What Your Zodiac Says About Your Style
Zo·di·ac /ˈzōdēˌak/ noun
- a belt of the heavens within about 8° either side of the ecliptic, including all apparent positions of the sun, moon, and most familiar planets. It is divided into twelve equal divisions or signs (Aries, Taurus, Gemini, Cancer, Leo, Virgo, Libra, Scorpio, Sagittarius, Capricorn, Aquarius, Pisces).
There are two types of people in this world. One who obsesses over zodiac signs and one who dreads the question, "What's your sign?"
No matter your stance on astrology, the day you were brought into this universe may bring clarity to why you are who you are. And when you add fashion to the mix, there's an added curiosity that lingers as to why you may be obsessed with your favorite dress. The stars have aligned just for you to understand your unique style.
What Your Zodiac Sign Says About Your Signature Style
ARIES Mar 20 – Apr 20
Aries are the queens of cool. While you love your classics, you have no problem keeping it street chic. Dej Loaf is an illustration of that very equilibrium. Keep the basics in rotation to remain the fashion chameleon you are.
Keys:
- Understated jewelry
- Sleek and chic staples with classic silhouettes
- Layering prints
TAURUS Apr 20 – May 21
This sign is all about comfort but they are also not afraid to stand out in the crowd. You can't live without your cozy jeans and sneakers. You are extremely fashion-forward and pride yourself on being confident and pragmatic. Much like Gabby Sidibe, you can make any look your own.
Keys:
- Statement Pieces
- Functionality
- Timelessness
GEMINI May 21 – Jun 21
Shionat is the epitome of a stylish Gemini. She will switch it up in a minute, creating a head turning reputation. Granted, Shionat is somewhat of a style icon and her stylish ways stem from her zodiac sign. With strengths like adaptability, Geminis can't stick to just one style.
Keys:
- Accessories
- Streamlined staples
- On-trend
CANCER Jun 21 – Jul 23
Cancers are highly imaginative, so you best believe they are never old-fashioned. The perfect example is Pastor Sarah Jakes Roberts. Her conviction in her faith can also be seen in her style choice. Cancers live for perennial items that provide a classic vibe.
Keys:
- Romantic and beautiful patterns
- Loves the opportunity to dress up
- Elegant and elevated staples
LEO Jul 23 – Aug 23
If you know Leos, you know they are headstrong. Their exuberance fuels their desire for challenge. This is especially present when it comes to fashion. Jennifer Lopez is a risk-taker and that is a testament to her rising Leo sun.
Keys:
- Vibrant hues
- Trendsetter
- Eccentric outfits
VIRGO Aug 23 – Sep 23
Virgos know their best side and they know how to work it. Maybe you've heard of the goddess Virgo, Beyonce Giselle Knowles-Carter – she is both ladylike and perfectly sexy. Virgos gravitate to beautiful pieces that exude confidence.
Keys:
- Grown & sexy vibes
- Tailored outlines
- Vintage pieces
LIBRA Sep 23 – Oct 23
Libras are the mix masters. This sign can take any basic staple and make it edgy. Serena makes good on this declaration because she has created her own designs to wear for the tennis court. Libras can also go from sweats and sneakers to a form-fitting dress with ease.
Keys:
- Metallic accents
- Feminine and edgy
- Fabrics like silk and suede
SCORPIO Oct 23 – Nov 22
"She was a Scorpiooooo...whew!?" Even Tyrese knows that Scorpios are baddies. The motto for this sign is "Perfection 24/7." Scorpios tend to have a uniformed style because they are creatures of habits. Gabrielle Union always manages to be feminine and never boring.
Keys:
- Structured suits
- One staple in every color
- Polished with an ounce of edge
SAGITTARIUS Nov 22 – Dec 22
A Sag's sense of humor easily translates into their style. This zodiac sign has a way of playing with colors and combining a modern spin. Nicki Minaj remains relentless in her Sagittarius tendencies because she is the queen of bold.
