Last year, while on a sister trip to Paris, my sister and I found ourselves gagging at what we found in the local sex shops after watching a midnight show at the Moulin Rouge.
I was amazed at the number of options available. One of the stores we went in was the size of a department store - think Macy's in Herald Square in New York but full of dildos, sleeves and all of the dominatrix-esque lingerie you've ever seen. As a souvenir, I purchased my first bullet at a whopping $6. What's the point of window shopping at a store like that? My boyfriend and I tried it one night and I was instantly hooked! It became a regular part of our sexual trysts. But not everyone is open to the idea of bringing a third party into their bedroom.
If you've been in a relationship for some time, things can get to be routine. You become so comfortable with each other that the bedroom department can get bland. Who has time to waste for that?! I'm trying to be like Rihanna - sex with me should be amazing! When it comes to intimate time with your mate, I believe in complete freedom. There should be no inhibitions. Using a toy or two to switch things up and add an extra layer of pleasure can do wonders for you and your relationship. So let your hair and walls (pun intended) down with these added trinkets:
The days of furry handcuffs meant only for bedroom domination are long gone. These stylish cuffs come with a removable strap so they can be worn as an accessory, like bracelets (or if you have a small neck like me, even a choker) to a night out on the town with your love that can quickly turn into wrist restraints for your homemade movie. The fun part about wearing them out is that only you and your partner know what they are actually for. Kinky!
Don't just stop here. Make it a complete couple's experience and go to the nearest play shop with your partner so that you can both pick out toys you'll equally enjoy. Too bashful to go into a store? Online always works!
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