
The film industry is notoriously one of those patchy playing fields where Black women struggle to succeed due to the intersecting obstacles of race, class and gender oppression. So when a Black woman like Shayla Cowan works her way up from being Hollywood superproducer Will Packer’s executive assistant to his chief of staff and now a producer of the 2022 Academy Awards alongside him, we have to celebrate. Shayla’s name may not be a household one just yet. Oh, but it will be.
“I'm supposed to be in this position,” Shayla told xoNecole over Zoom one sunny Saturday morning. It’s one of the few windows of time she has to chat while preparing for Hollywood’s biggest night. “I don't really get caught up too much in the hard work of it all. It's more about getting it done,” she said. We’ll get to witness all of Shayla’s and Will’s hard work pay off when the 94th Oscars airs live on ABC this Sunday, March 27 at 5PM / 8PM ET.
But we’ve already seen massive changes from the Oscars’ 93 years of being “so white.” Not only will this be the first time in history that the Oscars will be produced by an all-Black producing team, but Will and Shayla have made sure the night will be inclusive and historic, from the red carpet journalists, to the hosts and presenters and even the chefs at the famous post-Oscars Governors Ball.
This will be the first time in history that three women will host the Oscars: Regina Hall, Wanda Sykes and Amy Schumer. While Wolfgang Puck has been the chef for the Ball for years, this year, Bronx-based culinary collective Ghetto Gastro will collaborate with Puck on the menu. HBCUs will also be represented on stage with Mr. & Miss N.C. A&T University Zaria Woodford and Joshua Suiter serving as awards presenters. Following in the footsteps of Quincy Jones in 1971, Pharrell in 2012 and Questlove in 2021, Adam Blackstone will be the Oscars musical director this year. And Beyoncé, BEYONCÉ! is performing her Academy Award-nominated song from King Richard, “Be Alive.” Ok, #OscarsSoBlack!

Shayla Cowan and Will Packer at the 94th Oscars Nominee Luncheon in Hollywood
Courtesy of AMPAS
Will and Shayla’s focus for the Oscars is to make it about the people. “With what we've gone through in the last two years, it was so important for us [to do a show for the people], which we've always done with our projects because we've always had a specific demographic. But for this, it was like, one thing is for sure, across the globe, everyone loves movies. So why not bring everyone together for this special night, celebrating some of the best movies of the year with people who really have an opinion and who enjoy them?”
This is one of those stop and smell the roses moments for Shayla, who has been working with Will for over a decade. “To bring me in [as an Oscars producer], first of all, it just goes to show who [Will] is as a person…just always [with] the elevation and wanting to empower me in any way he can. I'm just forever grateful for that,” she said.
Shayla said she went from being a crew member on Will Packer Productions’ Stomp the Yard 2: Homecoming in 2008 to being Will’s executive assistant, to being his chief of staff in 2018 and now co-producer on the Oscars because of how she showed up to work. “I think the best way to describe me is consistent,” she said.
Consistency is king, especially when it’s mixed with one of Shayla’s other powerful characteristics: “I’m fearless.” It’s that fearlessness that led her to walk up to Will on the set of Stomp the Yard 2 and strike up the conversation that would change the course of her life. When the billion-dollar box office producer subsequently asked Shayla to be his executive assistant, she felt empowered enough to tell him yes, with one condition: “When you go make movies, I want to go with you.” Shayla went on to be an associate producer on box office-topping movies, Think Like A Man, Little, Girls Trip, and so many more. “We [Will Packer and I] literally built this,” she said.
The ability to build up to this magnitude in Hollywood hits different for a Black woman. Shayla shared, “I don't take it for granted. Every so often I wake up like, ‘this all could be gone tomorrow.’ So everyday I put my best foot forward to know that I am here for a reason.”
One of those reasons close to her heart is to help those coming behind her understand the business. She shared, “My job on this planet is to empower, support and connect because I am in a position to do so. Like with the Oscars, being able to bring in some of these folks, the Adam Blackstones of the world, who have done a musical moment in the show, but to be a musical director of the entire show? That's a moment!”
Shayla’s meteoric rise in the industry could be seen from the outside looking in as if she’s just been lucky, but that ain’t all it’s taken for her to get here. She said, “None of this was handed to me. Every inch of this journey literally was earned. As a Black woman in this town, it has not been easy, with all the mistakes, all the headaches, all the frustration – but also those special moments. Those history-making moments will be there forever, including this one with Will and I being the first Black producing team to produce the awards in Academy history.” Those are the moments that make her climb worth it.
When it comes to equity in the industry, “there's still more work to be done,” she said. Ever the optimist, she added, “There are more Black women in these chief of staff positions and high-level executive roles – I think we're being seen differently.”
Shayla shared a story about a woman recently asking her about being Will’s assistant despite the fact that Shayla has been his chief of staff for the past four years. “I was like, ‘Ma'am, what else do I need to do so that I can be seen as an executive?’ Not to take away from [that], because if I wasn't his assistant [first], I probably would not be in this position today, with the growth and all of the wisdom that comes with it. But sometimes I'm like, ‘What do I need to do to make sure that people know that growth has happened?’”
Whether folks see it or not, Shayla Cowan will continue rising. She’s a marvel whose Midas touch is opening Hollywood’s doors that have been locked to Black people for too long. When asked to give advice for those who see her career and want to be just like her, Shayla said, “I don't want them to be just like me. I want them to be better than me.” What she has is drive, determination and confidence, but she’s also got these other secret weapons that are her saving grace: humility and patience.
