Singer Chrystian Lehr On Why Social Media Is The Biggest Problem With Modern Dating

Meet Chrystian Lehr

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Meet Chrystian Lehr.

Chrystian Lehr is an Ohio native whose musical talent has garnered the attention of millions of fans. His insane vocals propelled him into the spotlight at just 16 years old when he appeared on the BET show 106 & Park. Since then, the 6'3'' singing sensation has continued to make his mark in the entertainment industry, thanks in part to his viral musical mashups and most recently he starred alongside Ella Mai for her music video, "Shot Clock". His current album, OFFLINE, is available to stream now.

Indulge responsibly ladies…

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On the Top Qualities He Looks For in a Woman…

"Honesty, attractiveness, confidence, ambition, and a sense of humor."

On His Ideal Date…

"My ideal date is going somewhere where we can have a good drink and good conversation, which is more rare than you would think."

On What He's Learned From His Last Serious Relationship…

"It taught me to trust my intuition and that communication is KEY."

On His Relationship Deal Breakers…

"Dishonesty, bad hygiene, and if you're unmotivated."

Courtesy of Chrystian Lehr

On the Toughest Part about Dating Nowadays…

"SOCIAL MEDIA. Everybody knows about your day before you get to ask them personally. We've lost important social skills and in some ways a sense of reality."

On How He Makes His Special Woman Feel Loved…

"I give compliments, which is an underutilized MUST. I also give my time and attention. And gifts never hurt anyone!"

On the First Thing He Notices about a Woman when She Walks into a Room…

"If it's from a distance, I'm looking at [her] body off rip (laughs). But if it's closer, then I'm looking at the details."

His Relationship Status…

"I'm single."

For more of Chrystian, follow him on Instagram.

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