Keys:
- A dope pair of heels
- Bold colors
- Statement handbags
CAPRICORN Dec 22 – Jan 20
My forever First Lady, Michelle Obama is a vision of class. She is a textbook Capricorn because she is all about sophistication and simplicity. If it ain't easy, Capricorns don't have time for it.
Keys:
- Classics
- Comfortability
- Color-blocking
AQUARIUS Jan 20 – Feb 18
Aquarius = innovative. This sign has no problems experimenting with trends and the goal is always to be happy with the outcome. Your creative and unique spirit leaves room for endless possibilities in your fashion choices. Kerry Washington is a prime example of the whimsy that is the Aquarius. She defines her own style in a wild way.
Keys:
- Fun shapes
- Creative color combinations
- Rebellious and trendy
PISCES Feb 18 – Mar 20
If you're looking for style tips, ask a Pisces. Ya'll know this water sign is effortlessly chic. They are free spirits like Rihanna and they never shy away from a bold look. I am sure that you love every look Bad Gal RiRi dons because she wears it with ease and major sex appeal.
Keys:
- Bohemian flair
- Soft, flowing pieces
- Balance
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Originally published on November 22, 2018
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Joce Blake is a womanist who loves fashion, Beyonce and Hot Cheetos. The sophistiratchet enthusiast is based in Brooklyn, NY but has southern belle roots as she was born and raised in Memphis, TN. Keep up with her on Instagram @joce_blake and on Twitter @SaraJessicaBee.
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A Therapist Breaks Down The Internet's Fixation On The Black Cat-Golden Retriever Dynamic
In the realm of love and relationships, there's a growing interest in the idea of opposites attracting. This concept is gaining traction on platforms like TikTok, where users explore how different personality types interact in romantic partnerships. One popular comparison is between the "golden retriever" and "black cat" archetypes.
According to Urban Dictionary, the golden retriever, typically portrayed by men, embodies a relaxed and friendly demeanor, making relationship maintenance seem effortless. These individuals are described as easygoing, patient, loyal, socially adept, and optimistic. On TikTok, many women are intrigued by the prospect of finding partners with these qualities.
In contrast, the black cat, often represented by women, leans towards introversion and independence. They're mysterious, quiet, and introspective, preferring to be pursued rather than doing "the chasing" in relationships.
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This dichotomy reflects the anxious-avoidant attachment dynamics in psychology (pursuer-distancer cycle), where one partner seeks closeness (golden retriever) while the other values autonomy (black cat).
The Black Cat Golden Retriever Archetypes & Attachment Styles
Attachment theory suggests that early caregiving experiences shape our attachment styles, influencing how we relate to others. Anxious individuals seek reassurance, while avoidant individuals prioritize independence. However, not every instance of the black cat/golden retriever dynamic indicates underlying insecurities. Individuals can embody these personas without necessarily being insecure or exhibiting unhealthy attachment patterns.
For instance, a golden retriever's desire for closeness may come from a secure attachment style, rooted in self-worth and trust in others. Conversely, a black cat's preference for autonomy doesn't always indicate avoidance; they may simply value their independence, and it's relatively easy for them to connect and disconnect when needed. Understanding these dynamics requires personalized individual/couples assessment, ideally with a licensed therapist.
The Black Cat Golden Retriever Roles in Relationship Success
A prevailing notion in this discussion that's sparked a lot of conversation is the idea that when a woman takes on the role of the golden retriever in a relationship with a black cat partner, the dynamic is more likely to fail. (I've experienced this firsthand, even in my own past relationships, and I've seen it play out in my own life.) Conversely, when the roles are reversed, the relationship tends to thrive. But why does this happen?
Historically, men have been socialized to take on the role of the pursuer, while women are expected to be more passive recipients of romantic advances. From a biological standpoint, some researchers argue that evolutionary instincts may play a role in shaping mating behaviors. Evolutionary psychology suggests that men may be inclined to pursue potential mates to maximize their reproductive success. This perspective suggests that men may have evolved to seek out partners and compete for their attention and affection.
