Why I Am No Longer Using Washcloths & Loofahs To Shower
There has always been something about washcloths and loofahs that has kicked my undiagnosed germaphobia into overdrive. It never mattered what family member’s household that I bathed in, the one thing that stayed the same was washcloths and loofahs scattered throughout the bathroom. Some were stiff as cardboard, and others that, according to the smell, probably should have been thrown into the washer at least a few weeks ago.
Out of fear of someone’s germs getting into my washcloth, I always made sure mine was unique in pattern so no one would ever have to mistake theirs for mine. I even made it a habit to put mine in a more secluded part of the bathroom and change it out frequently. None of these things, unfortunately, ever worked in my favor before I lived on my own. I transitioned from washcloths to loofahs as a teen, but still I was very suspicious of not only who could have mistaken (or purposely) used my washing device, but also what could be living in it.
Everyday after high school, I would run home to watch The Tyra Banks Show. I couldn't wait to see everyday what the next debate or interesting interview would be about. I will never forget on an episode titled “We're Putting Race In Your Face” featuring a multicultural panel answering the race related questions, there was a video question asking why do black people more often use washcloths in comparison to their white counterparts. The panelists responses to that question may have changed my views of using washcloths, something that the women of my family strongly forced on me.
Question: "When I’m in the shower, I have to use a washcloth. It gets in all of the nooks and crannies…but my white friends don't use them. What’s up with that?”
Response:“I don't want to have all the nook and cranny juice hanging around in our shower all day long… I think It comes down to germs… (Bar) soap doesn't get dirty.”
The panelist clearly couldn't speak for anyone but herself, but she really did get me to thinking. While, I’m not for wiping down my body with the same bar of soap as someone else, I can definitely see why one would opt of using washcloths. Dermatologists also have similar views when it comes to using washing devices such as washcloths, loofahs and sponges. According to a Huffington Postarticle about mistakes people make when showering, using these devices are a major no-no. “Puffs and loofahs do grow bacteria and mold and should be thrown out after four weeks,” Debra Jaliman, M.D. told Huffington Post. Cotton washcloths are the better option considering that people are more likely to replace them on a regular basis, but most people don't change them out as frequently as they should.
When it comes to washing with sponges, loofahs and washcloths, there’s more than growing bacteria in these devices and spreading the bacteria over your body to worry about. A bacteria infested washing device can lead to a skin condition called pseudomonas folliculitis, a community-acquired skin infection cause by the colonization of bacteria in hair follicles. While the disease is not super serious and will go away on its own, it is super uncomfortable and may cause irritation in the skin and lots of itching.
After so many years of using washcloths and loofahs I haven’t totally abandoned them, but it is not unusual for me to choose to wash without one on any given day. If you still aren’t convinced that washing without the use of a washcloth, loofah or anything else of that nature, here are some things to keep in mind:
- Change out your loofah or sponge every 3-4 weeks to avoid spreading bacteria; they also can be cleaned once a week by soaking them in diluted bleach for 5 minutes. Mesh loofahs are more resistant to bacteria and can be held on to for up to 8 weeks.
- Don't use the same washcloth on your body that you do on your face. This may spread bacteria from your “nooks and crannies” to you face and cause many unwanted breakouts.
- Don't share washcloths with other people no matter how close you are to them. I don't think we have to describe in detail the dangers associated with this.
- While some dermatologists argue that washcloths become so heavily soiled in just one use that it should be washed immediately, generally you are safe if change them out every 3-4 days or so. Having the same damp washcloth for days at a time is surely an invitation for bacteria and mold.
Most people won't jump at the thought of washing with their bare hands, but let's make sure that when we're washing, we're actually getting clean and not putting more dirt and bacteria on our bodies.
What are your thoughts on the hands vs. washing device scenario? We’d love to hear your opinions about it.
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It’s almost that time when the girlies are gonna be hopping in the chair to get the most popular style of the warmer seasons: goddess braids. Goddess braids are not just a hairstyle; they're a statement of elegance, power, and divine beauty. Whether you've recently adorned yourself with these stunning braids or are considering them, one thing remains certain: maintaining them is key to preserving their splendor. In this guide, we'll delve into the art of maintaining goddess braids, ensuring they remain flawless for longer periods.
Let’s start with some pro tips from Breanna Knights, a Brooklyn-based stylist with over a decade of experience in the beauty and fashion industry, specializing in goddess braids. She takes pride in maintaining the beauty and longevity of her clients' goddess braids, focusing on ensuring their scalp and curls remain healthy and hydrated.