“You have to be okay with waiting for your turn. And I think oftentimes people are so quick, they just want to run to the top. You can't just run up that mountain. You’ve got to take your time. Slow and steady wins the race.” Good thing she’s a runner, she’s a track star–except when it gets hard, she faces the work and gets it done. And as Shayla continues to succeed in her career, she’s also building a beautiful life that she’s proud of. “I literally am living and dreaming in color, and I'm so happy, inside and out,” she shared. Who wouldn’t aspire to that?
Editor’s note, xoNecole is a subsidiary of Will Packer Productions.
Sleek & Heat-Proof: Straightened Hair, The Summer It List Way
This article is in partnership with SheaMoisture.
The world may try to convince you that straight hair is a no-go for the summer heat, but if you’re an It Girl, defying the odds is embedded in your DNA.
When it comes to achieving sleek strands for the summer, xoNecole and SheaMoisture have your blueprint for smooth, frizz-free, humidity and heat-damage-resistant hair throughout this season!
From hair styling oils to bond repairing products, and strengthening shampoo and conditioner, SheaMoisture offers a range of products that help you achieve the perfect silk press without worrying about the heat damage, thanks to formulas that moisturize, reduce breakage, and more.
We want your silk press to stay pressed, not stressed, so here’s our quick, three-step guide featuring SheaMoisture products from our xoNecole Summer It List for straightened hair all summer long.
Step 1: Keep Your Hair Strong
Like everything in life, if the foundation is rocky, things won’t last, and the sentiment remains when it comes to your hair.
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"I Don't Necessarily Long For That From Him": Kendrick Sampson Opens Up About His Father
We've all heard the phrase, "Men don't talk." Well, on the xoMAN podcast, they most certainly do.
When Kendrick Sampson joined Kiara Walker for this week's episode of the xoMAN, the Insecure actor peeled back layers of his childhood in Houston, his love for stories, and the complicated relationship he shares with his father.
Kendrick Sampson On Nurturing His Love For Stories
Before Kendrick became the actor and activist we all know today, he was just a kid in Houston who loved stories. So much so, he'd fall asleep most nights surrounded by books instead of stuffed animals. He admitted to Kiara that he was "super, super steeped in story" from the beginning. By the time he was in the fifth grade, he'd discovered acting through school plays. There, he found his lane.
When he told his mother he wanted to take acting seriously, she didn't discourage him or his newfound interest. Instead, she made him responsible for his dream.
"She said, 'Okay, here's a newspaper. Find an agent. I'm not going to do the work, but if you do the work, then I'll take you to class or whatever it is.'"
So the then-ten-year-old Kendrick picked up the newspaper, called an agent, and jump-started his acting career in Texas, booking commercials and auditions in Houston, Austin, and even NOLA, baby. The early encouragement gave Kendrick the confidence to pursue his calling before he had even started middle school.
On His Relationship With His Father, Distance & Feeling His Pride From Afar
While his mother's support in his dreams felt tangible, his father's was more complicated. Not one to sugarcoat anything, Kendrick kept it all the way real about the men in his life who helped shape him. After talking about the support he felt from his brothers, he shifted the focus to his father.
"My dad, my dad, my dad, my dad..." he repeated like a mantra as he searched for the right words to describe him. A Vietnam vet who grew up before segregation started in rural Louisiana, Kendrick's father was equal parts provider and enigma
"'Supportive' is a really interesting... I don't know if I could characterize it as 'supportive,'" Kendrick admitted in xoMAN. "He wasn't against it. He's very, he's very proud."
That pride, however, might've felt more elusive than anything as it didn't always show up directly.
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"He had a rough life, a very rough life. And he like fought in Vietnam. Was born in '47," he added empathetically before continuing, "He had a difficult... he was drafted, you know, orphaned... He took that into his relationships and his communication. Sometimes it was, you know, fucked up. So, you know, I wouldn't say like 'supportive,' but you know, he wasn't out of my life."
More often than not, Kendrick would hear about his father's admiration secondhand, be it from siblings or relatives that pass along stories.
"He's one of those people--and I have to watch myself because I'm kind of like this--where I'll brag about you all day, talk about you 24/7 to everybody and be like, 'Man, so and so is doing so good.'... I might not talk to you for two months... It's not no love loss. I'm not mad at you. I'm a Pisces... To me, I'm still, you're on my mind all the time. So my dad would brag about me to my siblings and other people, like he doesn't talk to me and we ain't talked in a year or whatever."
Kendrick On Learning To Understand His Father To Understand Himself
Even with the emotional distance he has experienced in loving his father and being loved by his father, Kendrick speaks about it all with a level of empathy that speaks to his wholeness and his own healing work. The complicated love he has for his father fuels his own self-awareness and shows in his ability to see it as a mirror.
"I still love him and I understand him and I wanna understand him more and more so I understand more about myself and where my flaws are, where can go, how bad my relationships can get, how harsh I can be when I say certain things and talk to people that I love and not think about it, so it makes me be more conscious."
And while he admits he probably speaks to his father more than some of the people in his father's life, what he ultimately craves from his father runs deeper.
"I don't necessarily long for that from him. I just want to know who he is at his core and what drives him and what brought him to how he was was and what I could learn from that."
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