
'Industry' Star Myha'la Herrold Reveals Fiancé Slid In Her DMs After Watching Her On The Show

Myha'la Herrold is on a high while promoting HBO Max's series Industry. She plays Harper Stern, a tenacious recent graduate competing for a job at an investment bank in London. Now in its third season, Industry is garnering more and more buzz, and thanks to the show, Myha'la's star is on the rise. But that's not the only thing the Bodies Bodies Bodies actress has to thank the show for. The series led her to meet her now fiancé, Armando Rivera.
While visiting Late Night with Seth Meyers, she detailed the hilarious DM exchange between her and Armando and their engagement. "Season one comes out; it's deep Covid, 2020. And of course, I'm alone, and everyone is like, oh my god, are you having so much fun? The show's come out. I'm like, yeah, I'm literally alone," she said.
"So, of course, I'm going through my requests, and there's some great things, some like congratulations, some feet pic requests, some weird stuff--and there was just one that said, 'congrats on the show. I'm a huge fan. I wish you all the success in the world or something like that. And I said thank you, and the next day, I woke up to a string of video messages."
Myha'la Herrold and Armando Rivera
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While she was annoyed by the number of video messages she received, one look at his profile picture had her singing a different tune. One of the videos Armando sent Myha'la was asking to interview her for a class project, and she decided to do it.
"The next day, we hopped on a Zoom and we were meant to be on five, ten minutes. Forty minutes goes by and he stops the recording, and then I was like, 'so where are you from?' Embarrassing," she said. "We hoped off and I was like 'oh, I'm in love with a stranger. How weird."
After following up with him about his class project, they continued to DM each other, and after three weeks, he asked for her number. They had FaceTime dates, and a month later, they finally met in person.
"Three and a half years later, he proposed, and now we're gonna get married," she said happily.
In a separate interview with Marie Claire, the 28-year-old revealed that Armando proposed to her in the doorway of their apartment, and they exchanged matching sterling silver rings from a vintage shop. “I tried on some sparkly things, diamonds, and it just didn't feel right on my body,” she said. Congrats to the two love birds.
Check out the full Late Night with Seth Meyers interview below.
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Devale Ellis On Being A Provider, Marriage Growth & Redefining Fatherhood
In this candid episode of the xoMAN podcast, host Kiara Walker talked with Devale Ellis, actor, social media personality, and star of Zatima, about modern masculinity, learning to be a better husband, emotional presence in marriage, fatherhood for Black men, and leading by example.
“I Wasn’t Present Emotionally”: Devale Ellis on Marriage Growth
Devale Ellis On Learning He Was a ‘Bad Husband’
Ellis grew up believing that a man should prioritize providing for his family. “I know this may come off as misogynistic, but I feel like it’s my responsibility as a man to pay for everything,” he said, emphasizing the wise guidance passed down by his father. However, five years into his marriage to long-time partner Khadeen Ellis, he realized provision wasn’t just financial.
“I was a bad husband because I wasn’t present emotionally… I wasn’t concerned about what she needed outside of the resources.”
Once he shifted his mindset, his marriage improved. “In me trying to be of service to her, I learned that me being of service created a woman who is now willing to be of service to me.”
On Redefining Masculinity and Fatherhood
For Ellis, “being a man is about being consistent.” As a father of four, he sees parenthood as a chance to reshape the future.
“Children give you another chance at life. I have four different opportunities right now to do my life all over again.”
He also works to uplift young Black men, reinforcing their worth in a world that often undermines them. His values extend to his career—Ellis refuses to play roles that involve domestic violence or sexual assault.
On Marriage, Family Planning, and Writing His Story
After his wife’s postpartum preeclampsia, Ellis chose a vasectomy over her taking hormonal birth control, further proving his commitment to their partnership. He and Khadeen share their journey in We Over Me, and his next book, Raising Kings: How Fatherhood Saved Me From Myself, is on the way.
Through honesty and growth, Devale Ellis challenges traditional ideas of masculinity, making his story one that resonates deeply with millennial women.
For the xoMAN podcast, host Kiara Walker peels back the layers of masculinity with candid conversations that challenge stereotypes and celebrate vulnerability. Real men. Real stories. Real talk.
Want more real talk from xoMAN? Catch the full audio episodes every Tuesday on Spotify and Apple Podcasts, and don’t miss the full video drops every Wednesday on YouTube. Hit follow, subscribe, and stay tapped in.
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Devale Ellis On Being A Provider, Marriage Growth & Redefining Fatherhood
In this candid episode of the xoMAN podcast, host Kiara Walker talked with Devale Ellis, actor, social media personality, and star of Zatima, about modern masculinity, learning to be a better husband, emotional presence in marriage, fatherhood for Black men, and leading by example.
“I Wasn’t Present Emotionally”: Devale Ellis on Marriage Growth
Devale Ellis On Learning He Was a ‘Bad Husband’
Ellis grew up believing that a man should prioritize providing for his family. “I know this may come off as misogynistic, but I feel like it’s my responsibility as a man to pay for everything,” he said, emphasizing the wise guidance passed down by his father. However, five years into his marriage to long-time partner Khadeen Ellis, he realized provision wasn’t just financial.
“I was a bad husband because I wasn’t present emotionally… I wasn’t concerned about what she needed outside of the resources.”
Once he shifted his mindset, his marriage improved. “In me trying to be of service to her, I learned that me being of service created a woman who is now willing to be of service to me.”
On Redefining Masculinity and Fatherhood
For Ellis, “being a man is about being consistent.” As a father of four, he sees parenthood as a chance to reshape the future.
“Children give you another chance at life. I have four different opportunities right now to do my life all over again.”
He also works to uplift young Black men, reinforcing their worth in a world that often undermines them. His values extend to his career—Ellis refuses to play roles that involve domestic violence or sexual assault.
On Marriage, Family Planning, and Writing His Story
After his wife’s postpartum preeclampsia, Ellis chose a vasectomy over her taking hormonal birth control, further proving his commitment to their partnership. He and Khadeen share their journey in We Over Me, and his next book, Raising Kings: How Fatherhood Saved Me From Myself, is on the way.
Through honesty and growth, Devale Ellis challenges traditional ideas of masculinity, making his story one that resonates deeply with millennial women.
For the xoMAN podcast, host Kiara Walker peels back the layers of masculinity with candid conversations that challenge stereotypes and celebrate vulnerability. Real men. Real stories. Real talk.
Want more real talk from xoMAN? Catch the full audio episodes every Tuesday on Spotify and Apple Podcasts, and don’t miss the full video drops every Wednesday on YouTube. Hit follow, subscribe, and stay tapped in.
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