The Sagittarius woman is known for her love of adventure, and she recognizes the Leo man is someone who can match her energy. These are two fire signs that share a lot in common and both have a generous heart. With the Sagittarius woman's bold style and the Leo man's love for all things eye-catching, this makes a mutually supportive, creative, and charismatic couple.
Sagittarius is ruled by benevolent, expansive, and blessed Jupiter. Leo is ruled by a confident, joyful, and energetic Sun, so you can see how these two go well together. There are a lot of good vibes between the Sagittarius woman and Leo man, but is this heat strong enough to last forever?
Leo Man and Sagittarius Woman Love Compatibility
Leo Man Sagittarius Woman Attraction
Sagittarius and Leo are attracted to each other's charm, aura, and style; these two have an almost instant connection. This is a physically and aesthetically attractive couple, and they are often catching the eyes of not only each other but of others as well. The Leo man lets the Sagittarius woman know right away how fond he is of her, and although Sagittarius may feel he is not her type at first, once Leo lets loose a little and shows off his more goofy and fun side- the Sagittarius woman is all in.
Sagittarius women love adventure, but they also put learning, expanding the mind, and growing personally and spiritually at the same level of importance in their lives. This works well in a relationship with a Leo and what attracts her to him so much is that Leo men love to feel like they can teach someone something or can give personal advice or wisdom.
This is not to say that Sagittarius won’t teach Leo a few things as well, but with Sagittarius constantly seeking, they find someone willing to give and be receptive to that in Leo.
Sagittarius Woman Leo Man Relationship
Sagittarius and Leo make a fun couple. This is a couple that will have no problem spending time with each other and enjoying each other’s company, and will most likely spend a lot of that time around other people as well; having fun, going out, and living life to the fullest. This is a couple who wants to be where things are happening, and there is a lot of life, creativity, and energy in this pairing.
Two fire signs in a relationship are a powerhouse, and they feel enlivened here.
Since both of these individuals are bold, expressive, and have a dynamic personality, things can get pretty heated easily here as well, however. They are dramatic when it comes to the love they show each other, and also dramatic when it comes to their challenges with one another as well. This type of love tends to be all-consuming as there is so much energy and passion flowing between them. This is a couple that would love to travel together, explore, learn, grow, and go after mutual goals together, and there will rarely be a dull moment here.
Leo Man Sagittarius Woman Sexually
The sex life between these two is truly heated. This is a couple who often has no problem in the bedroom, and they are a sexy duo. They love to dress up, role-play, and play with different versions of domination and submission. They will have no problem showing their love and affection to each other and are very compatible with one another physically.
The Sagittarius woman is open-minded and is looking to feel something at the end of the day. The Leo man may be a little more reserved than most would expect in the bedroom, but when it comes to Sagittarius, they feel more at ease to let loose and have fun. These two tend to have a healthy sex life in the relationship.
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Sagittarius Woman Leo Man Relationship Compatibility
The Sagittarius woman and Leo man live a good life together. The relationship works for both of them because they both tend to see life with a similar lens. They are confident and courageous souls, and they don’t bring self-doubt into the connection which is often what ruins a good thing. The Sagittarius woman and Leo man both know how to give themselves what they need and they aren’t looking for anything but an equal or partner in love.
They are both outgoing people who let each other be themselves and have their own voice, and there is a certain freedom in this relationship where they can both breathe and enjoy life as individuals and together.
Sagittarius and Leo create a warm and loving life together. They are optimistic and playful people at heart and feel blessed in this relationship. They have a lot of similarities in life but also respect each other's differences as well. There is something unique and intriguing about both of these souls, and there is constantly more to know, understand, and experience with each other. This is a relationship where they love to inspire one another, live life to the fullest, travel, and experience all that life has to offer.
Leo Man Sagittarius Woman Break Up
The Sagittarius woman puts fun experiences at the top of her to-do list every day and although the Leo man loves an adventure as well, he is also a little more strict when it comes to schedules and responsibilities, which Sagittarius is not. At the end of the day, this is a mutable sign woman and a fixed sign man, and they do things very differently. Their flow is very different from each other, even if they are both fire signs. Not to mention, arguments and disagreements can soon become very heated and what once was a beautiful bonfire of a relationship, can easily turn into a volcano.
The thing about the Sagittarius woman is that she doesn’t mind being alone. She is not yearning for a relationship like most others are, and the only way she would even let her heart in that space is if she finds someone she feels can keep up with her and not restrict her in any way.
The Leo man loves to conquer and may see this relationship as his next victory rather than his next true love. He wants to be adored and worshiped even, and the Sagittarius woman is off doing her own thing, not succumbing to this man who believes he is royalty. Leo loves the chase in this relationship, but that won’t be enough to make things work in the long run.
Overview: Sagittarius Woman Leo Man Love Compatibility
This demanding duo is loving, generous, fun, and a little dramatic. There is a mutual appreciation for one another that doesn’t go missed and they are overall very supportive and encouraging of one another, which is the foundation for any successful relationship. This relationship is full of grand, romantic gestures, and their love is felt between them and anyone who crosses their path can see it as well.
