They love an articulate woman who can hold a high level of conversation and present ideas and hypothetical scenarios or historical discourse. The love analyzing things and breaking things down. You can also capture a Gemini man by becoming a dynamic duo when you are among groups of friends. If you both can tag team on the humor, charm, and wit, you'll have his heart in a bag. Lastly, Gemini men love when he and bae can shoot the shit, joke, and be petty together.

Trust and Commitment

With a Gemini man, you have to be able to encourage and support him when he's feeling inadequate, insecure, or low. He will appreciate you reminding him about all of the things that makes him great, valid, and appreciated. A Gemini man will also admire your strength, ambition, and personal growth. Just being strong and progressive in your own life is enough to make your man consistently proud that you chose him. In order to keep things thriving and leading toward commitment, you must make sure there is never a dull moment. As soon as either person becomes uninspired by the other, the relationship may suffer. Also give a Gemini man space. He can be hot and cold, so knowing when to just let him be him will be priceless if you want to build trust and commitment.


A Gemini man loves when you can blow him away sexually. He appreciates all the tricks and treats. The best way to connect with a Gemini man in bed is to fulfill his fantasies. Get nasty! Roleplay. Try different positions, and have sex all over the house. Be spontaneous, and be willing to try new things. Be wild and free sexually. Makeup sex is also a big turn on for Geminis. If you are into it, see if your man is interested in a third party sexually. It's not my thing, but maybe you are willing to give it a go! At the end of the day, you will want your Gemini man to crave your essence.

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