Thanks to social media technology, more and more people are leaving behind the 9-5 life to pursue their own passions. In 2018, we all know someone who owns a business, works from home, or aspires to do so.
As much as working for yourself may seem like a dream come true, it comes with a lot including lack of sleep, a lot of time spent at home, and an emotional roller coaster ride. Show some support for all of their endeavors this holiday season by gifting something that will help progress their boss agenda.
For those in your life who are really living the boss life, beginner or vet, here are 12 gifts that they'll absolutely love and thank you a million times for:
For The Multitasker/Bed Boss:
Lapgear Designer Lap Desk, $34.99
Working from bed just got real – real productive. The entrepreneur who is guilty of lounging while working will appreciate this great addition to their at home work life. (Shop Here.)
Girl Boss Novelty Name Plate Desk Sign, $14.99
This is the perfect gift for the friend that never fails to remind you who the boss really is. Now it's on display for the world to see. (Shop Here.)
For The Forgetful One:
Tile Mate Key Finder. Phone Finder. Anything Finder, $19.99
Being a entrepreneur doesn't mean that you have everything together at all times. This gift will be keep the entrepreneur in your life focusing on business instead of scrambling for misplaced items. (Shop Here.)
For The Friends That Needs A Bit Of Extra Motivation:
Deluxe Law of Attraction Life Planner - 2019 planner, $38.99
This planner is anything but basic. Not only will it help any entreprenuer get super productive. It also includes some great mental health exercises such as gratitude journaling, finding your "why" and other important things to keep every level of boss on the right track. (Shop Here.)
For The Homebody Boss:
Verilux HappyLight Compact Personal, Portable Light Therapy Energy Lamp, $39.95
Need a gift for someone that's always cooped up in the housing working day in and day out? This mood improving therapy light will help to keep them in good spirits. May we add – it's also portable. (Shop Here.)
Gift Tree Custom Engraved Bettoni Pen, $34.95
This is the perfect gesture for the entrepreneur that you don't know on a super personal level, like a boss or colleague. Any entrepreneur would love to write down all of their million-dollar ideas in style. (Shop Here.)
For The Social Savvy One:
Influencer: Building Your Personal Brand in the Age of Social Media by Brittany Hennessy, $13.36
This is the ultimate how-to guide for the social media obsessed entrepreneur that's looking to use social media to boost their personal brand and business. (Shop Here.)
For The Caffeine Aficionado On A Budget:
Espro Travel Stainless Coffee Press, $34.95
A $5 a day coffee habit could be a bit much when you're building a business. Motivate any coffee-loving girl boss (or guy) brew their own fresh coffee on the go using the coffee of their choice. Coffee snob approved. (Shop Here.)
For The “Bag Lady”:
Gonex Women Laptop Tote Bag, $34.95
If always being on the go is starting to cramp her style, this business tote bag is the only gift to give. This stylish tote is compartmentalized to perfectly store all of the important things that any girl boss wouldn't want to be caught without. (Shop Here.)
For The One Who Loves Aesthetics:
TOODOO Desk Accessory Organization Kit 10 Piece Set, $34.99
Much like people, when work spaces look good they feel good. This rose gold desk accessory kit is a great addition to any work space. (Shop Here.)
For The One That Loves Vintage Inspired Things:
Maxtek Black Felt Letter Board, $19.99
You might have seen these plastered all over Instagram and Pinterest. These vintage inspired felt boards are perfect for the entrepreneur who is a sucker for a vintage feel and of course loves to be expressive. (Shop Here.)
For The One That Isn’t A Morning Person:
A Beautiful Morning: How A Morning Ritual Can Feed Your Soul and Transform your Life by Ashley Ellington Brown, $14.99
We all know how you start your day can easily determine the way your whole day goes. Inspire the budding boss in your life with the book that will help guide them with actionable steps to help make every day intentional. (Shop Here.)
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Exclusive: Dreka Gates Talks Farm Life, Self-Mastery, And Her Wellness Brand
Dreka Gates is making a name in wellness through authenticity and innovativeness. Although we were introduced to her as a music manager for her husband, Kevin Gates, she has now carved out her own lane outside of music as a wellness entrepreneur. But according to Dreka, this is nothing new.
In an xoNecole exclusive, the mom of two opened up about many things, including starting her wellness journey at 13 years old. However, a near-death experience during a procedure at 20 made her start taking her health more seriously.
“There's so many different levels, and now, I'm in a space of just integrating all of this good stuff that I've learned just about just being human, you know?” Dreka tells us. “So it's also fun because it's like a journey of self-discovery and self-mastery. That's what I call it. So it's never-ending.”
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If you follow Dreka, then you’re familiar with her holistic lifestyle, as she’s no stranger to promoting wellness, self-care, and holistic living. She even lives part-time on a Mississippi farm, not far from her grandmother and great-grandmother’s farm, where she spent some summers as a child.
While her grandmother and great-grandmother have passed on, Dreka reflects on that time in her life and how having a farm as an adult is her getting back to her roots. “So the farm was purchased back in 2017, and it was like, ah, that'll just be a place where we go when we're not touring or whatever,” she said.