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Additionally, societal expectations and cultural norms can heavily influence gender roles and relationship dynamics. From a young age, boys may be socialized to take initiative, assert themselves, and pursue their romantic interests actively. On the other hand, girls may be encouraged to adopt more passive roles, waiting for suitors to express interest or make romantic gestures.
As much as there's a lot of conversation about gendered expectations and societal norms, it's crucial to recognize that these expectations aren't universally applicable. Not all individuals adhere to traditional gender norms, and people express a wide array of behaviors and preferences in romantic relationships. Research indicates that attitudes towards pursuit and courtship have evolved over time and differ across cultures.
In today's society, there's a growing recognition of the significance of mutual consent, communication, and reciprocity in romantic relationships. Many individuals, irrespective of gender, prioritize egalitarian principles and seek partnerships founded on mutual respect, understanding, and collaborative decision-making.
The Black Cat & The Problem With 'Acting' Secure in Dating
Delving deeper, there's a growing conversation surrounding the distinction between acting secure and authentically embodying security in relationships. True security stems from a deep-rooted sense of self-assurance and a healthy understanding of one's needs and boundaries. Secure individuals don't feel compelled to mask their vulnerabilities or play games to attract a partner; they attract healthy relationships by being genuine and self-assured.
Contrastingly, attempting to mimic secure behavior without addressing underlying insecurities can lead to relational pitfalls. Pretending to be nonchalant or aloof may initially attract a partner, but it ultimately creates a façade that crumbles under the weight of emotional triggers and unresolved attachment wounds.
Authenticity and vulnerability form the bedrock of secure relationships, fostering trust and mutual understanding.
Most importantly, whether you identify as a black cat or a golden retriever in relationships, it's best to find someone who genuinely loves you for who you are. Connect with people who appreciate you instead of engaging in games or "acting secure," because even secure individuals have vulnerabilities and weaknesses. People need to see the real you to truly connect with you.
Transitioning from acting secure to being secure requires introspection and self-awareness. Here are some tangible tips to cultivate genuine security in relationships:
1. Reframe Your Beliefs About Love and Relationships:
Challenge any negative beliefs or misconceptions you may hold about love and relationships. Recognize that healthy relationships are built on mutual respect, trust, and compatibility, rather than scarcity or desperation.
Cultivate a mindset of abundance, believing that there are plenty of opportunities for meaningful connections and fulfilling partnerships; you just have to be the person you want to attract and refrain from entertaining anything less.
2. Develop Self-Confidence:
Invest in building your self-confidence and self-worth independent of external validation or romantic relationships. Foster a sense of independence and autonomy in your life. Develop interests, goals, and aspirations that are separate from your romantic relationships, and invest in your personal growth and development. Engage in activities and hobbies that bring you joy and fulfillment, and don’t abandon those hobbies just because you met someone new or you’re in a new relationship.
3. Set Realistic Expectations:
Avoid placing unrealistic expectations on yourself or your partner in relationships. Recognize that no relationship is perfect, and both partners will inevitably experience challenges and setbacks. Instead of striving for perfection, focus on building a strong foundation of mutual respect, understanding, and communication. Embrace the ups and downs of relationships as opportunities for growth and learning.
4. Emotional Regulation:
Develop healthy coping mechanisms for managing emotions and navigating conflict constructively. Prioritize self-care and cultivate resilience in the face of challenges.
5. Practice Patience and Acceptance:
Understand that finding a compatible partner and building a fulfilling relationship takes time and patience. Avoid rushing into relationships out of desperation or fear of being alone. Trust in the process and have faith that the right person will come into your life at the right time. Practice acceptance of yourself and others, recognizing that everyone has their own journey and timeline when it comes to love and relationships.
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