

The Desk Warrior’s Guide To Stretching
I spend at least 8 hours a day at my desk, usually more. I'll get sucked into my daily tasks and projects, and next thing I know I've been working for 4 hours straight without any movement.
Within a year of my first office job, the consequences of such little movement started to appear. I began suffering from lower back pain, my body always felt stiff, and my sleep began to suffer as well.
Once I began my fitness journey, I realized that what I did in the gym wasn't enough. I had to stay mindful of my body and my wellness at all times, especially while at work.
If you work in an office environment, chances are you may be suffering from the same side effects caused by sitting for extended periods. If this story resonates with you, here are some stretches you can incorporate into your day-to-day desk warrior lifestyle in order to minimize pain and maximize energy.
Lunge
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The lunge targets your hip flexors. Tight or weak hip flexors can lead to poor posture and lower back pain, so it's important to give your hips the TLC it deserves so you can slay the day.
How To: Widen your stance in a lunge formation and keep your feet shoulder-width apart. Place your hands on your hips and inhale as you pull your belly button. As you exhale, squeeze your glutes, and push your hips forward. Do this for 10-15 seconds on each leg.
Cross Body Stretch
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Staring at a screen all day will tighten the muscles around your shoulder and neck, building up tension and potentially causing headaches. Do the cross body stretch to alleviate this tension.
How To: Bring your arm across your chest and use your other arm to stretch it across your body. Keep your elbow below shoulder height. Hold for 30 seconds and repeat with your other arm.
Plank
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The plank strengthens the core muscles that support you and control your spine and pelvis. While this move is usually nobody's favorite stretch, the plank is an essential tool to strengthen your foundation.
How To: Place your forearms on the ground, keeping your elbows directly beneath shoulders. Your arms should be parallel to your body and shoulder width apart. Keeping your back straight, tighten your core, and hold for 30 seconds.
Incorporate these three simple stretches into your daily routine, and you'll be able to kill it at your job without killing your body in the process!
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Public health specialist turned wellness coach Charlene Izere helps busy female entrepreneurs turn wellness into an accessible lifestyle. Founder of the BossFit Method, Charlene teaches on health + wealth, routine optimization, and mindset shaping so that her “BossFit Tribe" can maximize their income and impact. When she's not strategizing with her clients or speaking at events, Charlene enjoys playing video games, making cocktails, and binge watching Love & Hip Hop. Follow her on Instagram @charleneizere.
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La La Anthony Shares How She Manages Burnout And Her Go-To Self-Care Tools
If you look up the definition of ‘boss’ in the dictionary, an image of La La Anthony is bound to appear.
The mother, actress, and new skincare founder has added the title of “leading lady” to her list of hyphenates with shows like BMFand Power under her belt. But with so much many boss moves to manage, one can only wonder how she manages to get it all done — while making it look so effortless.
In an interview with BET.com, the businesswoman unpacked her perspective of self-care as someone fully immersed in her at-home and on-screen duties.
“My form of self-care [is] turning my phone off. That's something I just implemented not too long ago at night once I'm ready for bed. And that's something I never did,” she says, adding. “Self-care is a night of uninterrupted sleep because my phone will go off all night, and I work crazy hours. To be able to sleep and not have the phone constantly waking me up is a form of self-care.”
She notes that the lack of sleep and overworking has contributed to her experiencing burnout and emphasizes the importance of taking care of herself as someone always on-call and in high demand. But with healthy boundary setting and showing up for her needs, she’s been able to work towards striking a balance.
“Sometimes I'm like, ‘Okay, I'm there for everybody. I have to be there for myself as well.’ And I just stop and say, ‘What did I do these last couple of days that [made] me feel like that? What can I do differently?” she explains. “A lot of times for me, it really is a lack of sleep [and] staying up really late, waking up super early, or working really late. I have to remind myself why something as simple as sleep is so important.”
When you’re someone as high-profile as La La, having moments where you feel like you’re being spread too thin is inevitable. However, saying ‘no’ before you reach a point of burnout is an act of self-care that aids in the prevention of future fatigue.
She later acknowledges her past struggles with setting these boundaries out of the desire to always be there for everyone and avoid disappointing others. However, she soon realized the importance of taking care of herself first and that if she's not at her best, she can't fully show up for anyone else.
“I was a person that did not know how to say no. [I] never want to disappoint people. I think that's the cancer in me, like never wanting to disappoint people, always wanting to be there,” she says. “But if I'm not at my best, I can't be great for anyone. So utilizing and being okay with saying ‘no’ sometimes is something that I'm still learning but getting better at.”
If we can take a page out of La La’s book, learning to say ‘no’ and creating boundaries is a process that will always have room to grow, but understanding its significance is the key to a well-rounded and balanced state of well-being.
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