“But COVID hit, and I was there, and I was on the land, and I just started remembering back to going to my grandmother's during the summertime and freaking picking peas and going and eating mulberries off the freaking tree in the bushes.
“And she literally had cotton plants. I know some people feel weird about picking cotton and stuff. She had cotton plants and I would go and pick cotton out of her garden. And she had chickens, and I literally just broke down in tears one day when I was on the farm just doing all the things, and I'm like, ‘Oh my gosh. I'm literally getting back to my roots.”
"I literally just broke down in tears one day when I was on the farm just doing all the things, and I'm like, ‘Oh my gosh. I'm literally getting back to my roots."
You can catch glimpses of Dreka’s farm life on Instagram, which shows her picking fruit and vegetables and loving on her animals like her camel Eessa. Her passion for growing and cultivating led her to try and grow all of her ingredients for her wellness brand, Dreka Wellness. However, she quickly realized that she might be biting off more than she could chew. But that didn’t stop her from fulfilling her vision.
Watch below as Dreka talks more about her business, her wellness tips, breaking toxic cycles, becoming a doula, and more.
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It’s been almost a year since I had my last drink. As I’ve gotten older, I’ve realized that my body doesn’t respond to alcohol the same way, and due to chronic migraines I was having last year, I decided to try a sober lifestyle.
While I’m not sure if it will be forever, I can honestly say that I don’t necessarily miss drinking or how I would feel after having a few drinks.
During this time, I’ve discovered that I’m not alone in my choice to be sober. There’s the Sober Curious movement, which is for people who are interested in drinking less or not at all.
Ruby Warrington, the author of Sober Curious: The Blissful Sleep, Greater Focus, Limitless Presence, and Deep Connection Awaiting Us All on the Other Side of Alcohol, describes being sober curious as “literally, to choose to question, or get curious about, every impulse, invitation, and expectation to drink, versus mindlessly going along with the dominant drinking culture.”
There are some celebrities who have also opted for a life without drinking and have shared their journeys. Below, we have listed seven celebrities who are living a sober lifestyle.
Ari Lennox
Ari Lennox has been open about her sobriety. Last year, the R&B songstress shared multiple Instagram posts talking about her journey and how it’s helped her to be present.
"It's nice to be present. Sobriety is a very present experience...But yea sure there's the fantasy of wanting to escape all the intense stress of the world with alcohol cause boy does it work temporarily,” she wrote.
“But there's the moment the liquor stops numbing and you're chasing that feeling to no avail and you wake to see the problems of life still there," she said.
Eve
During her recent The Breakfast Club interview, Eve opened up about how drinking negatively impacted her life. And after getting a DUI in 2007, she knew she had to make a change.
“I had 56 days where I couldn’t drink, and I was so scared of that 56 days because I couldn’t remember a time where I hadn’t drank,” she said. Initially, she tried to get out of it by asking for community service instead but was told no.
“It saved my life because it was the first time I ever sat with my fucking emotions. Like why am I drinking? What am I tryna cover up? Why am I tryna numb myself? What is the problem? And I had to sit with my shit and I cried a fucking lot and I needed it.”
Blac Chyna
Angela White, aka Blac Chyna, has undergone a major transformation, which included removing tattoos and reversing cosmetic procedures.
She also revealed that she gave up drinking and recently celebrated two years of sobriety. She got on Instagram Live and celebrated with her kids, King and Dream, and her followers. In the Live, they circled around a white cake with black bows and sang “Happy Birthday.”
B.Simone
B.Simone has made many changes in her life since she began focusing more on her faith. And one of those changes includes giving up alcohol. In her podcast, Let’s Try This Again, the comedian talked about trauma bonding and how not everyone is accepting of your new path.
“I’m on my journey getting closer to God, and he convicted me of sobriety, and I’m being obedient to Him. I’m not trying to please you,” she said. “‘Cause you know when you go out, and people gonna peer pressure you. You gotta say, hmm, I wish I could, but I’m sober now.”
Jada Pinkett Smith
During a past Red Table Talk episode, Jada Pinkett Smith shared that she struggled with drugs and alcohol addiction. She recalled some embarrassing moments she encountered from drinking and drugs, which made her quit “cold turkey.”
"Once I was going for that third bottle of wine, I said, 'you've got a problem,' and it was cold turkey that day. That day I just stopped," the actress said. She has now been sober for over 25 years.
Jennifer Hudson
Chelsea Handler stopped by Jennifer Hudson's talk show, where they discussed the singer's sobriety. "Your producer backstage just told me, 'Jennifer Hudson has never had a sip of a cocktail,' and I just don't understand why that's necessary," she said.
The Oscar winner explained, "I don't knock those who do it, I just never had [the desire to drink.]
Naomi Campbell
In a May 2010 interview with British Vogue, Naomi Campbell opened up about her drug and alcohol addiction. The supermodel turned to different resources to help her with her sobriety. "The time between 1998 and 2005 was especially bad," she recalled.
"During that time I avoided looking in the mirror, because I didn't like the person who was looking back at me. To be honest, there were times I thought I wouldn't survive. I used to have a lot of problems. Amongst others I drank too much so I joined Alcoholics Anonymous to get and stay sober."
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