With any relationship, there are challenges to work through, and here they will need to put their egos aside in the relationship to make things work. However, all in all, this is a good match for both of them.
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Tayler Barakat is a Mystic who has studied Astrology for over a decade. She does intuitive astrology and tarot readings for people all over the world, and her work focuses on healing and empowering individuals. Follow her on Instagram @taylerbarakat_ and check out her website www.listentothevirgo.com.
Exclusive: Melanie Fiona On Making High-Vibrational Music & Saying Yes To Partnership
Melanie Fiona is back! After taking a little more than a decade-long hiatus, she has officially made her return to music and blessed us with two singles, “Say Yes” and “I Choose You.” While both singles are very different from each other, they both reflect who she is today and the type of music she wants to make. In our conversation, the mom of two expressed what she learned during her time away.
“It's interesting, even when I said it is like coming back, I don't ever feel like I really left because I was always still performing. I've still been public. It's not like I went into being this recluse person or version of myself, but the thing that I really learned in this process is that I think things take time,” Melanie says in a xoNecole exclusive.
“I think often we're so caught up in it, being on the timing of demand or popularity, or, like, striking while the iron is hot and the thing that I've learned is that everything is on God's time. That's it. Every time I thought I would have been ready, or, like, things were taking too long, I had to reship some things, personally, professionally, in my life. I also gave myself permission to make a living, not just make a living, but make a life for myself.”
Making a life for herself included getting married to Grammy-nominated songwriter Jared Cotter, starting a family, and embracing new landscapes, such as podcasting as a co-host of The Mama’s Den podcast. She also began doing more spiritual work and self-care practices like meditation, sound healing, Reiki, acupuncture, and boundary setting, which allowed her to get in touch with her inner voice.
“I wasn't putting out music, and I wasn't experiencing a number one record, but I was being a number one mom,” she says.
“I was experiencing things that were allowing me to heal and get in touch with myself so that I could make new music from a space of joy and freedom, and excitement again because I definitely feel like I did lose some excitement because of just politics and industry and what it can do to your mental health and even your physical health. So giving myself the space to really just say, ‘Hey, it's okay. Everything's right on time.’”
The joy and excitement are felt in one of two new singles, “I Choose You,” which is more of a lovers rock vibe, a tribute to Melanie’s Caribbean roots. While the Grammy award-winner is known for ballads like “It Kills Me” and “Fool For You,” she is becoming more intentional about the music she makes, calling it high-vibrational music. She says her music is a “reflection of my life,” as it captures every facet, from hanging out with friends to riding around in her car.
“Say Yes” has the classic R&B vibe Melanie is known for. However, both songs are inspired by her relationship. Melanie and Jared got married in December 2020, and the Toronto-bred artist dished on their relationship. Fun fact: he is featured in the “Say Yes” music video.
“When we first started dating, I had come into that relationship post a lot of self-work. I had gotten out of a long-term relationship, I had a year and a half to date and be by myself and do a lot of work on myself alone. And when we met, I remember feeling like this has to be my person because I feel it,” she says.
“And so when we went into that relationship, and we started dating, I was very clear. I was like, I know what I want. I'm very clear on what I need, and I'm not going to withhold my truth about myself in this process because of pride or fear of rejection. I know you love me, but I'm coming with my heart in my hand to let you know that if we're gonna get there, we have to put fear aside and say yes. So that was kind of like my open letter to him, which is why the video is us having a conversation.”
Melanie also shares that saying yes to her partner has empowered her in many ways, including motherhood and showing up for herself. Her new EP, also titled Say Yes, will be available at the top of 2025.
Check out the full interview below.
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Although I’m not exactly sure that writing about sex as much as I do was on my life’s work bingo card back in the day, I must admit that it has always been a topic that has fascinated me. I think it’s because, even though society likes to gaslight us by acting like the act is “no biggie,” there is way too much data out here that says otherwise. Hmph. Not like I needed the data in the first place because, in my opinion, any act that is responsible for creating life, that is something that is a pretty BIG deal.
So, today? Today, we’re going to tackle how sex impacts us when it comes to our energy fields. What (mostly) inspired this is once reading a science-based article about how it is a fact and not a myth that just like plants can absorb energy from other plants, humans can do the same thing by being in the space of other human beings. And when you stop to really think about it, doesn’t that make all of the sense in the world?
Otherwise, there wouldn’t be terms out here like “peer pressure” and big grown folks wouldn’t be out here trying to look and act just like some of their favorite celebrities or IG influencers (and yet, on that point, I digress).
So, since energy impacts us in some pretty significant ways, let’s take a few moments to see how it goes down when it comes to copulation — just so that you’re (even more) aware of what you’re getting yourself into when you “do the do,” as far as your personal energy space is concerned.
Energy. Revisited.
GiphyOkay, so before we get all up in how energy is exchanged during sexual activity, what is energy as it relates to human beings, in general? Well, in some ways, it all depends on who you ask. For instance, the famed Greek philosopher Aristotle once said that energy is about having the capacity to do something. Some medical experts say that energy is all about how something impacts you on a mental or physical level.