Knights’ expertise extends to understanding the tension level, hydration needs, and proper cleansing techniques for goddess braids.
Hydration Is Key:
Moisture is essential for maintaining the integrity of your goddess braids. Use a lightweight leave-in conditioner or moisturizing spray to hydrate your scalp and braids. Pay attention to the ends of the braids, as they tend to be the driest part. Avoid heavy products that can weigh down the braids and cause buildup.
“To maintain neatness and longevity for goddess braid styles, I recommend treating the goddess hair just as you would your natural curls," Knights tells us. "This consists of putting up your hair at night in a bonnet. I also encourage using mousse or a bottle of water mixed with conditioner to make the curls bounce back. These two options depend on if the curls are a synthetic blend, or if it’s 100% human hair."
When it comes to keeping the goddess curls refreshed and hydrated, Knights’ favorite mousse brands include:
Bumble and bumble's Bb Curl Mousse
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Bumble and bumble's Bb Curl Mousse is a lightweight mousse that enhances curls with a blend of oils and butters, providing long-lasting volume, and bounce without stiffness.
The Vigorol Mousse Olive Oil
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The Vigorol Mousse Olive Oil is a fave amongst the girlies. Reviewers say, “Product works well taming frizzy curls as well smoothing natural hair, human hair, and synthetic crochet or individual braided hair. Adds shine without looking or feeling greasy.”
Knights also recommends using Creme of Nature Argan Oil Intensive Conditioning Treatment mixed with water in a spray bottle. “These products are sure to bring curls back to life," she adds.
If you’re looking for particular techniques or tricks to alleviate tension or discomfort often associated with wearing goddess braids, Knights shares that knotless goddess braids are usually done with less tension at the scalp, rather than traditional braids. “I highly suggest gauging tightness throughout your braiding session with your stylist. Should your braids end up too tight, one of my favorite go-to's is the Bumble and bumble’s Hairdresser's Invisible Oil. It provides a cool sensation on the scalp, without over saturating the scalp with oil,” Knights says.
The stylist also suggests a spray bottle with water to relieve tension. Additionally, less styling in the first few days of installing the braids to avoid scalp irritation.
Gentle Cleansing:
One topic that can be confusing when committing to goddess braids is the washing process. Should I wash my braids? How often should I wash them? We had all the questions, and Knights came with the tea. “Everyone’s wash [day] routine is different. To each client’s discernment, by weeks 3-4, if your scalp is itchy or shows signs of dandruff, it would be safe to wash your braids.
"I highly recommend paying more attention to the scalp rather than the braids itself. Keeping the braids up in a bun while saturating the scalp will keep the curls from matting and tangling during the wash process. After washing the scalp I recommend reapplying mousse and tying the hair down with a scarf to help tame any frizz that may occur after washing.”
Protect Your Crown:
One of the biggest keys to the longevity of goddess braids is having a braid bonnet and shower cap to ensure that the braids are dry. Invest in a satin or silk bonnet or scarf to protect your goddess braids while you sleep. Cotton pillowcases can cause friction, leading to frizz and flyaways. Additionally, tying your braids with a silk scarf can help preserve their shape and prevent them from unraveling.
“Combing through the loose curls with your fingers and having a routine to ensure that the hair isn't matting or entangling into one another can help with longevity as well," Knights shares. "The same way you’d care for your curls after a successful wash day would also promote the longevity for any 'goddess' style!”
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Regular Touch-ups:
As your natural hair grows, your goddess braids may begin to loosen or develop new growth around the edges. Schedule regular touch-up appointments with your hairstylist to re-braid the edges and ensure a seamless look. Avoid leaving braids in for too long, as this can cause tension on the scalp and lead to breakage.
Minimize Manipulation:
While it's tempting to constantly touch and style your goddess braids, excessive manipulation can lead to frizz and premature loosening. Limit the use of styling tools and refrain from pulling or tugging on the braids. Embrace the natural beauty of your braids and allow them to flourish with minimal interference.
Nourish from Within:
Maintaining healthy hair starts from within. Ensure you're consuming a balanced diet rich in vitamins, minerals, and hydration to promote hair growth and vitality. Incorporate foods such as fruits, vegetables, lean proteins, and plenty of water into your daily routine for optimal hair health.
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