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9 Sex Positions For The Naughty & The Nice
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9 Sex Positions For The Naughty & The Nice

We're making a list and checking it twice.

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'Tis the season of giving and we're feeling all the feels. As we well know by now the cold weather, aka cuffing season, comes with a desire for warming snuggles and even warmer sex to get us through the seemingly long winter months. We've never been to the north pole, but if reindeer games are anything like a Pokemon match, then we choose to get our Vixen on all day long.


That said, if you have yet to do so, it's time to go right on ahead and lockdown your winter bae because you aren't gonna wanna miss out. With any luck and (maybe some stretching), you'll be doing way more than kissing Santa Claus under that mistletoe.

Yeah, sure, Santa is making lists and checking it twice or whatever. But here at xoNecole we have our own list and it's giving seductive holiday cheer and loving.

We found 9 new sex positions to try both inside and outside of the bedroom — tapping into the naughty and the nice…because...balance. So. Dim the lights, plug in that pretty tree, and get it lit with a warm fire to set a nice little mood and let the sex overwhelm you with so much pleasure that you glow brighter than Rudolph in the days following.

9 Sex Positions That Are Both Naughty & Nice

1.Sister, Sled

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Obviously, there's an obsession with using the face of our partners to have a seat but nothing says fun and new like this sex position. If the cave men could look at photos and get a whole read, we're going to do our best to describe the best way to execute this here sex position. Your partner needs to have a seat on the floor placing their hands behind them to steady themselves and bending their legs at the knees (they should be able to make a 90-degree angle when they lift). You want to sit on your partner's lap and hoist your legs onto their shoulders, while "hugging" their neck. Once secured, your partner will slowly begin to rise and get into position for you to slow grind on bae.

2.Rockettes to Waterfalls

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Don't shoot the messenger but we won't even hold you — this position is for the limber ladies. This position was created with a doorway in mind so you'll want to find one for maximum support. In a slight crouching position, you want to face inward towards your partner, back towards the door. Your partner will then straddle your legs (one on each side of their waist) and lean into the doorway, making a slight angle. With their support keeping you balanced, you will throw your leg onto your partner's shoulder steadying yourself with your one leg. Your partner should hold your waist and you can place your hands over theirs to offer more stability.

This position offers a bomb opportunity for your partner to stimulate your clitoris and breasts.

3.Polar Express

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...and the first stop is the south pole. And you're going to travel the distance with this variation of 69. It's really simple! Just have your partner sit on the loveseat with their feet planted on the ground. You will then stand on the couch and place each foot on the side of their hips and boom, bend over and hold onto their hips for support. Let 'em eat it from the back and take them into your mouth or...just watch the show.

Sidenote: This is probably why generations of grannies keep their furniture covered in plastic.

4.Santa's Helper

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Pull up a chair, have your partner sit in it and straddle them, while keeping your legs bent so that your feet are resting on their lap.

5.Sleigh Me

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For this position, you're going to let your partner take the reins! Grab your stability ball, lie down on it, and place your hands firmly on the ball (but be sure that your arms aren't locked out). Much like in a wheelbarrow position, your partner will stand in between your legs, grab behind your knees and slightly lift your lower back.

6.Reindeer Games

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Set yourself up as if you're going for a traditional doggystyle but make sure your knees straddle apart (a bit past shoulder width). Your partner is going to scootch in close to you, lie on their back and roll into a fetal-like position, grabbing each of his knees and pulling them inward. This position gives a similar sensation to doggystyle but far more control...it's a doggystyle-girl on top hybrid.

7.Jingle Bell Rock

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Have a seat on the edge of a couch or chair. When your partner crouches down, they will need to kneel on both knees so that you place your foot into their spine. When you're settled, lean back just a bit so that you're sitting at an angle. This will increase sensation in the same way that placing a pillow under your lower back does, which is critical to ensuring we're receiving top-tier..top. Awaken all 5,000 plus nerves in the clitoris.

8.Elf on the Shelf

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Nana's lazy boy is more fun to play with than any of us ever imagined as kids. Hint, hint: you need a rather large chair with comfy armrests for this exhilarating position. Your partner will sit in their chair crossing their feet at the ankles. You will sit on them, facing them with one thigh placed on each armrest. Your partner and you both will appreciate the intimacy of this position.

9.Cookies à la carte

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If you have a standard size kitchenette — it's your time to shine. For this sex position, you just want to pull the chair from underneath the table just enough for your partner to be able to reach you. So it may be helpful for you to climb on the table first. Once you're up there, sit on your knees allowing your feet to touch (like a butterfly stretch). Your partner will have a seat in the chair with their legs straddling the backrest of the chair. From this point, you all want to lean into one another and you will hold onto the top of the chair. Your partner can lean into your vulva and rest their head onto the table (between your legs). Nom, nom!

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