For instance, negative energy tends to be very heavy and draining while positive energy can increase feel-good chemicals throughout your system which makes it easier for you to do things like be creative and problem-solve. Something else that I think is important to keep in mind as far as human energy goes is it’s impacted by a myriad of things including a person’s stress levels, how healthy a person is, what their life choices are (as far as how their decisions influence them) and even what their sleep patterns are like.
And if all of this is true, then something else that Aristotle once said about energy would be beyond accurate: “The energy of the mind is the essence of life.”
Energy is life. Whew, so if this is indeed the case, does this mean that when you choose to have sex with someone, you are sharing your life force — whatever state that may be — with someone as they are doing the same to/for/with you? YES.
What Does It Mean to Exchange Sexual Energy?
GiphySince I grew up in an entertainment industry household, I think that’s probably why I’ve ended up with some close friends who are in the industry as well. That said, I will never forget when I was talking to one of them one day about a particular artist. When I expressed how much sex appeal that she had, my (male) friend simply said, “Yeah, I’ve been in her presence a few times before. She has some really dark energy. I didn’t even hug her.”
Now from a scientific standpoint, dark energy is simply what causes the universe to accelerate in growth over a certain period of time; however, when a person is described to have dark energy, that usually means that they have an evil and/or negative and/or heavy and/or draining aura about them. And y’all, here’s what’s semi-wild about what he said: did you know that science backs that hugs do indeed transfer energy?
Yep, research reveals that a hug from someone can literally alter your brain and body chemistry — so you definitely need to be discerning about who you let up into your affection space. Straight up. And so, since a hug has the capacity to do that, how much more can SEX?
To further emphasize this, let’s begin with an article that I read on Healthline’s website entitled, “Do We Really Exchange Energy During Sex?” After checking it out, one of the main things that I appreciated was when a doctor who was interviewed for the piece said:
“Every sex act is an exchange of energy [because] every sexual act raises or lowers your energy level…Therefore, a sexual relationship isn’t a purely psychological or physiological, mechanical act…Rather, it’s an energetic action. When we have an intimate relationship with someone, the two energies merge.”
Okay, so according to science, when two people have sex, energies merge. Well, according to Scripture, when two people have sex, oneness transpires (Genesis 2:24-25). Let’s keep going.
There was once a Physician-scientist by the name of Wilhelm Reich (who actually died in prison, in part, because of his radical beliefs on sex and orgasms during his time), who once said that having a healthy sex life (which, to him, including orgasms and is what he referred to as “orgastic potency”) is what played a huge role in one’s emotional health and well-being. That’s because, to him, without the release of sexual energy, neurological disorders would be come to be.
My takeaway from this is when you think about the fact that things like serotonin, dopamine, and the “the bonding chemical” oxytocin are all released during sex (and most certainly during orgasms), and also since sex (and orgasms) reduce stress — you need to tend to your sexual energy for the sake of your holistic health. Let’s continue on.
After reading an article on sexual energy on Cosmo’s website in which one of the sex therapists said that “our sexuality is our power" and then reading an article on the same topic on Well + Good’s platform where another expert stated that, “Many belief systems believe sexual energy is an expression of the soul's connection to the cosmos and the rest of the universe”, I thought about the word “power” and then “soul connection.”
At the end of the day, power isn’t just ability but the capability to influence and even take authority over something or someone. And a soul connection? Several years ago, when I penned a piece for the platform entitled, “I’ve Got Some Ways For You To Start Pampering Your Soul,” one of the things that I made sure to emphasize is your soul IS also your life. This means that soul connections are life connections.
And so, it would appear that sharing sexual energy also means that you are making a life connection with someone. And that type of connection has the power to influence you in ways that you couldn’t even begin to imagine. That is how deep exchanging sexual energy is.
What You Should Always Keep in Mind Before Sharing Sexual Energy with Someone Else
GiphyNow are there degrees to this whole sexual energy thing? Of course. The type of connection that a husband and wife of 20 years can make via sex is very different than a one-night stand. However, it would appear that science believes that it doesn’t really matter what you tell yourself about sex with someone (or even how many condoms you may use during sex) — potent energy is exchanged regardless.
That’s a huge part of the reason why I will forever roll my eyes about how ridiculous “casual sex” sounds to me, because, although I do believe that it is very possible to engage in coitus that has no real purpose (casual is purposeless, by definition), what isn’t possible is for there not to be a significant connection made from a scientific standpoint. Because again, if a mere hug can alter you (shoot, a handshake too), do you really think that allowing a man’s penis into the sacred space known as your vagina will not? After reading all of this…do you really?
When it comes to energy, author T. Harv Eker once said, “Energy is contagious: either you affect people or you infect people.” With all that was just shared about sexual energy, each and every person you choose to “engage” with, they are either going to affect you or infect you — just with their energy alone.
Knowing this, if there was ever a time to choose wisely, this would be it.
Your energy is your power. Who you exchange power with? CHOOSE WISELY.
EVERY. SINGLE. PERSON.
And because energy can shift…be cognizant of what you’re doing…EVERY. SINGLE. TIME.
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