What to get the girl who has it all? That's the question when we're holiday shopping for ourselves, our girlfriends, or our girl friends. It doesn't help that nobody asks you for a Christmas list when you become an adult. And as nice as it can be to treat yourself and others, the question remains. Yet the answer is rather easy! Something. ANYTHING. That might enhance sex is always, always a win. Lauryn Hill once asked, "How you gon' win when you ain't right within?" You simply cannot, but little did she know, an orgasm was the key to the get-right.
And because I want all of us to win this holiday season, I sifted through the net to find the most highly-rated pleasure enhancers to get either yourself or whoever. Just like that, the holidays just got a whole lot more fun because Christmas came early and so will the lucky recipients of these 7 items featured on this holiday gift guide. As you know, the real Santa drives an Amazon delivery van rather than a sleigh, and gets delivered in record time with Prime delivery. That said, I wanted to do the Lord's work and make sure everything here could be found on Amazon -- everything ranging from bedroom amenities to bedroom essentials like, say, lube.
Nevertheless, this list will awaken the naughtiness in any "good" girl.
Easy Access Portable Thigh Restraint Sling for Fetish Sex Bondage Unisex
Amazon
We all know that it's next-level pleasure when you're in the missionary position and your partner hoists your legs up so that you can feel the penetration deeper. Well, if you're into the BDSM side of sex, this contraption is a lovely way to provide a more submissive sexual experience, restricting your ability to physically control speed and such.
Sensual Massage Therapy Oil
Amazon
The catalyst to good sex is a bomb massage. That's undeniable! Using a massage oil opens the door to providing next-level massages, but especially with the orgamsic scents featured in this collection: Honey Glaze, Spiced Vanilla Glaze, and Spiced Cocoa Glaze.
Avidlove Women Kimono Robe Floral Lace Babydoll Lingerie Sheer Mesh Nightgown
Amazon
Not only are robes a good sexy touch for when you're trying to bring the seductive vibes, but the pro tip lies in wearing your robe while you masturbate and covering your vulva with a piece of it and using your vibrator over it. The texture change will blow your mind.
Pure Love Original Couples Vibrator
Amazon
The couple that plays together, stays together. This is a modern spin on the cock ring! It provides dual stimulation for both parties, offering seven vibration frequencies.
Uberlube Lubricant
Amazon
Lube is essential to all sexaul experiences, but I will die on the hill that is Uberlube Lubricant. The top-rated lubricant has an amazing silky texture, is latex-safe, and doubles as a massage oil.
Sexy Handcuffs with Anal Plug
Amazon
For those of you who enjoy handcuffs but are maybe looking to level up to something slightly more kinky, you might want to try out this cuff-butt plug combo. The long chain provides some flexibility and comfort, so you're not forced to be a pretzel the entire time.
Romantic Rose Women's Vibrator Pleasure Clîtoral Stimulation Toy
Amazon
The whole internet is on fire over this one! This toy provides a sensation reminiscent of oral sex with its "sucking" feature. You may have heard of other toys like this but apparently this one has the game on lock.
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In her cover story with Interview, the billionaire songstress opens up about her relationship with Rocky, sharing how they got together and whether she wants more kids. Here are the highlights:
Rihanna On A$AP Rocky's Style
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"Isn’t he the best? I be feeling bummy as shit next to this man. I feel like, goddamn, I look like his assistant. I’m getting on a plane. We should be in sweats. He wants to be in a full Bottega suit. I’m like, “Why you got to do that to me?”
Rihanna On Performing with A$AP Rocky for the First Time
Rihanna explained how the Harlem rapper "grabbed my ass" during their 2012 VMA performance, but she didn't get mad. “Ah, nah.” That’s why everybody was like, “Oh my god. She likes him.”
Rihanna On When She And A$AP Rocky Began Dating
"We saw fashion the same. We saw creative the same. We ended up in the same circles a lot. And past that, when we grew up, we ended up supporting each other’s brands and products and creative all the time. I would wear his shit, he would show up to my launches. But it wasn’t until the end of 2019—"
Rihanna on Dating With Caution
"No! We’ve known each other for a long time. I’ve seen him in relationships. He’s seen me in relationships. We’ve seen each other outside of relationships. We knew what we’re capable of, and the trouble that we could bring to each other’s lives. We can make or break each other’s hearts. And so, we started dating with a lot of caution.
I just let whatever was supposed to happen, happen. It was just, “This is a flower. It’s either going to die or blossom. But I’m going to let it decide itself.”
Rihanna on How COVID Sped Up Her Relationship with A$AP Rocky
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"COVID sped up our relationship, which I felt like god knew we needed because we were going to start a family. And had it not been for COVID, we would’ve taken a lot more time to get comfortable with each other, to even know that we were ready."
Rihanna on Letting Go In Her Relationship with A$AP Rocky
"I let god lead and just let go. Because in previous relationships, I tried and tried and tried my best, and you still feel like it’s not enough. So when someone sees you completely, and believes in you, and thinks you’re worthy of being the mother of their kids, it’s a great feeling. I felt the same about him. I knew he would be a great dad."
Rihanna on Wanting More Kids
"I don’t know what god wants, but I would go for more than two. I would try for my girl. But of course if it’s another boy, it’s another boy."
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