Steve Harvey Credits His Wife Majorie For Upgrading Him: 'She Transformed Me'
"Dress How You Want to Be Addressed"
This saying couldn't be anymore true for Mr. Steve Harvey who knows a thing or two about welcoming a good old fashion upgrade, per his stylish spouse, Marjorie Harvey. It wasn't long ago that Steve helped single-handedly coin the idea of the baggy tuxedo aka "The Steve Harvey Suit," but those fashion faux-pas days are long gone. Because if you look good, you feel good and if you feel good, you do good. And according to Steve, a complete 180 on his fashion did more than just change his closet, it changed his life!
During a segment on The Steve Harvey Show, Harvey sat down with a married man and his wife, who were both on the show in hopes of changing the husband's extremely casual and youthful wardrobe. The 59-year-old host spoke to the newlyweds, and used himself as an example of how dressing for success literally lead, well, to his success!
According to Steve, transforming his threads helped transcend him to greatness. And he has his wife to thank for that!
"Marjorie changed my style. I was very different. I dressed very different before I married Marjorie Harvey. Here are some pictures (pulls up pics). You couldn't tell me nothing! My pants were this wide, all my shoes matched my hats, I did whatever I wanted to do.But when we were getting married, Marjorie said ‘Steve, where God is going to take you, you have to look different.’ I said, 'Baby, what you talking about? I'm already [successful!]'
She said, 'No Steve. God has something for you, you have to listen. He gave you me, so I could tell you this here!' I ain't lying to you, this a true story. She said, 'Put on a more traditional suit, you can make them any fabric you want to. Put two buttons on your suit, stop wearing them square bottoms, open them up in a pleat. Shorten them pants, all that!'
My wife Marjorie has transformed my life...Posted by Steve Harvey TV on Monday, February 8, 2016
Bloop! Steve also said that after Marjorie asked him how else did he see himself in terms of envisioning a "new him," he admitted he wanted to lose weight and get rid of his famous high top fade since he was "tired of getting hair cuts."
"I turned 50, I lost weight, shaved, got slimmer suits. That how all this sexy came out! [laughs] Look, that girl right there transformed me. But I had the sense to listen! I ain't gonna be on no game show, I wouldn't have a talk show, they're not putting that on TV. She saw that and she changed all of that!"
And 9 years later, Steve went from this:
Voila, magic!
Two points Steve made that really stuck out were A) that he invited the change in and B) that he embraced it.
Sometimes we sign up for something out of pressure but we hardly stick to it, so kudos to Steve for trusting in the process of his growth, through his new clothes.
However, Harvey isn't the only male public figure to be upgraded by his better half, and in some cases the upgrade is a mutual exchange. From a young Carmelo Anthony and Lala to Jay-Z and Beyonce, it's safe to say that it's very seldom when you're blessed to find your equal, but when you do, this happens:
Big Sean (2009) vs. Big Sean and ex-fiance, Naya Rivera (2013)
Carmelo Anthony and Lala (2005) vs. Carmelo and Lala (2015)
Beyonce and Jay-z (2004) vs. Beyonce and Jay-Z (2015)
Like they say, The couple that slays together...
And before anyone thinks the approach to the "New gear, new me" theory is a little on the shallow, think again. Honestly, this all comes down to one of the simplest form of the "Laws of Attraction" theory. According to author Don Samba, who has penned for than a few self-help books, it comes to bettering your brand, adjusting your wardrobe is key:
"Your appearance makes part of a statement of who you are. You will be able to attain your set goals if you cloth yourself for success from the get go. It is more to do with how you feel about yourself than what others feel about you. How comfortable and confident in your clothes will determine first and foremost the strength of energy you will be able to put out into the universe around you.If you are not confident in yourself and how you look, you will not be able to release and attain your true potential as you will be bottling up and shutting yourself down, losing who you really are and could be. Looking at some famous names out there, you will note that they did not become overnight successes all by what they specialized in. It actually ment that they had to work on themselves to gear up and tap into their true potential by dressing right."
Amen. It's all about that suit-and-tie fly!
What are your thoughts on men and women changing their lives through changing their clothes?
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Skylar Marshai Talks Hair Reset With SheaMoisture Bond Repair 'Revive & Thrive' Campaign
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Skylar Marshai is known for her extravagant style, and her hair is no exception. But now, she’s giving her hair a break and focusing on hair care with SheaMoisture’s Bond Repair Collection. “I feel like my hair has always been an extension of my storytelling because I know it's so innately linked to my self-expression that I've been thinking a lot about how my love for crafting my hair into these different forms and shapes has honestly never given it a chance to just be,” Skylar explains.
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Tyla Addresses Conversation About Her Racial Identity: 'Never Denied My Blackness'
Since Tyla became an international star following the success of "Water," there has been an ongoing conversation about her racial identity. The South African-born artist has shared that she considers herself "coloured," which is a term South Africans use to describe people who are of mixed race. However, it seems her words were taken out of context to mean that she doesn't identify as a Black woman. Also, because the word "colored" has a racist history in the U.S., a lot of Black people were outraged by her using that word to describe herself.
The conversation was brought up again after the Grammy award-winning artist's The Breakfast Club episode dropped on Thursday. Charlamagne Tha God asked her about the controversial topic, and her team immediately interjected. (It was also implied that The Breakfast Club hosts were given a list of topics to stay away from, but it appears Charlamagne ignored it.) Tyla ultimately didn't answer the question but later put out a statement on X, formerly Twitter, after the clip made its rounds on social media.
"Yoh guys," she started. "Never denied my blackness, idk where that came from... I'm mixed with black/Zulu, irish, Mauritian/Indian and Coloured. In Southa I would be classified as a Coloured woman and other places I would be classified as a black women. Race is classified differently in different parts of the world."
She continued, "I don't expect to be identified as Coloured outside of Southa by anyone not comfortable doing so because i understand the weight of that word outside of SA, But to close this conversation, I'm both Coloured in South Africa and a black women...
"As a woman for the culture. It's and not or... with that being said ASAMBEEE"
Asambe is Zulu for "let's go!"
No matter who we are or where we are, it's important to educate ourselves about what we don't know versus condemning others for being different. Hopefully, this will be Tyla's last time having to explain her race and ethnicity publicly.
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